Just some thoughts.
Just thinking over all the years of friends who have met people for fun or try new kinky things and then received no aftercare. This actively turns people off exploring sometimes. It should go without saying we usually meet fellow kinky people via a social or an event or munch, so why not treat aftercare the same?
No matter how disrespectful or rough the play or kink may be, once the play or fantasy is over nothing says ''I know it's not real and I respect you'' like a cuddle or a check in or God forbid a conversation talking about how they feel after maybe trying a brand new kink, pushing boundaries or going totally out of their comfort zones.
The same goes for the day after. Someone might say they are fine after play with you there but an evening to process or think about it may leave some folks a bit shaken or unsure so for goodness sake be a good human and message the day after even if its just a ''Hello'', ''How are you?'' or ''Just messaging to check you feel all good about what we did yesterday/last night''
If nothing else remember this. If you show you respect someone and their kinks... You might get asked to try more with the right people.
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