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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fwb would be a nice thing, but it seems a lot aren't into that, so I will just settle for the fuck and forget scenario. Although I am always open to repeat performances |
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By *atnSol OP Couple
over a year ago
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We are still new to this lifestyle and there's a certain amount of of nerves that are present with meeting, our confidence isn't quite there for fuck and forget so friends with benefits is a hugely more comfortable option, we understand the risks of emotional attachment but in many ways that's something we both can accept as a potential, especially with another couple who are equally comfortable with the whole polyamory aspects that may occure from a friends with benefits scenario, ultimately I feel we as a couple are solid in our relationship we never planned any of this, it's not a thing we are doing for anything but a good time and an adventure, the thing we want is to feel we are wanted and desired as much as we feel towards anyone we play with, but it is definitely a minefield of potential emotions that is for sure. |
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When we get meet requests we always turn them down as we do not relationships to develop. This why we only play at places such as Eureka, sex clubs, saunas and dogging. Sometimes at places where we go frequently guys that have played with my wife before will want to play again, which is fine, but occasionally it is necessary to dissuade them as they have become possessive. |
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