As with every one of these threads it depends on your definition of a timewaster.
My definition is someone who gets in touch with be while they obviously haven't read my profile or taken heed of my preferences.
They are just wasting their own time and not mine. |
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It can come in different forms...
I've personally had someone talk for a while, and then we arranged a meeting after I had moved work shifts around to accommodate them, and then on the morning of the meeting, they asked if I was still coming. I replied and then drove the 45 mins to the agreed location, only for them to be a no-show with no communication since.
To me, that's the actual definition.
When speaking with couples I've played with, they note that they have similar episodes. It seems to be the guys that do this. Maybe a lot want the 'fantasy' of the lifestyle, and then when it comes down to it, they haven't got the balls.
Either way, time wasters are a pain of the scene, which I don't think will ever go away, unfortunately. However, that's what I like about the verification /review section of FAB. |
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"We’ve all had no shows, some more than others like me..
I guess they bottle it  "
We haven't all had no shows.
I've never had one in six years and from all the previous threads on this subject I'm far from unique as lots of people have said they have never had a no show in all their time here.
I don't put that down to luck. |
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We have come to accept almost every guy can flake at the last minute.
L had a social meet with one afternoon with a guy, they got intimate in his car, he was invited round the next morning.
He even called during the evening to confirm it was ok to be at ours for 10am.
She got bathed and dressed up, and waited, and waited. Messaged him and nothing until an hour later “sorry can’t make it this morning, can we rearrange for this afternoon?” No time was given but he never contacted again.
That’s just one example of guys ruining it for the genuine ones as it really put her off for a while. She thought it was her fault cos he didn’t like her  |
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"Always going to be a risk using an online platform. Clubs are a better option. "
a case in point. had arranged a meet with a guy last night. good communication for a few days. including whatsapp group but nothing from yesterday morning. we’re off to kestrels on sunday now. that’s why alot of couples go to clubs. very frustrating |
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I had one recently where I drive about 20 miles for a meet and then no one came outside. Then got messages from the male saying the Mrs wont meet unless he sucks me off to completion first  |
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"I had one recently where I drive about 20 miles for a meet and then no one came outside. Then got messages from the male saying the Mrs wont meet unless he sucks me off to completion first "
This is very common, there's an incredible amount of fake couples profiles. There's also a lot of real couples profiles that are very Male driven. Some will arrange to meet but the Wife doesn't even know. We actually met a couple for a social and the Wife didn't even know they'd messaged us. |
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Thankfully we have had the ones who backed out days before instead of being no shows. There are loads of talkers on here who just want the trill of the chase or just want to get their rocks off alone. Don’t be put off by them just keep a positive mind and carry on. |
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