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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on what you're asking for? As a solo fem I'd like to think I'm always absolutely respectful of a couples dynamic. However I've had a few couples attempt to take the piss out of me?... One party (generally male), will try to establish a side chat, fem will decide she doesn't actually like the dynamics of I get along better with the male... Lots & lots of 'rules/boundaries', which is fine by me, & I'm more than happy to discuss where everyone stands. But if they then start changing goal posts half way through?... I'm sorry, but I'm a human being, you're not paying for my time, I make my own choices too |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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I always respect the couples I meet, Both wife and husband as the way I see it. we are all in it together, its all for fun and they have allowed me to be the lucky one in joining them.
Whats not to respect?
I know when I was part of a swing couple.
If anyone showed us disrespect, They would be out the door! Man , woman or couple. |
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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Depends on what you're asking for? As a solo fem I'd like to think I'm always absolutely respectful of a couples dynamic. However I've had a few couples attempt to take the piss out of me?... One party (generally male), will try to establish a side chat, fem will decide she doesn't actually like the dynamics of I get along better with the male... Lots & lots of 'rules/boundaries', which is fine by me, & I'm more than happy to discuss where everyone stands. But if they then start changing goal posts half way through?... I'm sorry, but I'm a human being, you're not paying for my time, I make my own choices too "
Utterly, respect should be between all, have experienced the 'sidechat/sideline one us' previously |
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By *eyeY OP Couple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"I always respect the couples I meet, Both wife and husband as the way I see it. we are all in it together, its all for fun and they have allowed me to be the lucky one in joining them.
Whats not to respect?
I know when I was part of a swing couple.
If anyone showed us disrespect, They would be out the door! Man , woman or couple."
As your verifications attest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on what you're asking for? As a solo fem I'd like to think I'm always absolutely respectful of a couples dynamic. However I've had a few couples attempt to take the piss out of me?... One party (generally male), will try to establish a side chat, fem will decide she doesn't actually like the dynamics of I get along better with the male... Lots & lots of 'rules/boundaries', which is fine by me, & I'm more than happy to discuss where everyone stands. But if they then start changing goal posts half way through?... I'm sorry, but I'm a human being, you're not paying for my time, I make my own choices too
Utterly, respect should be between all, have experienced the 'sidechat/sideline one us' previously "
Absolutely, and it's awful if you think you've made a great connection with both parties from a couple. My view these days is if a group chat can't be formed, then I'm not prepared to enter into chat  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've actually been as blunt as to say "we assume we're both invited? Only it feels one may be surplus to requirements.." "
If we feel like this we would ask the question but never meet them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm playing with a couple, their relationship comes first, always.
A couple needs to have a good, strong relationship if they want to play with others. If I think they don't, I'll walk away rather than risk contributing to their break-up.
If a couple has a profile here, I'll always deal with them as a couple. If they want me to meet one of them alone, that's fine, but not before I meet them both! |
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For me it's all about bringing a couple even closer together in shared pleasure. Be it with a cuckold or stag and Vixen couple. I love to see them gazing lovingly into each others eyes as you use/pleasure them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think respect should go all 3 ways and all 3 parties should be having as much fun as the rest. We care about the lady joining us and her pleasure just as much as our own.
We want to explore but we want to explore WITH someone, not using someone to explore.
Hard finding someone where we all click but it’s always worth it when the right lady comes along! Group chats, group chats and side chats, it’s all good with us as long as everyone’s open, honest and having fun |
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