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Guys who dislike giving anal sex?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anal is a massive turn off for me. Turns my stomach.
Each to their own and all that, but even suggesting it to me will result in things being brought to a swift end. |
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"Anal is a massive turn off for me. Turns my stomach.
Each to their own and all that, but even suggesting it to me will result in things being brought to a swift end."
I have a few male friends that are same and find the concept of anal play abhorrent as it’s a waste exit |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there any guys that dislike giving anal sex? Or is that a myth?   "
With a lot of lube it can be very nice (as long as the recipient really enjoys it, rather than feels they ought to 'agree')
However, for me vaginal sex is much better |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really not fussed about it because women have what I find a much more exciting place a few centimetres above.
Having said that I was one cock in a very enjoyable DP session once. |
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I was greeted with a look of disgust from one male friend when I was telling him of a previous partner and her liking of anal.
He just couldn’t understand why any (straight male) would wish to probe a females ‘Poop-shute’ - cleaning a shit smeared dick after. |
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Only 1 or 2 inches of tightness (from her sphincter) - then you begin pushing her ‘brown-stuff’ about (if she was unprepared and didn’t try and ‘squeeze one out’).
Whereas as pussy will be less tightness - but at least there’s the sensation all around the cock when thrusting in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really depends on the person now doesn't it.
Crazy concept.
Do I want to launch myself at every arse I see, thankfully not. Fetching everyday staples from the supermarket is trifling enough.
I should really go to a office supplies store instead. |
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Its not a natural act and as (s)cat play revolts me, I can understand why many may not like anything to do with back door related activity such as anal or rimming etc.
However, I do like it (giving) to my lady only. Its a private area of our partnership though I am happy to let other men play and enter her.
The porn industry is however totally besotted with anal and its everywhere to the point you see so much, you begin to think its a norm as opposed a deviant act (arguably) |
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Most men I've encountered have been into anal.
But then, I have a fabulous ass and crap tits, so the people who are attracted to me in the first place tend to be arse people. And that sample may be more open to the idea of anal sex than the people more drawn to good tits. |
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"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.
But then, I have a fabulous ass and crap tits, so the people who are attracted to me in the first place tend to be arse people. And that sample may be more open to the idea of anal sex than the people more drawn to good tits."
Boobies look just fine  |
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"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.
But then, I have a fabulous ass and crap tits, so the people who are attracted to me in the first place tend to be arse people. And that sample may be more open to the idea of anal sex than the people more drawn to good tits.
Boobies look just fine "
They're fine, but they don't compare to the arse so. |
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"Most men I've encountered have been into anal.
But then, I have a fabulous ass and crap tits, so the people who are attracted to me in the first place tend to be arse people. And that sample may be more open to the idea of anal sex than the people more drawn to good tits.
Boobies look just fine
They're fine, but they don't compare to the arse so."
More boob pic needed but look great… also loving those lips… |
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By *pandjMan
over a year ago
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Prefer vaginal sex by far especially if the anal is a "it's my first time" and a bit awkward for all involved. If the lady loves it a lot then can be good fun as her enjoyment turns me on.
My vanilla mates and brother who haven't tried it are dying too and pester their other halves. They're not missing much tbh. |
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Not feeling the arousal for giving it, though I guess I'd give it a try if it was a woman asking. Difficult enough to manage with vaginal penetration (it's a trans body dysphoria thing, I try to do the best with the equipment I possess, but the more aware I become of what's happening "down there" the less likely it is to keep working  ).
Only been on the receiving end a couple of times and found it deeply unsatisfying. I just about start feeling that it could get good, then it's all over with, he's cum and gone. Maybe men try harder with women, or even with other men, but my experience is that with trans they don't worry much about if it's any good for me.
I know that I'm untypical for fab, but for me the most pleasure these days comes from oral. |
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Wasn't really into it until I felt somone orgasm while I was deep inside them. The muscles spasming and moaning,squeezing your cock and clenching around you. I feels like they're pulling you deeper and pushing you out at the same time. So different from any vaginal orgasm that it's difficult to really compare.
But it's only pleasurable when your partner really enjoys it  |
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Am an arse man and love anal.
When I was with my ex I was surprised at the amount of guys we meet who didn't like anal, she had a near perfect arse and some guys still said no to fucking it.
One guy told me about "the poop" thing that put him off anal and I told him that she always deeply douches, he looked at me with an eeeeww look of disgust on his face, there's no pleasing some people |
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"Am an arse man and love anal.
When I was with my ex I was surprised at the amount of guys we meet who didn't like anal, she had a near perfect arse and some guys still said no to fucking it.
One guy told me about "the poop" thing that put him off anal and I told him that she always deeply douches, he looked at me with an eeeeww look of disgust on his face, there's no pleasing some people "
Find it hard to believe  each to there own |
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I suppose it’s just the thought of doing something that’s so bloody WRONG that ignites my interest.
I find gliding into her exit hole face-to-face where you can see her pussy a real turn-on.
I’ve fucked her (long-time partner) rectum whilst using a vibrator on her pussy to ensure she receives some pleasure, cuz I was unsure if a bout of anal was stimulating her (she informed me she preferred a more conventional pounding anyway), & there’s no way I’d take it that way (or ANY way).
But I think I’ve said before: everyone will have a different opinion. |
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We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however
We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well  |
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We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however
We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well |
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"Good set of pussy lips around your cock as got to be better than a arse shortly?"
Not always mate! Sometimes the backdoor feels better than the front, sometimes it’s like having two pussies to fuck, and sometimes it’s really handy when Mother Nature calls…. |
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"We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however
We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well "
Maybe it should be noted that when anythings been in an anal cavity it should be CLEANED before it’s inserted in her pussy (a previous girlfriend was a stickler for that). |
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"We enjoy it, but understand it isn't for everyone...however
We don't get why cleanliness comes into it, of course it should be clean, the same goes for vaginal sex, quite alot of different and yucky things come out of there as well
Maybe it should be noted that when anythings been in an anal cavity it should be CLEANED before it’s inserted in her pussy (a previous girlfriend was a stickler for that)."
ATM does the trick |
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Think it’s really simple from a guys point of view. If the lady likes it then why wouldn’t you unless you really have an aversion to it.
I’ve said many times that M was quite open with me from the start that she liked it. Think her words were “the back door is always open”.
I was a bit taken aback and it was a while before we actually did it. Since then we have done it more than a few times and she does really enjoy it and it does bring some amazing and different orgasms for her.
That said if she hadn’t have told me I would never have asked for it.
But then the same goes for our D/s relationship  |
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Only tried it once, about 4 yrs ago.i mentioned to my then partner that I would like to try, she agreed.
It was clearly painful for her, which didn't help me, and whilst watching my dick sliding in and out, it quickly became covered in poo!
Never again! No thanks. |
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I really don't like the idea of it, only because poo comes out of there. I killed the mood with a woman I was with once, during sex she suggested I put it up her bum I involuntarily shouted "eww no!"
Killed all play and ended the night with blue balls.  |
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"Only tried it once, about 4 yrs ago.i mentioned to my then partner that I would like to try, she agreed.
It was clearly painful for her, which didn't help me, and whilst watching my dick sliding in and out, it quickly became covered in poo!
Never again! No thanks."
that’s because you done it wrong anal takes a lot of prep . If we plan to do anal Mrs will have breakfast that day but that’s it she makes sure to empty her bowels and about 30 minutes before she has a shower and a good internal clean . Then during play we use plenty of good lube and anal play with but plugs fingers and my tongue before she’s ready for full penetration |
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By *rLicksMan 2 weeks ago
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Enjoy it but probably more for the hints of taboo (although these days it seems not at all) but the preparations and general “arsing” about (like what I did there? ) take the shine off it a bit.
If I never experienced it again in my life would I be particularly bothered or feel I’ve missed out…. Nope not at all |
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As a lover and connoisseur of V+A DP (and TP airtight), I have to admit to being somewhat of a fan.
Outside of multiple partner things, I don't mind either way. I've certainly met girls that loved it, as well as those that wouldn't entertain it. I'm also quite girthy, so that takes it off the menu with some for sure. |
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"I love doing it! But it has to be done right… cleaning out first of all and then plenty of lubricants!!! How can you not like that? "
I used to fuck an experienced female anally with no lubricant (‘done’ her bum about 50 times of so, & her pussy only 3 times she was so into ana)! |
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So I've found this recently. My wife's sister, who is particularly close to us, was complaining about her frustration the other day as her fiance refuses to try anal.
According to him it's "wrong" and I was shocked, especially seeing as she has an amazing ass
I was tempted to offer my assistance but thought that would just get me slapped 😂 |
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"So I've found this recently. My wife's sister, who is particularly close to us, was complaining about her frustration the other day as her fiance refuses to
I was tempted to offer my assistance but thought that would just get me slapped 😂"
Well, please inform her that I’m available? |
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