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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?"
You discuss it a great lengths with your partner so it's something that you are both comfortable with and if still not feeling it don't do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a simple first question, does the idea turn you both on?
After that it's a little like getting a tattoo.
You can either jump right in and maybe regret it further down the line or wait a while and see if it's still as big of a turn on as when you originally discussed the idea.
If the answer is yes to the second then chances are you will fit into the lifestyle without a problem. |
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"How do you know if your ready to share your partner with another person what if you feel like you want to but regret it after?"
The fact that you are asking is probably a good reason to not do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does she want to ? If so and your going to use this site then youll have to come clean that your on here while been with her ,
Think how you feel is tge least of your worries if thats the case x |
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By *orthernJayMan
over a year ago
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"It's a simple first question, does the idea turn you both on?
After that it's a little like getting a tattoo.
You can either jump right in and maybe regret it further down the line or wait a while and see if it's still as big of a turn on as when you originally discussed the idea.
If the answer is yes to the second then chances are you will fit into the lifestyle without a problem."
That’s a great answer for the OP  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you for your opinion I don't really feel I would be to fussed about it if it wasn't for me.. the thought of giving it a try is never far from mind tho ??"
Do you have a partner who wants to swing? |
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Discuss it, discuss boundaries etc
If it's something you both want to try give it a go, the one thing I'll say is you need good communication, honesty and you can't unsee what you see so if there's any doubts or you can't be open and honest then don't do it.
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Yeah I guess so I mean the thought of it turns me on and sounds all great but will need to a good think about it maybe try get her to come to after dark one night to check out the atmosphere and realise it's not crazy lol |
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