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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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how come people lay down rules in the swinging scene,then when the play starts,the rules are broken by the people that started the rules in the first place.this has happened to us on many occasions x |
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we have very few rules but they never get broken by us.
We did have one couple who when we chatted said we all agreed no DP for her or mrs scoobs (we had not done it by this time and mrs scoobs wanted to try it with a single guy first) and anal play for me (male).
Met them and 20 mins into play couples missus said "right come on I want DP" there was that awkward few seconds till I said no |
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By *iewMan
over a year ago
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do you mean boundaries on a profile versus those that are set when you actually meet up....
I would take anything on a profile with a pinch of salt... but would for sure agree boundaries before play starts..
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"how come people lay down rules in the swinging scene,then when the play starts,the rules are broken by the people that started the rules in the first place.this has happened to us on many occasions x"
I would imagine that it's because people are hypocritical and that theory never works out in practise.
Most people would agree on a speed limit that stops kids being killed if they got hit by a car, but on the way to work in the morning running slighty late those same people with those kids will not hesitate to go 4 or 5 miles an hour over that limit to get them to school.
Nature of being human I'm afraid. At least here it just means they break a no kissing rule, or condoms rule. No where near as serious.
Why whats the situation. |
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