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"I’m not sure. I asked for boundary’s at the start and the reply was ‘everything and anything. I’m filthy’.
And it was pretty vanilla at that point.
(Which is why it happened maybe)??"
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again. "
1: No I'am not a twat and you shouldn't label other men and generalise us.
2: Yes it is a womans right to block as well as couple, men, TS, TV/CD's, non gender specific all have the same right.
3: Why should anybody tell you why.
4: If you have to be told why, then you act the way someone else wants you to and this is disingenuous, why wuold you also want to lie to yourself and be someone your not. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again.
1: No I'am not a twat and you shouldn't label other men and generalise us.
2: Yes it is a womans right to block as well as couple, men, TS, TV/CD's, non gender specific all have the same right.
3: Why should anybody tell you why.
4: If you have to be told why, then you act the way someone else wants you to and this is disingenuous, why wuold you also want to lie to yourself and be someone your not."
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again.
1: No I'am not a twat and you shouldn't label other men and generalise us.
2: Yes it is a womans right to block as well as couple, men, TS, TV/CD's, non gender specific all have the same right.
3: Why should anybody tell you why.
4: If you have to be told why, then you act the way someone else wants you to and this is disingenuous, why wuold you also want to lie to yourself and be someone your not.
Was going to say most of this but you have it covered so it's saves me typing it "
Sometimes you just have to try and work it out yourself OP.
If you feel you've done nothing wrong then maybe you haven't. I've you think you may have said something they took offence to then that's your starting point.
Either way you'll never know. Over analysing and dwelling won't change a thing.
Just move on.
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"I’ve been blocked by people on here that I’m not aware I’ve ever spoken to. It is what it is. "
Same. Sometimes I click on the profile out of curiosity just to find out I’ve been blocked, without any recollection of interacting with them, it is what it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I block guys that haven’t taken no for an answer. I get that they forgot they messaged us before but it just gets irritating tbh. I would only block without explaining if I’m seriously offended |
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"I’ve been blocked by people on here that I’m not aware I’ve ever spoken to. It is what it is.
Same. Sometimes I click on the profile out of curiosity just to find out I’ve been blocked, without any recollection of interacting with them, it is what it is. "
There’s reasons other than the assumed negatives (WHY don’t they like me?!) - they might know you in work life, have vanilla friends in common, go to the same gym, kids at the same school - some innocuous fluffy stuff that some Fab people just use the Block button for. Also I have spoken to couples where the block button was used because the couple / single was too hot / too attractive and were afraid of relationships being strained…
Don’t dwell on it, select your next willing victim(s)…   |
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I use block when it's obvious the person telling me what they want when it is not what we want.
Or if thier photos put us off.
Or if their veris put us off.
Or if they are being a pest or too pushy and so on...
If we get blocked we laugh about it.
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"i use the block button every day its my main tool for fab mostly pre blocking i am damm sure i owe nobody a reason for why i blocked them ? "
I just checked to see if I have been pre blocked and I can confirm this is definitely an accurate statement |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again. "
No. Women aren't your support humans. |
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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago
East London |
You couldn't hold a decent conversation.
You weren't interesting.
You said something that grated on me.
You tries to steer the conversation towards a sexual one.
You lied about not smoking/not accommodating.
She went off the idea of having sex with a stranger.
It was a man looking for an easy wank.
You said something disparaging about someone else you'd met.
There's a few reasons off the too of my head that may be why.
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"i use the block button every day its my main tool for fab mostly pre blocking i am damm sure i owe nobody a reason for why i blocked them ?
I just checked to see if I have been pre blocked and I can confirm this is definitely an accurate statement "
alot of who get blocked have done nothing wrong at all and many are just good guys but they are just not for me ... i sure ive been blocked by many but i dont care we are all here for different reasons my main number one reason is to meet |
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"i use the block button every day its my main tool for fab mostly pre blocking i am damm sure i owe nobody a reason for why i blocked them ?
I just checked to see if I have been pre blocked and I can confirm this is definitely an accurate statement
alot of who get blocked have done nothing wrong at all and many are just good guys but they are just not for me ... i sure ive been blocked by many but i dont care we are all here for different reasons my main number one reason is to meet"
I get it and I am cool with it. I do the same.
I do find it amusing to look on profiles I know I haven’t interacted with and to see that I am blocked. |
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"I’ve been blocked by people on here that I’m not aware I’ve ever spoken to. It is what it is.
Same. Sometimes I click on the profile out of curiosity just to find out I’ve been blocked, without any recollection of interacting with them, it is what it is. "
Who in their right mind would block you…. |
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"I’ve been blocked by people on here that I’m not aware I’ve ever spoken to. It is what it is.
Same. Sometimes I click on the profile out of curiosity just to find out I’ve been blocked, without any recollection of interacting with them, it is what it is.
Who in their right mind would block you…."
People I’m not what they are looking for? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again. "
Not. How. It. Works.
Entitlement isn't the best thing here. |
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i seem to have been clocked by someone who for the last week, we’ve been talking and getting on very well, nothing changed in our convo, was messaging last night, they last messaged me, then this morning, blocked, is what it is i suppose, i have no idea why, and will probably never know. or i’ll maybe tell myself they’ve been suspended and they never blocked me haha |
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"I get it.
Men are twats and is is every woman’s right to end a chat and block midway through.
But please ladies. At least tell us why so we won’t be twats again.
Women get blocked too."
Very much so.
Often because we have nothing in common but just as often for being twats. |
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Often no rhyme or reason why a person might block you.
One guy sent me abusive messages, thinking I would like them because I am mostly submissive. Then he blocked me!
I find people who don't have much of a sense of humour often block.
Just best to move on and don't wonder why you were blocked
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"Often no rhyme or reason why a person might block you.
One guy sent me abusive messages, thinking I would like them because I am mostly submissive. Then he blocked me!
I find people who don't have much of a sense of humour often block.
Just best to move on and don't wonder why you were blocked
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I have a great sense of humour and think it's hilarious when people try and tell me how to run my own profile and who I should or should not chat to so I'm always blocking with a smile on my face |
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If you get blocked, get over it.
We are not all compatible
If they he she decides No, then hitting the block button just saves time all round.
If someone blocks me, I don't analyse the reasoning behind their decision. |
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People block for different reasons. If it's a pattern for you then you might want to do some introspection. Put yourself in the person you messaged shoes and think about how you come across in your profile and messages.
Some people use blocks as a filter, they didn't block you because they think you're a terrible person, they blocked you because you're not compatible.
I only really block people when they send the same copy paste message every week or keep messaging and I haven't replied to any of them. I've blocked a few forums users who I think are morons but it's only a few. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"People block for different reasons. If it's a pattern for you then you might want to do some introspection. Put yourself in the person you messaged shoes and think about how you come across in your profile and messages.
Some people use blocks as a filter, they didn't block you because they think you're a terrible person, they blocked you because you're not compatible.
I only really block people when they send the same copy paste message every week or keep messaging and I haven't replied to any of them. I've blocked a few forums users who I think are morons but it's only a few."
This reeks of common sense lol |
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This right here, couldn't have said it better.
"People block for different reasons. If it's a pattern for you then you might want to do some introspection. Put yourself in the person you messaged shoes and think about how you come across in your profile and messages.
Some people use blocks as a filter, they didn't block you because they think you're a terrible person, they blocked you because you're not compatible.
I only really block people when they send the same copy paste message every week or keep messaging and I haven't replied to any of them. I've blocked a few forums users who I think are morons but it's only a few."
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
My reasons include:
Pests who keep messaging after a no ta.
Those who pester to meet.
Men who just want sex chat more pics.
Those who say something that's a red flag in a message .
Telling me what to do /wear if we met
Lies.
Also those who jump on every status update I make ,just no it's creepy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The first line on my profile says that if you use a certain work in your message I will delete and block.
Still it amazes me how many guys still use that word. Just goes to show you have not read my profile. |
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Here and on the other site I block people I’m Not interested in.
Might be I definitely don’t fancy them or drugs ref, I’m definitely not what they are looking for or attitude. Just a way of avoiding bumping into them. |
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