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"We wouldn’t but it could potentially tempt away a few of the “here’s some more reasons we hate single men” crowd. "
This was my reason for asking, I'm always ready status of "600 messages from guys over night" etc, I'm sure there are a lot of ladies/couples who would be happy to be able to login and not have to sieve through. Obviously I understand a lot of couples and ladies want single guys, but from seeing on here, I think the earlier is the case
Is there a gap in the market maybe? |
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By *YoukiikMan
over a year ago
West London |
Single man is not an insult.
I appreciate some are pushy, uninventive or struggle with rejection. And that takes it toll for the masses. But the majority are well behaved and make this site the amazing platform it is.
This is a swingers site. Every gender, kink, partnership status (or lack of) should be encouraged and welcomed. For the benefits of all.
People can filter criteria they are interested in. |
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"So, if there was a swinging site that only allowed couples/single ladies to join, that had to be verified to create a profile/Message, Would anyone join it?
Purely hypothetical......"
I think we would. There's nothing stopping us from being a member of different sites and looking for different things on each.
There are people on this site, who are also on fetish sites. It doesn't mean they aren't looking for what this site offers too. It simple means they can choose from a smaller pool of people when then want to involve themselves with that fetish.
This would be the same with a 'No Single Men' website. We could use that site during times we aren't looking for guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We need a steady supply of good single guys, so we would prefer single guys to remain. We would just prefer it if dick pics were not showed on profiles but could be shared only on request. I understand that others like them but they're not for us.
We've met some great single guys via Fab. |
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"Single man is not an insult.
I appreciate some are pushy, uninventive or struggle with rejection. And that takes it toll for the masses. But the majority are well behaved and make this site the amazing platform it is.
This is a swingers site. Every gender, kink, partnership status (or lack of) should be encouraged and welcomed. For the benefits of all.
People can filter criteria they are interested in. "
I can understand your perception about the majority of single men are well behaved etc. however from our experience this is simply not the case. As you are a single guy you are not receiving the same message or from the same people so you have no experience of what this site is like for couples recently. I’m assuming and only assuming that the majority of your experience with other single guys is in within a club environment where there are limited numbers, rules, these guys are generally more experienced, security around and examples of correct behaviour and how to present yourself. Should you not follow these your night, reputation and any chance of playing will be zero. Now take all of that away, open it up to thousands of d*unk, inexperienced, uneducated and horny single guys who the majority think that just cause a woman or couple or on this site the woman is a slut and up for anything, the male partner is a simp and Cuck and they are gods gift and doing you both a favour even though they couldn’t even be bothered to read your profile. That’s what this site offers the majority of couples on here. Which I agree is very difficult and frustrating for the genuine single males, but do not for one minute think you guys are the majority, because truth is you are dwarfed in comparison. |
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Probably would but still remain a member on here and another international site where we can still look for single guy's. Sometimes a full inbox from single guys only is frustrating especially when you're looking to meet couples only that particular weekend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nope. Be as bad as the club night I went to with another lady friend. It was a couples and single ladies night but we found that we were either scowled at like we shouldn't be there or were treated like prey |
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
alpha centauri |
"So, if there was a swinging site that only allowed couples/single ladies to join, that had to be verified to create a profile/Message, Would anyone join it?
Purely hypothetical......"
Definitely not.
I like finding the single male equivalent of a diamond in the rough on here.
Also some couples (not all couples before people start saying 'we don't act/think like that") some couples view single woman just as a means to achieve their fantasy of a mff threesome, which is why we get called unicorns we're like a mythical creature that they have to find no matter what the woman's personality and appearance is like, so due to that I'd stay away from a couples site.
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"Nope. Be as bad as the club night I went to with another lady friend. It was a couples and single ladies night but we found that we were either scowled at like we shouldn't be there or were treated like prey"
now that is very interesting |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"We wouldn’t but it could potentially tempt away a few of the “here’s some more reasons we hate single men” crowd.
This was my reason for asking, I'm always ready status of "600 messages from guys over night" etc, I'm sure there are a lot of ladies/couples who would be happy to be able to login and not have to sieve through. Obviously I understand a lot of couples and ladies want single guys, but from seeing on here, I think the earlier is the case
Is there a gap in the market maybe? "
Filters stop messages so anyone moaning about contact from men can easily do something about it in a heartbeat.
Such sites already exist.
On others you're only allowed to upload images of yourself so singles can only post pics of them and couples likewise.
Anyone who doesn't want to engage with men has always been provided with the tools to do just that by Fab. No need to go elsewhere just because other demographics exist on the same platform.
And to answer the original question? No. A site without men would be fuck all use to us.
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
I always find it fascinating that threads that want to demonize men or look to get rid of them are often started by men.
It's as if the op is looking for justification from couple and females and win them over.
No matter what the thread, if it's about men you always get the suck ups trying to put others down to make themselves look good.
See it all the time. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I always find it fascinating that threads that want to demonize men or look to get rid of them are often started by men.
It's as if the op is looking for justification from couple and females and win them over.
No matter what the thread, if it's about men you always get the suck ups trying to put others down to make themselves look good.
See it all the time. "
Yep.
But then it's the same with women and couples too.
Seems some see negative posts about the behaviour of their own demographic as the best way to set themselves apart from their peers. It's definitely not.
But equally there are those that leap to the defence of anyone sharing their gender regardless of the fact that any negative behaviour or attitude that's being criticised is specific to the individual or small number of individuals displaying that negative trait. When people start a post bemoaning men, women or couples because they've been a twunt or acted in a fuckwhitted way, there honestly no need to jump to their defense just because you share their genitalia. You're not being criticised or demonised. They are. Unless you're also a twunt you've no need to back them up. Its not about you. 
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"We wouldn’t but it could potentially tempt away a few of the “here’s some more reasons we hate single men” crowd.
This was my reason for asking, I'm always ready status of "600 messages from guys over night" etc, I'm sure there are a lot of ladies/couples who would be happy to be able to login and not have to sieve through. Obviously I understand a lot of couples and ladies want single guys, but from seeing on here, I think the earlier is the case
Is there a gap in the market maybe? "
No, as I said...at least 1 site already exists and there may well be more. |
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"I always find it fascinating that threads that want to demonize men or look to get rid of them are often started by men.
It's as if the op is looking for justification from couple and females and win them over.
No matter what the thread, if it's about men you always get the suck ups trying to put others down to make themselves look good.
See it all the time.
Yep.
But then it's the same with women and couples too.
Seems some see negative posts about the behaviour of their own demographic as the best way to set themselves apart from their peers. It's definitely not.
But equally there are those that leap to the defence of anyone sharing their gender regardless of the fact that any negative behaviour or attitude that's being criticised is specific to the individual or small number of individuals displaying that negative trait. When people start a post bemoaning men, women or couples because they've been a twunt or acted in a fuckwhitted way, there honestly no need to jump to their defense just because you share their genitalia. You're not being criticised or demonised. They are. Unless you're also a twunt you've no need to back them up. Its not about you.
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I agree - the whole tribal thing has gotten out of hand. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I always find it fascinating that threads that want to demonize men or look to get rid of them are often started by men.
It's as if the op is looking for justification from couple and females and win them over.
No matter what the thread, if it's about men you always get the suck ups trying to put others down to make themselves look good.
See it all the time. "
Totally agree with this does make you  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"The theme I see is women or couples get 100s of messages which gives the honest caring good guy no chance "
How have you come to this conclusion as plenty of honest good guys do meet even the caring ones just from your own experience |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"The theme I see is women or couples get 100s of messages which gives the honest caring good guy no chance "
Nope. That's a myth. We have 20 unread messages at the moment and they're sat there because they're all enquiring about meets.
Which as per our profile text is pointless because we don't have the time at the moment.
The volume of messages is immaterial to whether men or anyone else gets a reply or a meet. That's down to their profile in the main. A great message from a dull and uninspiring profile will probably never be read because many view profiles before reading a message. And even if they do read it if there's little in the profile to interest them it'll go in the bin.
The key thing to understand is this.
Worry more about your profile and less about message content. Because a great profile can get away with a much less detailed message if it's already caught the eye of the recipient.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No
I've had some questionable messages yes but they are a minority. Most men contacting me are respectful however, I've had to block couples contacting me, you can draw your own conclusions.
As mentioned, anyone not wishing contact from single men can facilitate that very easily. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
"So, if there was a swinging site that only allowed couples/single ladies to join, that had to be verified to create a profile/Message, Would anyone join it?
Purely hypothetical......"
nope never ...been on this scene just over 30 years as a couple and the main reason is other men ... couple can be found at clubs and women too if the attraction is there of course |
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By *MandMMCouple
over a year ago
Welwyn garden city |
We aren't looking for single guys, and would join a couples only site. But not at the expense of this one. Had some great chats with polite single guys, and won't let a few bad apples spoil it for us |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
people keep saying filters block men but why there no need to im not going to block all men just because some are dicks there a reason for the block button use it..
then the guys who say us good genuine guys lose out erm no you dont if your what another person is looking for then its fine if your not then your not ...see as a woman on here (as a couple too) we see guys who claim they are the good guys normally are the whingers that just moan and blame everyone barr themselves for getting nowhere ... see on this scene there is not i repete not someone for everyone simple maths will tell you that the bad dont ruin it for you the other guys dont ruin it for you what ruins it is that you joined thinking it was 100% sure way of getting your bell end wet but the truth is it wont atraction is everything physical or mental on this scene thats before anyone even opens there mouth or message how you succeed on this scene is down to how much you put into it and if anyone likes you ...thats the way life is and men have to work harder due to numbers % (some dont they just have it what ever that it is) |
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I've had some questionable messages yes but they are a minority. Most men contacting me are respectful however, I've had to block couples contacting me, you can draw your own conclusions.
As mentioned, anyone not wishing contact from single men can facilitate that very easily."
Let me guess, they act like you’re a commodity and ride roughshod over what you want? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No
I've had some questionable messages yes but they are a minority. Most men contacting me are respectful however, I've had to block couples contacting me, you can draw your own conclusions.
As mentioned, anyone not wishing contact from single men can facilitate that very easily.
Let me guess, they act like you’re a commodity and ride roughshod over what you want? "
Not so much that, more ignoring the fact I'm not interested or the male looking for a sneaky meet on his own 'she doesnt need to know' type  |
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