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Is it common.. rescheduling meets
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
"Is it common for people to reschedule meets, or is that sign the person is time waster..?"
It really all depends, sometimes people do just need to reschedule. I found most time wasters wont reschedule and just no show rather than changing |
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If they've rescheduled I'd say it's a sign that they're unable to meet when they said they would and are letting you know. It's the opposite of a time waster in my opinion. The time to start worrying is if they reschedule a second time, that's when we assume they're having second thoughts and politely let them know that the moment has passed |
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"If they've rescheduled I'd say it's a sign that they're unable to meet when they said they would and are letting you know. It's the opposite of a time waster in my opinion. The time to start worrying is if they reschedule a second time, that's when we assume they're having second thoughts and politely let them know that the moment has passed"
True. There has to be a limit as can't hang on for one person when could be seeking meets with others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If they've rescheduled I'd say it's a sign that they're unable to meet when they said they would and are letting you know. It's the opposite of a time waster in my opinion. The time to start worrying is if they reschedule a second time, that's when we assume they're having second thoughts and politely let them know that the moment has passed
True. There has to be a limit as can't hang on for one person when could be seeking meets with others "
Why would you take yourself off the market when just one person has shown a fleeting interest? Would you take your car off autotrader just because someone phoned and said they were coming to look? |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
"If they've rescheduled I'd say it's a sign that they're unable to meet when they said they would and are letting you know. It's the opposite of a time waster in my opinion. The time to start worrying is if they reschedule a second time, that's when we assume they're having second thoughts and politely let them know that the moment has passed
True. There has to be a limit as can't hang on for one person when could be seeking meets with others
Why would you take yourself off the market when just one person has shown a fleeting interest? Would you take your car off autotrader just because someone phoned and said they were coming to look?"
Have to agree there as long has they have given reasonable notice then no harm has been done. If it get to like the 5th or 6th time then maybe but after the first ask it would seem a little petty to me to just stop talking.
I think people forget that we have lives off here and life happens |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"Life happens. I've had to reschedule a few meets. I've had other people need to reschedule.
I tend to find of its genuine, they are quick to come back with alternatives."
this absolutely this. if they ghost you know they are not going to meet.
you may even find they post a new verification days later and made an excuse for you. if so block immediately. |
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If we can't make a meet for whatever reason we'd try and suggest alternative dates, because, as has been said, life does happen. But if someone cancels on us and doesn't suggest an alternative date then we take that to mean that they were never intending to meet. |
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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago
Sleaford |
I think we agree with majority here...sometimes life just happens and can't be helped. We have had to reschedule a couple due to childcare let down or work commitments. If they don't ever message you back then they are timewasters |
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