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Having An Affair

By *un couple 2 OP Couple over a year ago

Tynemouth.

if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
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East Sussex

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."

I'd say so, yes

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By *anther81Man over a year ago

Drogheda

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."

Is it just for sex or you go to dinner, for a few drinks etc.

If it’s just sex I think maybe not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I’d found out my wife was doing this even if “only for the sex” I’d be absolutely devastated so I’d say very much yes.

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By *adCherriesCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."

Nope, because its just sex- an affair is emotional connection, doing stuff outside of sex etc.

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By * F 2018Couple over a year ago

shropshire

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."
Yes

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I’d say it’s an affair.

Maybe not in the classic sense, if there’s no emotions involved, but I’d say it’s an affair… or even a relationship!

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By *inkyBiBlackMaleMan over a year ago

London

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."

If you are just fuck friends the no.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman over a year ago

all loved up

Depends if the other party knows x

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By *hatsWhatCoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"if you have been seeing the same guy on here, for a number of years, would it be classed as having an affair, if it was purely for the sex."

Who’s seeing the guy? One part of couple or both? If one, does the other know?

For me (M) the ‘affair’ part is the dishonesty to the other party, sex is only one part of that dishonesty

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By *ad NannaWoman over a year ago

East London

I associate affair with something clandestine, that a spouse knows nothing of.

Sex between two people who aren't cheating on a spouse is a sexual relationship.

If you want to label it I'd say lover/fuck buddy/ friend with benefits.

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By *ickingdelightMan over a year ago

Cotswolds

Surely it’s more a fuck buddy, or regular?

If the other person wasn’t aware then yes it’s cheating and technically an affair.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No it's not an Affair if it's just sex.

Affair is when emotions get involved which is why I don't what to know a person except to talk about sex.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would say it would be an affair if 1 or both of the people's partners didnt know about it.

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By *illy71Couple over a year ago

Staines

If you are both seeing him, no, a classic affair is when one if the couple doesn't know IMHO.

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