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Blocking - who really cares?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Another one of my avoiding work discussions.
People seem to get genuinely upset when they're "blocked". In fact sometimes people will get so upset they will make all sorts of claims about the blocker being a "time waster" or in one rather strange claim "a bully"!?
I don't get this in the slightest. Who cares? If they block you it might be for loads of different reasons
1) They aren't interested
2) They don't want to chat to anyone
3) They are only looking (they're a stalker)
4) They think you're a stalker
5) The thought of you makes them gag
6) You're so beautiful that the only way they can control their urges is to avoid seeing anything to do with you (this is why I get blocked mostly)
7) They aren't interested (did I mention that one?)
At the end of the day it's not like they've turned their back on you mid conversation in the pub after you've known them for years.
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"Another one of my avoiding work discussions.
People seem to get genuinely upset when they're "blocked". In fact sometimes people will get so upset they will make all sorts of claims about the blocker being a "time waster" or in one rather strange claim "a bully"!?
I don't get this in the slightest. Who cares? If they block you it might be for loads of different reasons
1) They aren't interested
2) They don't want to chat to anyone
3) They are only looking (they're a stalker)
4) They think you're a stalker
5) The thought of you makes them gag
6) You're so beautiful that the only way they can control their urges is to avoid seeing anything to do with you (this is why I get blocked mostly)
7) They aren't interested (did I mention that one?)
At the end of the day it's not like they've turned their back on you mid conversation in the pub after you've known them for years.
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number 6 is why I get blocked too...its a curse really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one of my avoiding work discussions.
People seem to get genuinely upset when they're "blocked". In fact sometimes people will get so upset they will make all sorts of claims about the blocker being a "time waster" or in one rather strange claim "a bully"!?
I don't get this in the slightest. Who cares? If they block you it might be for loads of different reasons
1) They aren't interested
2) They don't want to chat to anyone
3) They are only looking (they're a stalker)
4) They think you're a stalker
5) The thought of you makes them gag
6) You're so beautiful that the only way they can control their urges is to avoid seeing anything to do with you (this is why I get blocked mostly)
7) They aren't interested (did I mention that one?)
At the end of the day it's not like they've turned their back on you mid conversation in the pub after you've known them for years.
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Big 'ol 5 here! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"5) The thought of you makes them gag
Big 'ol 5 here!"
Not surprised to be honest, I've seen your profile, and I don't know if you've noticed, but you've got a massive blackhead that needs squeezing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5) The thought of you makes them gag
Big 'ol 5 here!
Not surprised to be honest, I've seen your profile, and I don't know if you've noticed, but you've got a massive blackhead that needs squeezing"
cmon guys lets not take it down a level |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"5) The thought of you makes them gag
Big 'ol 5 here!
Not surprised to be honest, I've seen your profile, and I don't know if you've noticed, but you've got a massive blackhead that needs squeezingcmon guys lets not take it down a level "
On a swingers forum? you don't want us to take it down a level? good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes you did mention not interested, so maybe define it more like I don't fancy you and those that get turned down because they don't match the criteria so I have been blocked by someone, though I always thought it was the other way round, that way however, it does mean that me or him don't show up in searches |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another one of my avoiding work discussions.
People seem to get genuinely upset when they're "blocked". In fact sometimes people will get so upset they will make all sorts of claims about the blocker being a "time waster" or in one rather strange claim "a bully"!?
I don't get this in the slightest. Who cares? If they block you it might be for loads of different reasons
1) They aren't interested
2) They don't want to chat to anyone
3) They are only looking (they're a stalker)
4) They think you're a stalker
5) The thought of you makes them gag
6) You're so beautiful that the only way they can control their urges is to avoid seeing anything to do with you (this is why I get blocked mostly)
7) They aren't interested (did I mention that one?)
At the end of the day it's not like they've turned their back on you mid conversation in the pub after you've known them for years.
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I have just blocked you to test your theory that it doesn't bother you. Add that to your list  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have just blocked you to test your theory that it doesn't bother you. Add that to your list "
Seriously? Why did you do that? I'm seriously considering leaving the site/my job/my house/my mind/my girlfriend just because of this, please get in touch and change your mind....... hello? hello? hello? anyone there??
typical what a bully
Actually strangely I feel better now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"5) The thought of you makes them gag
Big 'ol 5 here!
Not surprised to be honest, I've seen your profile, and I don't know if you've noticed, but you've got a massive blackhead that needs squeezing"
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"Another one of my avoiding work discussions.
People seem to get genuinely upset when they're "blocked". In fact sometimes people will get so upset they will make all sorts of claims about the blocker being a "time waster" or in one rather strange claim "a bully"!?
I don't get this in the slightest. Who cares? If they block you it might be for loads of different reasons
1) They aren't interested
2) They don't want to chat to anyone
3) They are only looking (they're a stalker)
4) They think you're a stalker
5) The thought of you makes them gag
6) You're so beautiful that the only way they can control their urges is to avoid seeing anything to do with you (this is why I get blocked mostly)
7) They aren't interested (did I mention that one?)
At the end of the day it's not like they've turned their back on you mid conversation in the pub after you've known them for years.
I have just blocked you to test your theory that it doesn't bother you. Add that to your list "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All it takes is a simple no thank you it's more polite and will usually stop that person from messaging you"
The thing is, why is blocking impolite? If they block you or say no thanks the message is essentially the same afterall |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All it takes is a simple no thank you it's more polite and will usually stop that person from messaging you"
But it doesn't stop them as a week or two later you often get a message off the same person so it's easier to block.
My block list is so big Graham said one of these days there'll be 11, 000 people online and I won't be able to see any of them! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All it takes is a simple no thank you it's more polite and will usually stop that person from messaging you"
Oh how ideal that would bbe if that was the truth |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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The only people on my block list are the one's that have become abusive towards me, most are people I've never spoke to before, but found it offensive that I have stated I am fussy and won't lower my standards, then there are the odd one or two stalkers
Mostly, I'm big enough and ugly enough to just ignore the idiots  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All it takes is a simple no thank you it's more polite and will usually stop that person from messaging you"
Ah if only.that were true!! A simple thanks but no thanks often leads to negotiating, begging or abuse!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All it takes is a simple no thank you it's more polite and will usually stop that person from messaging you
Ah if only.that were true!! A simple thanks but no thanks often leads to negotiating, begging or abuse!! "
I had the begging bit too, wouldn't leave me alone found it pushy to be honest but he blocked me in the end when I said for the millionth time that he was too far |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldn't care a fuck who blocks me. Yes I'm pissed! I think anyone who doesn't reply to a message is rude. Just a "no thanks" would do!"
If you sent us a message and you were not what what we are looking for then chances are we wouldn't reply " no thanks" we would just block to save anymore messages we didn't want...
We used to reply no thanks and we said earlier in thread that we used to get abusive messages, we've had you should be grateful no one else would fuck your fat wife or why? The list goes on and we don't have time for all that and we are not on here to get abuse of guys that we are never going to meet x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of yesterday's additions to my block list sent me a messsage saying "I'm havin you later". He assumed because I was going to cupids that he'd get to play! Cheek  |
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