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Is it really humiliation cuckolding if the male partner is Bi? is this not just the male partner fulfilling his sexual needs with another male under the disguise of cuckolding? Or could this be an answer for the female partner to ignore her partner’s tendencies making it more palatable for her whilst having fun? Could the same be said about these so called Straight Bulls? I’ve got my popcorn guys |
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By *hippy57Man
over a year ago
Chelmsford |
Not so sure ,cuckolding is more about emotional feelings I think,I have had many mmf experiences,but nothing compares when it’s your wife or partner involved that you really love ,it’s those emotions of jealousy betrayal ,envy etc that makes it so erotic,despite if you bi or not |
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"Not so sure ,cuckolding is more about emotional feelings I think,I have had many mmf experiences,but nothing compares when it’s your wife or partner involved that you really love ,it’s those emotions of jealousy betrayal ,envy etc that makes it so erotic,despite if you bi or not "
I can understand those emotions, however it’s the humiliation part I’m asking about. The real manipulation part of cuckolding by two parties. I love to see Kitty enjoy herself and yes those emotions are there as are with her about me. However I would never be forced or humiliated into something I wouldn’t want to do !! Hence my questions, surely there must be some sort of desire or personal want to do this |
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As somebody who has enjoyed many cuckolding couples, the 'bull' doesn't always have to have sexual interaction with the husband. There's a whole list of things that can be involved, including verbal humiliation, only allowing him to listen or watch, him not allowed to be there at all etc. If he was bi and forced to clean or service the bull, then yes, it may well be exactly what the husband has fantasised about. A win win scenario for him you may say lol |
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The lines between being cuckold and being a stag or active participant are blurred.
I'm a cuck and have only ever sucked one cock. I spend more time at home than actually there when L meets.
Its the other stuff i get off on. The being told how shit i am. How small i am. Being sent videos and pictures.
Theres many different styles and labelling all and saying does it count if... Doesn't matter so long as everyone enjoys what's going on. |
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"The lines between being cuckold and being a stag or active participant are blurred.
I'm a cuck and have only ever sucked one cock. I spend more time at home than actually there when L meets.
Its the other stuff i get off on. The being told how shit i am. How small i am. Being sent videos and pictures.
Theres many different styles and labelling all and saying does it count if... Doesn't matter so long as everyone enjoys what's going on."
Thank you for your response and honesty. I don’t mean to sound judgmental or disrespectful, and I hope you enjoy your journey. I’m just trying to get some sort of understanding as being humiliated or for someone else to think they are servicing Kitty or a Bull doesn’t work for me. But on the other side me doing that to someone else equally doesn’t work for me either. I know each to their own and different things for different people. This scenario is so removed from my comfort zone, which probably says more about my insecurities than anything but we meeting and chatting to more and more couples and single guys who are looking for this. Perhaps if I understand more or be educated further I may connect more with these people and be more aware and understanding. |
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We’ve been a cuckold couple for nearly all our marriage, Dee loves attention from other guys and rather than her have numerous affairs we adapted our marriage to be a cuckold one and I’m happy if she’s happy, with regards to humiliation, we aren’t into all that crap, in fact if we get a message from guys trying to be all clever with ‘hi cuck’ intro or stuff like that they are deleted.
Cuckolding means lots of different things to different couples, so you can’t just pigeonhole one thing and say it’s cuckolding, it varies from couple to couple. |
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for nearly all our marriage, Dee loves attention from other guys and rather than her have numerous affairs we adapted our marriage to be a cuckold one and I’m happy if she’s happy, with regards to humiliation, we aren’t into all that crap, in fact if we get a message from guys trying to be all clever with ‘hi cuck’ intro or stuff like that they are deleted.
Cuckolding means lots of different things to different couples, so you can’t just pigeonhole one thing and say it’s cuckolding, it varies from couple to couple."
Thanks sharing. I’m interested to know how many “Hi Cuck” messages you receive compared to messages from single guys who understand the dynamic you have referred to? We once put cuckolding in our interests and the messages we received from “Pretender’s “ was laughable. |
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We are a full cuckold couple and she has her meets as and when she decides. We have evolved into where he is a full submissive cuck and does as he is requested by both the female and the bull.
For her it's the fun of meeting guys, having sex, controlling his sexual pleasure and having the power to demand things from him.
For him it's the emotional rollercoaster of seeing her give herself to another man, doing things he may not like, giving her the control both sexual and in the relationship and being submissive.
That's kind of explains our cuckold life  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every cuckold relationship is different. It depends on what the wife gets off on and what turns her cuck on. I have met a good number over 10 years and all are different. Some cucks are secretly bi others just love the emotional roller coaster. Some wives do it for his pleasure, others do it for what she gets from it. Bottom line is find a bull that understands and fits your dynamics. Be upfront if your cuck is bi cos, trust me.. it can get messy if you spring that surprise up on a Bull in a play session. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We say Mr is Bi-curious as it sort of lets any potential male know that Mr does as he is told, those certain things that a good Cuck might be told to do 
That's our approach anyway
Mr & Mrs H |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a full cuckold couple and she has her meets as and when she decides. We have evolved into where he is a full submissive cuck and does as he is requested by both the female and the bull.
For her it's the fun of meeting guys, having sex, controlling his sexual pleasure and having the power to demand things from him.
For him it's the emotional rollercoaster of seeing her give herself to another man, doing things he may not like, giving her the control both sexual and in the relationship and being submissive.
That's kind of explains our cuckold life "
This sounds very similar to our outlook |
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"Not so sure ,cuckolding is more about emotional feelings I think,I have had many mmf experiences,but nothing compares when it’s your wife or partner involved that you really love ,it’s those emotions of jealousy betrayal ,envy etc that makes it so erotic,despite if you bi or not "
I couldn't agree more. When a couple approaches me for cuckold play and they are not in love with each other (FWB etc) I'm just not interested |
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"We say Mr is Bi-curious as it sort of lets any potential male know that Mr does as he is told, those certain things that a good Cuck might be told to do
That's our approach anyway
Mr & Mrs H"
I absolutely love it when the cuck is bi curious. Even better if he mentally wrestles with accepting that side of his sexuality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The lines between being cuckold and being a stag or active participant are blurred.
I'm a cuck and have only ever sucked one cock. I spend more time at home than actually there when L meets.
Its the other stuff i get off on. The being told how shit i am. How small i am. Being sent videos and pictures.
Theres many different styles and labelling all and saying does it count if... Doesn't matter so long as everyone enjoys what's going on."
This, totally agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We’ve been a cuckold couple for nearly all our marriage, Dee loves attention from other guys and rather than her have numerous affairs we adapted our marriage to be a cuckold one and I’m happy if she’s happy, with regards to humiliation, we aren’t into all that crap, in fact if we get a message from guys trying to be all clever with ‘hi cuck’ intro or stuff like that they are deleted.
Cuckolding means lots of different things to different couples, so you can’t just pigeonhole one thing and say it’s cuckolding, it varies from couple to couple."
And this sums it up really |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The lines between being cuckold and being a stag or active participant are blurred.
I'm a cuck and have only ever sucked one cock. I spend more time at home than actually there when L meets.
Its the other stuff i get off on. The being told how shit i am. How small i am. Being sent videos and pictures.
Theres many different styles and labelling all and saying does it count if... Doesn't matter so long as everyone enjoys what's going on.
Thank you for your response and honesty. I don’t mean to sound judgmental or disrespectful, and I hope you enjoy your journey. I’m just trying to get some sort of understanding as being humiliated or for someone else to think they are servicing Kitty or a Bull doesn’t work for me. But on the other side me doing that to someone else equally doesn’t work for me either. I know each to their own and different things for different people. This scenario is so removed from my comfort zone, which probably says more about my insecurities than anything but we meeting and chatting to more and more couples and single guys who are looking for this. Perhaps if I understand more or be educated further I may connect more with these people and be more aware and understanding. "
Not sure of the relevance, you don't need to be understanding or aware. Your not a Cuckold couple so it should not have an impact on you.
Too many kinks get double barreled with the word Cuckolding, when they are just kinks used or not by all sorts of people regards to dynamic.
To me Cuck is a personality trait, but that's just my opinion of my own view of myself. Other aspects then added as kinks that I enjoy and some not always.
I think alot of our sexual needs are perpetual anyway, but I'm always a Cuck. At the beginning very much in denial.
Mr H |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"We’ve been a cuckold couple for nearly all our marriage, Dee loves attention from other guys and rather than her have numerous affairs we adapted our marriage to be a cuckold one and I’m happy if she’s happy, with regards to humiliation, we aren’t into all that crap, in fact if we get a message from guys trying to be all clever with ‘hi cuck’ intro or stuff like that they are deleted.
Cuckolding means lots of different things to different couples, so you can’t just pigeonhole one thing and say it’s cuckolding, it varies from couple to couple."
You sound like the kind of guy that can make such an arrangement work perfectly. Each to their own and guys like you make the world go round and be a better place! Good effort! She is lovely by the way…. |
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"The lines between being cuckold and being a stag or active participant are blurred.
I'm a cuck and have only ever sucked one cock. I spend more time at home than actually there when L meets.
Its the other stuff i get off on. The being told how shit i am. How small i am. Being sent videos and pictures.
Theres many different styles and labelling all and saying does it count if... Doesn't matter so long as everyone enjoys what's going on.
Thank you for your response and honesty. I don’t mean to sound judgmental or disrespectful, and I hope you enjoy your journey. I’m just trying to get some sort of understanding as being humiliated or for someone else to think they are servicing Kitty or a Bull doesn’t work for me. But on the other side me doing that to someone else equally doesn’t work for me either. I know each to their own and different things for different people. This scenario is so removed from my comfort zone, which probably says more about my insecurities than anything but we meeting and chatting to more and more couples and single guys who are looking for this. Perhaps if I understand more or be educated further I may connect more with these people and be more aware and understanding.
Not sure of the relevance, you don't need to be understanding or aware. Your not a Cuckold couple so it should not have an impact on you.
Too many kinks get double barreled with the word Cuckolding, when they are just kinks used or not by all sorts of people regards to dynamic.
To me Cuck is a personality trait, but that's just my opinion of my own view of myself. Other aspects then added as kinks that I enjoy and some not always.
I think alot of our sexual needs are perpetual anyway, but I'm always a Cuck. At the beginning very much in denial.
Mr H"
Many thanks for your response it is the most accurate and informative post I’ve ever received regarding this. I suppose I want to understand more about this so I can open up my eyes and possibly find scenarios that would work for us. As you said I am not a Cuck and my character just doesn’t suit a submissive role. |
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"Is it really humiliation cuckolding if the male partner is Bi? is this not just the male partner fulfilling his sexual needs with another male under the disguise of cuckolding? Or could this be an answer for the female partner to ignore her partner’s tendencies making it more palatable for her whilst having fun? Could the same be said about these so called Straight Bulls? I’ve got my popcorn guys "
Cuckolding is whatever YOU want it to be. Whatever turns you both on. That’s the joy of sharing such a glorious fantasy. |
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"Is it really humiliation cuckolding if the male partner is Bi? is this not just the male partner fulfilling his sexual needs with another male under the disguise of cuckolding? Or could this be an answer for the female partner to ignore her partner’s tendencies making it more palatable for her whilst having fun? Could the same be said about these so called Straight Bulls? I’ve got my popcorn guys "
It’s all part of a couples choice of their perception of humiliation. Whether the guy is bi or not is irrelevant, it’s about her being in control.
It’s about her being turned on at her man doing as she asks or orders, whether the bull is bi (or claims to be straight) is part of the fantasy. |
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"Is it really humiliation cuckolding if the male partner is Bi? is this not just the male partner fulfilling his sexual needs with another male under the disguise of cuckolding? Or could this be an answer for the female partner to ignore her partner’s tendencies making it more palatable for her whilst having fun? Could the same be said about these so called Straight Bulls? I’ve got my popcorn guys
It’s all part of a couples choice of their perception of humiliation. Whether the guy is bi or not is irrelevant, it’s about her being in control.
It’s about her being turned on at her man doing as she asks or orders, whether the bull is bi (or claims to be straight) is part of the fantasy."
Your last point is really interesting. I used to think I was straight until well into my 40s.
It wasn't until I finally said yes to a cuck pleading to worship my cock that the deeper pleasures of cuckolding fun opened up to me. It's a whole new level of lust filled cerebral deliciousness. |
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By *rmbtsTV/TS
over a year ago
stockport |
"Is it really humiliation cuckolding if the male partner is Bi? is this not just the male partner fulfilling his sexual needs with another male under the disguise of cuckolding? Or could this be an answer for the female partner to ignore her partner’s tendencies making it more palatable for her whilst having fun? Could the same be said about these so called Straight Bulls? I’ve got my popcorn guys "
For me I don’t see why the whole ideas of cuckolding has to be about humiliation in the first place, I’d be happy for my wife to have lots of extra male and female fun if she wants to but don’t want to be humiliated but enjoy the fun times and the different fun that would be had and see her enjoying herself sexually
Surely the fun even if just watching and enjoying your partner being satisfied is enough well that’s it for me but we are all different |
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By *eeboCouple
over a year ago
basingstoke |
It's so varied and personal that think it's impossible to define in one set form. Rather there are some common themes that are generally part of the cuckold experience to one degree or another |
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