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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why is it so difficult to get people to continue the conversation?
9 out 10 times, it gets left hanging like some sort of soggy towel covered in cum!
Half the time the conversation just stops mid flow, which i think is fucking rude by the way!
99% of you lot (women in particular) ask for...nah, demand respect, manners, and the like yet its ok to leave a guy hanging mid convo and then ignore him when he questions the reason as to why he's been randomly fucked off. Just seems like its one rule for one and another rule for the rest around here  
And ya'll can bitch at me as much as ya like, im entitled to my opinions, just like the rest of you, defference being i don't behave like im something special. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should familiarise yourself with the site FAQ's OP. They specifically state that nobody is 'owed' a reply.
You're coming across as having a massive sense of entitlement - which puts a lot of people off.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Why is it so difficult to get people to continue the conversation?
9 out 10 times, it gets left hanging like some sort of soggy towel covered in cum!
Half the time the conversation just stops mid flow, which i think is fucking rude by the way!
99% of you lot (women in particular) ask for...nah, demand respect, manners, and the like yet its ok to leave a guy hanging mid convo and then ignore him when he questions the reason as to why he's been randomly fucked off. Just seems like its one rule for one and another rule for the rest around here
And ya'll can bitch at me as much as ya like, im entitled to my opinions, just like the rest of you, defference being i don't behave like im something special."
It takes two to make and maintain a conversation. And only one to end it.
Most times conversations stop, slow or drift off there's a reason. Whether it's just a lack of continuing interest or something that's been said that puts the other party off.
What some fail to realise is that swinging isn't the priority in most people's lives. It's essentially a hobby and will take second, third or ninety ninth place behind a whole bunch of other life stuff.
Most people realise and accept that.
If a lack of reply is causing so much angst and frustration then it's neither healthy nor beneficial to anyone. Maybe take a step back and be more patient.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For those that seem to be struggling to read the OP its not about getting a respone, something which i do get quite regularly tbh, its about the conversation being ended with no particular reason why.
I guess i just need to be rude and obnoxious like most people on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For those that seem to be struggling to read the OP its not about getting a respone, something which i do get quite regularly tbh, its about the conversation being ended with no particular reason why.
I guess i just need to be rude and obnoxious like most people on here!"
For the first part of your response, people aren't required to always respond to you. Interest can be lost sometimes, its not that big of a deal you just have to move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them "
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For those that seem to be struggling to read the OP its not about getting a respone, something which i do get quite regularly tbh, its about the conversation being ended with no particular reason why.
I guess i just need to be rude and obnoxious like most people on here!
For the first part of your response, people aren't required to always respond to you. Interest can be lost sometimes, its not that big of a deal you just have to move on."
And i will gladly move on, when ive said my piece.....just like the rest of you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place."
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"For me it's the no shows after chatting and arranging meet, travelled to meeting point then no show, and no further response. To me there's no excuse for that from anyone"
Yes mate, totally agree. I dare bet though, had you have left a woman high and dry, you'd know about it soon enough when shes slagging you off to all and sundry! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol"
I'm a woman? 
Fuck. Every day's a school day. 
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls.  And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
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"For me it's the no shows after chatting and arranging meet, travelled to meeting point then no show, and no further response. To me there's no excuse for that from anyone"
I'm sorry that happens, it happened to me a few times and I became very cynical. I agree that there is no excuse. Its a shame a few people ruin it, that's mainly why I do club meets now because there are still others to chat to if they don't show up. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun "
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me it's the no shows after chatting and arranging meet, travelled to meeting point then no show, and no further response. To me there's no excuse for that from anyone"
Yeah agree it’s frustrating when that happens. That’s why we prefer clubs now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
I'm a woman?
Fuck. Every day's a school day.
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls. And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
A"
And thats fair enough but does that then mean that those people who do get fucked off mid convo should just put up and shut up? No i dont think it does does it!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through!"
please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck "
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x"
Haha no not at all just a bit disrespectful.
But I think your the one with all the nerves twitching. Maybe if something else was twitching you wouldn’t be complaining so much  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x"
The picture is becoming clearer as to why people give up responding to you half way through a conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x
The picture is becoming clearer as to why people give up responding to you half way through a conversation "
I’m not even halfway through and I’ve definitely given up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x Haha no not at all just a bit disrespectful.
But I think your the one with all the nerves twitching. Maybe if something else was twitching you wouldn’t be complaining so much "
Lol im being disrespectful lol
Thats essentially what this post is about, disrespectful people!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
Do you actually like women? Because the way you come across is quite angry towards them
See what i mean, its ok for women to speak their minds but as soon as a guy does it its out of order and must mean he has an underlying issue. When really hes just pissed off at the one sided bullshit that frequents this place.
I asked a question? I’m only going off what you are saying regarding women.. that’s how it seems you sound very bitter.
Jeezzz maybe stop the moaning and have some fun
thats the point im getting at love, maybe fun would be there to be had if conversations didnt get abandoned half way through! please don’t call me love I’m definitely not you’re love.
Maybe ask yourself why they get abandoned and work on that. Good luck
Oohhh sorry, did i touch a nerve lol x
The picture is becoming clearer as to why people give up responding to you half way through a conversation
I’m not even halfway through and I’ve definitely given up "
Glad to hear it  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
I'm a woman?
Fuck. Every day's a school day.
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls. And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
A
And thats fair enough but does that then mean that those people who do get fucked off mid convo should just put up and shut up? No i dont think it does does it!!"
Should they accept it? Of course.
You're talking about a chat on a sex/swingers site with a complete stranger. You're entitled to absolutely nothing. It usually takes a while for people to establish interest. So what starts as a rapid, frequent chat fizzles out or dies a death.
Ranting about it achieves nothing, changes nothing and just screams of entitlement and throwing toys out of prams.
People are here for fun, not stress. Any indication that someone is in a hurry, expects a reply quickly or isn't willing to be patient and we'll hit the block button in a millisecond.
Many things put people off. Photo content, forum posts, whiny status updates, married people playing away and yes - people with a sense of entitlement too.
So do I think people should just accept it when conversations end? Hell yes. Just move on.
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If the conversation is going well we prefer to move it to a different platform like what’s app, can be up up to a week sometimes since the last message has been read but when their ready to reply or us for matter we just pick it back up from there. Could be various reasons for the long response times. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
I'm a woman?
Fuck. Every day's a school day.
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls. And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
A
And thats fair enough but does that then mean that those people who do get fucked off mid convo should just put up and shut up? No i dont think it does does it!!
Should they accept it? Of course.
You're talking about a chat on a sex/swingers site with a complete stranger. You're entitled to absolutely nothing. It usually takes a while for people to establish interest. So what starts as a rapid, frequent chat fizzles out or dies a death.
Ranting about it achieves nothing, changes nothing and just screams of entitlement and throwing toys out of prams.
People are here for fun, not stress. Any indication that someone is in a hurry, expects a reply quickly or isn't willing to be patient and we'll hit the block button in a millisecond.
Many things put people off. Photo content, forum posts, whiny status updates, married people playing away and yes - people with a sense of entitlement too.
So do I think people should just accept it when conversations end? Hell yes. Just move on.
A"
Well thats it then, you must be right.....god forbid anyone thinks differently eh |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
I'm a woman?
Fuck. Every day's a school day.
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls. And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
A
And thats fair enough but does that then mean that those people who do get fucked off mid convo should just put up and shut up? No i dont think it does does it!!
Should they accept it? Of course.
You're talking about a chat on a sex/swingers site with a complete stranger. You're entitled to absolutely nothing. It usually takes a while for people to establish interest. So what starts as a rapid, frequent chat fizzles out or dies a death.
Ranting about it achieves nothing, changes nothing and just screams of entitlement and throwing toys out of prams.
People are here for fun, not stress. Any indication that someone is in a hurry, expects a reply quickly or isn't willing to be patient and we'll hit the block button in a millisecond.
Many things put people off. Photo content, forum posts, whiny status updates, married people playing away and yes - people with a sense of entitlement too.
So do I think people should just accept it when conversations end? Hell yes. Just move on.
A
Well thats it then, you must be right.....god forbid anyone thinks differently eh"
Nobody says you have to agree. But I'd say that when people explain why they act in a certain way to provide you with reasons why things happen that maybe it's worth listening to them?
If your target audience is telling you how they feel and why they do something then you have two choices.
Listen, learn and evolve.
Or do as you do now. How's that working out for you though........ 
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
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"Oh look, defensive comments from the entitled women again lol
I'm a woman?
Fuck. Every day's a school day.
I'm assuming tou mentioned me, given all the other comments were from guys?
Hate to break it to you. I'm the one with the cock and balls. And I spent around 5 years on here as a single guy before meeting Fox (on here) so am well versed with life as a single male. It's not hard to enjoy life on here as a single guy, nor maintain conversation with people.
We cut conversation dead when red flags crop up, such as any sense of entitlement, impatience, or when something said or written in a profile puts us off. Because it's quicker, simpler and easier than explaining to someone that they've caused offence, come across as someone we no longer wish to engage with and that we've changed our mind and no longer have any interest in them.
Nobody owes anyone an explanation.
A
And thats fair enough but does that then mean that those people who do get fucked off mid convo should just put up and shut up? No i dont think it does does it!!
Should they accept it? Of course.
You're talking about a chat on a sex/swingers site with a complete stranger. You're entitled to absolutely nothing. It usually takes a while for people to establish interest. So what starts as a rapid, frequent chat fizzles out or dies a death.
Ranting about it achieves nothing, changes nothing and just screams of entitlement and throwing toys out of prams.
People are here for fun, not stress. Any indication that someone is in a hurry, expects a reply quickly or isn't willing to be patient and we'll hit the block button in a millisecond.
Many things put people off. Photo content, forum posts, whiny status updates, married people playing away and yes - people with a sense of entitlement too.
So do I think people should just accept it when conversations end? Hell yes. Just move on.
A"
Yes. If more people understood this on Fab, they’d find their time here a lot easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Im bored now......may i take this oppertunity to end this mid conversation and bid you all a fond fairwell "
Ah, so it's alright when YOU get bored with the conversation.
Or has the penny finally dropped? |
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There will have been something said within your messages that will have put the other person off or perhaps they’ve found someone they’re more interested in or attracted to. As you’re a stranger on the internet, they have no obligation to keep talking to you and aren’t obliged to give a reason as to why.
It’s far easier to cut a conversation dead rather than giving an explanation and having to deal with the backlash, anger, disappointment, abuse or insults that inevitably follow. If your inbox messages read anything like your comments on this thread, I can totally understand why they don’t continue to engage. You sound very angry and aggressive. |
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"For those that seem to be struggling to read the OP its not about getting a respone, something which i do get quite regularly tbh, its about the conversation being ended with no particular reason why.
I guess i just need to be rude and obnoxious like most people on here!"
Count yourself lucky, at least you get responses lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Im bored now......may i take this oppertunity to end this mid conversation and bid you all a fond fairwell
Ah, so it's alright when YOU get bored with the conversation.
Or has the penny finally dropped?"
Lol....mate.....if you cant see the point to my comment then you're part of the problem my freind! |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Im bored now......may i take this oppertunity to end this mid conversation and bid you all a fond fairwell
Ah, so it's alright when YOU get bored with the conversation.
Or has the penny finally dropped?
Lol....mate.....if you cant see the point to my comment then you're part of the problem my freind!"
No its just you feel so entitled to everyones time that everyone has to drop everything to help your ego.
Its basic fab knowlage that people are totally allowed to end conversations mid flow and thats fine. People walk away from conversations at a bar, do you then go around following them? I hope not!
I would look at the common denominator of the situation and work on that before ranting about everyone else |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
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"There will have been something said within your messages that will have put the other person off or perhaps they’ve found someone they’re more interested in or attracted to. As you’re a stranger on the internet, they have no obligation to keep talking to you and aren’t obliged to give a reason as to why.
It’s far easier to cut a conversation dead rather than giving an explanation and having to deal with the backlash, anger, disappointment, abuse or insults that inevitably follow. If your inbox messages read anything like your comments on this thread, I can totally understand why they don’t continue to engage. You sound very angry and aggressive."
Exactly that some people it hard to spot those red flag or turn offs straight away and once conversations build they start popping up it easier to end it than have to take the amount of rudeness and entitlement from some people |
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"Why is it so difficult to get people to continue the conversation?
9 out 10 times, it gets left hanging like some sort of soggy towel covered in cum!
Half the time the conversation just stops mid flow, which i think is fucking rude by the way!
99% of you lot (women in particular) ask for...nah, demand respect, manners, and the like yet its ok to leave a guy hanging mid convo and then ignore him when he questions the reason as to why he's been randomly fucked off. Just seems like its one rule for one and another rule for the rest around here
And ya'll can bitch at me as much as ya like, im entitled to my opinions, just like the rest of you, defference being i don't behave like im something special."
Maybe their wife got back early and caught them messaging some guy on Fab |
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Op, if I was you, I'd leave Fab. The negative side to this site are obviously affecting you.
I'm not saying you are as I don't know you, but what you've written makes you sound very aggressive and angry. If it's bothering you that much and you can't just forget it, I'd do yourself a favour and call it a day. |
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This is why I always bring popcorn when reading the forums....
I know it's frustrating, I've had it happen recently... just let it be.
If you've not said anything untoward, and they decide just to stop... then maybe they're not for you anyway. Lot of fake 'fantasy' profiles on both sides.
I for one, won't be chasing around for them... stick to the 'Real world' club meets.
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