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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been around the swinging scene for many years and at times struggle to understand why these days it’s so hard to find a genuine guy for Mmf
Most couples just want a respectable guy, some of the replies and questions we get asked beggars belief as to how some men even consider we would meet them.
We don’t want supermodels just guys whom can give some attention before we contemplate meeting for fun
Where has the art of conversation and flirting gone before hand !!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been around the swinging scene for many years and at times struggle to understand why these days it’s so hard to find a genuine guy for Mmf
Most couples just want a respectable guy, some of the replies and questions we get asked beggars belief as to how some men even consider we would meet them.
We don’t want supermodels just guys whom can give some attention before we contemplate meeting for fun
Where has the art of conversation and flirting gone before hand !!!
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How many 1 liner crude messages do you get, we must get hundreds, complete turn off |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7 |
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We get very few crude messages, in fact the majority are respectful and conversational.
I have to say that couples are the most difficult to communicate with, our experience has been that they want us to do all the running. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7"
this every week the site becomes more one sided guys are flooding in yet couple and women numbers never seem to improve more leaving than joining ...more and more want sex on a plate ...
i dont find it hard to meet but thats because over 30 years ive / we have amassed some very good friends on this scene once you get past the will fuck anything anywhere types the are a bunch of hot men who understand what swinging is |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hiya. We were here as a couple until about 2 yrs ago. Most men I found lied EG, claimed to be single but not, claimed to be big cocks but not - claimed could accommodate but not - the vast majority became rude/hostile if/when asked to confirm they had a smell free/clean place and they were the same.
We did meet two, the hard work paid off.
So there are some but you need to do youe homework and just put others on ignore inc those that cut and paste the same tripe to dozens of people
There are genunine people here that are nice to chat via pm/phone and share expereinces etc re sharing their wives etc - IMO, best site for this type of thing inc, cost free meets etc |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"It can be as simple as reasonable grammar in writing a reply as a missing comma can make all the difference. Let’s eat grandma… "
to most it means nothing im a lazy typer on here if people want to judge that then im fine by that as i dont want to meet snobs ... |
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I'm speaking as an occasional single bi m here not as a couple. What a shame so many individuals just don't respect the art of conversation and messaging. I have found some lovely new fab friends of all gender identities..
Just by chatting and exploring common interests. Some have become lovers. Others I or we may meet in the future. Sorry for this rather long reflection. I'm more slow foods than deliveroo |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
Honestly, not sure where is the challenge here. You have nice profile, good set of pics. There are few small items in your profile makes me skip it (not initiating first) but should you contacted me first - I’d definitely keep it running.
It could be the way you approach guys or the filters you use. Well, just keep trying with genuine messages and I am sure you’ll be successful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My last post on this thread.
There are genuine people here and we've meet two when we were here as a couple and I've spoke with and exchanged maessages with several blokes re our wives and whats best and not etc
Do your research, dont give everyhting away intially and dont fall for the "I sent you my face picture.." - you do as you feel and for us, its never face pics until we meet and if the other is not happy, their bad luck IMO. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"Eh, are you being serious?
The several thousand single males here per woman/couple.
Couple veries, on more than a few weeks. Related pics etc. "
just because there are 1000s more men than women or couples dont make it easy ? there has to be a sexual attraction of sorts you could have 100 message and not like one you could have 500 messages in a week and still not like one you could ave a couple thousand messages and guess what still not like one ...but its not only that you get a guy you fancy and let everything goes wrong via the chatting and messaging its just not as simple as here the guys pick one .... far to many on here will fuck anything anyone |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
"It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7"
Fuckaroo, I've had an idea.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7Fuckaroo, I've had an idea."
You'd make a fortune!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" The site isn't the same as yrs ago the way people communicate is awful sometimes surely good conversation and flirting makes the naughty fun better "
I am always polite. Never rude or suggestive. Does anyone reply. Nope. I rarely get a no thank you. Far few women getting 100's of messages a day. They cant read them all. So i feel its a bit of a lost cause for most guys even us polite ones. My age doesnt help i might add but thats what filters are for. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Men need to read the profile
We've met some really nice guys in clubs and had great fun but the vast majority on fab simply don't cut the mustard
If followed the very simple instructions then we'd probably meet more of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7"
Amen to this although I have been fortunate to meet some great genuine singles and couples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been around the swinging scene for many years and at times struggle to understand why these days it’s so hard to find a genuine guy for Mmf
Most couples just want a respectable guy, some of the replies and questions we get asked beggars belief as to how some men even consider we would meet them.
We don’t want supermodels just guys whom can give some attention before we contemplate meeting for fun
Where has the art of conversation and flirting gone before hand !!!
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Exactly this, 100% |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Respectable guy here...
The problem might be that there are two sorts of men here. The brainless scattergun type (which you don't want!) and the nice guys (who may be put off by age restrictions, or "single guys, we'll contact you", which is often necessary but... you see where I'm coming from). |
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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago
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The days of having a flirt and getting to know one another are a thing of the past on here unfortunately.
It's just as hard for us genuine guys to find a couple to have fun with as a lot seem to have got fed up on here and left which is a shame.
I find that a lot of messages dont even get read, maybe that's just a sign of how many messages couples and females get.
Keep at it though there are a few decent genuine guys still on here  |
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I stopped looking for couples a few years ago mainly because too many had very little respect for me.
I don't send messages so these were all couples who contacted me.
Their introductory messages were a list of instructions.
I fully understand people having preferences but hardly a day goes by on here without someone whinging about the inability of men to send respectable messages or hold a decent conversation and yet so many couples believe it's ok to tell single men that they should shave their beards, play bi, send a phone number right now, turn up at a particular location because the missus is horny etc etc.
These are just a small sample of messages I have received personally from extremely well verified couples.
I've been told I'm too old and too straight and don't have options on here and should therefore be grateful of any opportunity.
Yet they chose to contact me and not the other way around?
When I refuse it's suddenly my loss or I must be stupid or the old chestnut, do I not know who they are and how long they have been on this site?
Respect works both ways.
Talk to me as an equal and not a random cock and I might return that respect. |
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"I stopped looking for couples a few years ago mainly because too many had very little respect for me.
I don't send messages so these were all couples who contacted me.
Their introductory messages were a list of instructions.
I fully understand people having preferences but hardly a day goes by on here without someone whinging about the inability of men to send respectable messages or hold a decent conversation and yet so many couples believe it's ok to tell single men that they should shave their beards, play bi, send a phone number right now, turn up at a particular location because the missus is horny etc etc.
These are just a small sample of messages I have received personally from extremely well verified couples.
I've been told I'm too old and too straight and don't have options on here and should therefore be grateful of any opportunity.
Yet they chose to contact me and not the other way around?
When I refuse it's suddenly my loss or I must be stupid or the old chestnut, do I not know who they are and how long they have been on this site?
Respect works both ways.
Talk to me as an equal and not a random cock and I might return that respect. "
exactly this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's not just men... I have had exactly the same experience with men, couples and women. Too many people assume this site is like Deliveroo and everyone wants to fuck anything that moves 24/7"
This |
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