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By *eFCUKaLot OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I very much often delete by mistake by pressing the wrong button but I would explain to the recipient why. So it can happen."
It may have been a genuine mistake as they’re still friends with us. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I very much often delete by mistake by pressing the wrong button but I would explain to the recipient why. So it can happen.
It may have been a genuine mistake as they’re still friends with us. "
Do you need to save conversations indefinitely? If you're friends and chat regularly then is it an issue? Maybe they just bulk deleted the entire inbox during routine housekeeping.
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By *elloWoman
over a year ago
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I do this often by error, I decide on a whim to delete all read, press the button and then go , crap! I forgot to save so and SO's message, and there are a few that I have forgotten the profile name of so can't even get back in touch with  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We delete if a particular conversation has finished, but add them to our hotlist if we'd like to continue talking at a later date, otherwise our inbox would be harder to manage.
If you message someone you've already spoken to them the old messages are still there to view |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a member though it's still all there when a new message is sent ... I delete them when replied to and only have to keep one message to read through the whole conversation |
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By *eFCUKaLot OP Couple
over a year ago
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"If a member though it's still all there when a new message is sent ... I delete them when replied to and only have to keep one message to read through the whole conversation "
Oh ok makes sense. |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I've done this more times than I can remember due to the poor design of the mobile site meaning my fat fingers accidentally hitting the delete button on my phone.
Yet another case for Fab to actually do something about the site design...
Thankfully the sent messages are there just in case I end up doing this in the future 
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By *eFCUKaLot OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I've done this more times than I can remember due to the poor design of the mobile site meaning my fat fingers accidentally hitting the delete button on my phone.
Yet another case for Fab to actually do something about the site design...
Thankfully the sent messages are there just in case I end up doing this in the future
C x"
Nice profile btw |
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"We delete if a particular conversation has finished, but add them to our hotlist if we'd like to continue talking at a later date, otherwise our inbox would be harder to manage.
If you message someone you've already spoken to them the old messages are still there to view"
But not all the messages are there, I find the early ones disappear |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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"I've done this more times than I can remember due to the poor design of the mobile site meaning my fat fingers accidentally hitting the delete button on my phone.
Yet another case for Fab to actually do something about the site design...
Thankfully the sent messages are there just in case I end up doing this in the future
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Nice profile btw"
Likewise  C x |
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By *eFCUKaLot OP Couple
over a year ago
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"I accidentally delete messages all the time, have they contacted you again?"
The chat was ended like “chat to you later to arrange a social” kind of thing. So we dunno what’s going on. Probably innocent enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why would someone that you’ve been speaking to delete the conversation? Things seemed to be going in the right direction but now the conversation has been deleted. Bored or genuine mistake? "
They may have changed their minds, didn't like something you said or simply just deleted by accident. Why not just message them again and see if they respond? If they don't then you have your answer  |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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I sometimes delete a conversation to see if they ever get back in touch. You quickly find out if they are actually interested in meeting or have been just wasting your time.
I move on very quickly at the first sign of doubt. |
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