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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OP - there are a number of people in wheelchairs on this site. The ones who have been on here a while tend to make it quite clear in their profiles what they can and can't do sexually 'up front'.
Hope that helps a bit...?
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By *nnyMan
over a year ago
Glasgow |
"Yes, so long as there was a connection. Don't see any differance to any other meet, wouldn't be here if your weren't sexually active.
Sam X "
That's not always the case. There's a few whose sexual activity exists only between their ears. |
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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago
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I have, in the past and before I knew about swinging. Now that I know and partake in this I would again but under the same selection criteria used for any other man.
I started a thread yesterday about The Sessions - I wonder how much this will affect opinions. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I would as long as I fancied them.
One of my meets before, and now a close friend has a facial deformity and wears a prosthetic.
He was totally shaggable. End of.
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"It seems ppl would so y carmt I."
Why can't you what?
Meet people (as your the one who is disabled?) or meet someone who is disabled?
As is clear from what people have said in the rest of the thread, the disability has little if nothing to do with it, the requirements are the same for anyone...
Make sure your profile is well written, be as original as possible, a few decent photos (not just of your penis) and send out interesting and imaginative emails |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
"you really think anyones gonna have the balls to say no?thanx btw. I was begining t feel ok nd ya bring me back to reality"
Plenty of people responded positively and you focus purely on the single negative post...
I suggest you need to seek professional help, you obviously need some help and support to become happy and confident about yourself without relying on sex with a stranger to make you feel better |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"you really think anyones gonna have the balls to say no?thanx btw. I was begining t feel ok nd ya bring me back to reality
Plenty of people responded positively and you focus purely on the single negative post...
I suggest you need to seek professional help, you obviously need some help and support to become happy and confident about yourself without relying on sex with a stranger to make you feel better"
yeah I no everyone said lovely stuff and I'm so grateful. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would be a no from us. Not because of your disability but purely because your profile is so poor.
This may sound harsh and it is not meant to but there are countless threads by single guys complaining that they can't get meets and moaning that it is because of their race, or build or are etc etc. And to me you are guilty of the exact same as all of those other threads which is focussing on the negative, the thing that can't be changed and using that as an excuse rather than focussing on what you can do to make getting meets way more likely. Non of us appeal to everyone but your profile is doing nothing to promote you to those that may be interested.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Totaly agree with the above. Your profile needs to be more specific, its reads like your not really interested in meeting anyone.  "
does it? Oh. Any tips on wot 1 needs t say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Totaly agree with the above. Your profile needs to be more specific, its reads like your not really interested in meeting anyone. does it? Oh. Any tips on wot 1 needs t say"
Look some of the other single guys profiles, especially the ones that have a lot of verifications. We find the ones that
Have a cheeky smile, a bit light hearted and not crude, more endearing than just a cock picture. Maybe tell the reader what kinky scenario you would like to forfil.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no body is perfect we are all different and to be honest if you look closely at anyone there is always something not quite perfect.
From hammer toes to a big nose LoL there are many things that someone else will always find ugly! so someone who has a disability is just the same as anyone else just different.
Ant to answer the OP yes i would fuck/ have sex with a disabled person and have in the past, it's all about connections  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't meet someone with a disability. Sorry if this offends anyone. I would not meet mixed race or coloured people either. Call me a racist and anti disabled if you like but just not my thing. Attraction or not the answer would be no. I'm sure there lovely people and sometimes a disability isn't the persons fault but I wouldn't meet them regardless. If I was in a relationship with and person and they became disabled in any way then that would be a different scenario and would stay in a relationship with that person. |
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"I wouldn't meet someone with a disability. Sorry if this offends anyone. I would not meet mixed race or coloured people either. Call me a racist and anti disabled if you like but just not my thing. Attraction or not the answer would be no. I'm sure there lovely people and sometimes a disability isn't the persons fault but I wouldn't meet them regardless. If I was in a relationship with and person and they became disabled in any way then that would be a different scenario and would stay in a relationship with that person."
I don't see why you feel the need to apologise and justify YOUR preferences and choices.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pork and I had an offer for a meet a while ago and although this guy was in a wheelchair and was said to be fully functioning in the sex department. I had to decline gracefully as my daughter uses a wheelchair and for me it just didn't seem right. For that reason alone i/we don't meet disabled... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the disability to be honest
Some disabilities wouldnt bother me some would
Disabilitie covers such a huge range i couldnt possabily give a simple yes or no answer to that question
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on the disability to be honest
Some disabilities wouldnt bother me some would
Disabilitie covers such a huge range i couldnt possabily give a simple yes or no answer to that question
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exactly, people seem to think black nd white either your like stephen hawkins or fine. it pisses me off to be honest.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wud u shah a disabled person"
Yes i was very fortunate to have met both a really sweet lady in 2010 who was disabled and we had a good sexual relationship till she married in 2012 and a great Bi guy who suffered cerebral palsy; and he is nice person and we bring a smile to each others faces lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"you really think anyones gonna have the balls to say no?"
I will. depending on the disability and the person with it. would certain disabilities make me pass? absolutely. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends on:
i) nature/severity of the disability.
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ii) whether they were open about it i.e. if it were sprung on me at point of meeting I would respond VERY negatively. |
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"OP - there are a number of people in wheelchairs on this site. The ones who have been on here a while tend to make it quite clear in their profiles what they can and can't do sexually 'up front'.
Hope that helps a bit...?
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We was going to meet a couple....nothing on there profile and not meantioned on any messages but found out from another couple....now not meeting him...not because of his disability but because of not telling us as I think it's a thing people need to know don't you think!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on:
i) nature/severity of the disability.
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ii) whether they were open about it i.e. if it were sprung on me at point of meeting I would respond VERY negatively."
Very true is prefer it to be out in open up front and depending on the disability after all if we enjoy certain types of sexual activity day if an individual isn't capable if partaking in then a polite no should suffice
I really enjoyed chatting to a guy on pof he was great to chat to very fit and good looking chatted for months and the day before we were due to meet he sprung it on me I was upset he hadn't told me upfront and felt the need to tell me as follows " just so you know before we meet I'm in a wheelchair so I guess that means you aren't going to he interested no need to reply I understand it happens all the time " go smacked was no word to describe how after a few months he thought that was the kind of person I am and how fuking rude to imply that needless to say he angered me and got a very angry response about how before he's even met me it seemed he had already made his mind up about me and how date he discriminate me and treat me like that yes be might be stuck in a chair he might not be able to do anything about but his attitude certainly needed a makeover ! Needless to say hour years on from what I gather reading his pof profile he still has a very large chip on his shoulder |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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Have we trully been honest on this thread????
Ok let face it. Only meet black, don't meet black, don't meet extra tall people, don't play with short people,don't play with BBW, don't meet ladies with no curves....the list can go on and on. Nobody ever put on his profile " won't meet disabled". I am sure it is just political correct. Find me someone who clearly put on his profile that he will meet a disabled here. Yes some played with and will do. But reading some of the post, it sound like sympathy than attraction. Also we focus more on what the person cannot do than what he is capable of |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex ( she had to move back to nz) was in a chair, crippled from waist down, sexually she did everything that an able bodied girl could do, only difference was a sneaky perk she gave me was anal, she didn't mind because she couldn't feel it........genuine ! |
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I would need someone to be honest about any disability so that I can make a judgement myself whether it would affect me getting intimate with that person. It would all depend on the nature and severity of the disability. None of this would matter if I wasnt physically attracted to them anyway, so my normal approach would still apply, I still need to fancy someone and get on with them before anything is considered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have preferences about who and what i look for in a meet so if the person fitted all those things and was disabled then yes i would meet them .... however i am disabled myself so maybe i am a bit more open that others at times .... someone being disabled in anyway wouldnt not stop me from wanting to meet someone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we trully been honest on this thread????
Ok let face it. Only meet black, don't meet black, don't meet extra tall people, don't play with short people,don't play with BBW, don't meet ladies with no curves....the list can go on and on. Nobody ever put on his profile " won't meet disabled". I am sure it is just political correct. Find me someone who clearly put on his profile that he will meet a disabled here. Yes some played with and will do. But reading some of the post, it sound like sympathy than attraction. Also we focus more on what the person cannot do than what he is capable of"
Well im fucked then, being bbw AND disabled at the mo....
No bloody chance  |
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Why not? Most disabled people are no different from the rest of us, they still need sex.
When I was in Northern Ireland years ago, in the RAF, there was a party on base and afterwards a disabled girl (with amputated legs) ended up in one of the barrack block rooms, and she was lifted from bed to bed and shagged by the occupants in turn. She enjoyed it and so did they! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love how 'disabled' is one big category.
Most of us are disabled in some way. My right knee has only two ligaments left in it due to years of rugby and I count that as a disability. I can't cross my leg without my kneecap popping out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's a shitty forum chat topic to be honest ! Why would it matter ? Twisted person
Is their an ism for this? "
I started it as it does seem to bother people, me being disabled i am finding increasing amounts of discrimanation. just wondered ppls thoughts |
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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago
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"Have we trully been honest on this thread????
Ok let face it. Only meet black, don't meet black, don't meet extra tall people, don't play with short people,don't play with BBW, don't meet ladies with no curves....the list can go on and on. Nobody ever put on his profile " won't meet disabled". I am sure it is just political correct. Find me someone who clearly put on his profile that he will meet a disabled here. Yes some played with and will do. But reading some of the post, it sound like sympathy than attraction. Also we focus more on what the person cannot do than what he is capable of
Well im fucked then, being bbw AND disabled at the mo....
No bloody chance "
...You are sweet, you are who you are , your personality shine more than your physic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most people have said would depend on nature/severity. Connection is more important."
i dont even think connection is more important when it comes to sex
I know a guy whos in a wheel chair, ive known him years and hes told me a few times he has feelings for me, hes a none swinging friend by the way, hes a lovely guy and i value him dearly as a friend, was he abled bodied i think i may have had sex with him several times by now but because hes in a chair i just cant, why?....because he has no feeling as all from the waste down so for me whats the point, whats the point in playing with a guy who cant feel anything, no point sucking his cock and he cant get an errection so i couldnt have sex with him, so what would we do, kiss, cuddle and him play with me? that maybe enough for him but thats not what im looking for in sex and i think it would be more patronising doing it when i dont want to so as not to hurt his feelings than being honest and telling him i dont like the idea of playing with a guy with no feeling waste down
Sorry if that sounds harsh
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's a shitty forum chat topic to be honest ! Why would it matter ? Twisted person
Is their an ism for this? I started it as it does seem to bother people, me being disabled i am finding increasing amounts of discrimanation. just wondered ppls thoughts "
Its called choice not discrimination...no one has to shag anyone if they choose not to |
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By *oofyCouple
over a year ago
plymouth |
Some old friends we had when living "up country",she had both legs removed, but they used to make a big joke of the fact and say, they could get in positions that were not in the "Kama Sutra", but they were straight friends so I never had the chance to find out what they were on about!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Def yes. But as a lot of people, honesty and attraction has a lot to do with it. I used to have 'breakfast' of an disabled lady (one arm missing from the elbow down) and we were great friends before and always had a lot of innuendo flying around so found it easy.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went out for a year with a girl who was in a chair, we met in a nightclub and had a great sex life, sadly the relationship didn't work out
One of my friends has dwarfism and she has a very active sex life, although she has made it clear I'm not her type, which is a pity as she's both sexy and naughty judging by the tales I hear from her |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I responded early to this thread and in a manner that appears to have caused offence, and may have been directed at the OP.
Please let it be known that I was in no way making comments directed at the OP's situation. I had not thought to check the OP's profile (and usually wouldn't anyway)
My responce may have been crass, and was certainly mis-judged on my part.
If I have caused any offense to the OP, I most certainly apologise.
AS for the question:
I would have to rephrase it; would the person in question want me???
Have fun! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have we trully been honest on this thread????
Ok let face it. Only meet black, don't meet black, don't meet extra tall people, don't play with short people,don't play with BBW, don't meet ladies with no curves....the list can go on and on. Nobody ever put on his profile " won't meet disabled". I am sure it is just political correct. Find me someone who clearly put on his profile that he will meet a disabled here. Yes some played with and will do. But reading some of the post, it sound like sympathy than attraction. Also we focus more on what the person cannot do than what he is capable of
Well im fucked then, being bbw AND disabled at the mo....
No bloody chance ...You are sweet, you are who you are , your personality shine more than your physic"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am deaf and never been confident with girls hence why I never had girlfriends. I joined this site to meet girls for mutual fun but havent had much luck tho |
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In a year and a half, I've never come across anyone disabled on this site yet? It wouldn't bother me. I'd like to think people still found me attractive in a wheelchair too.
As a gymnast, powerlifter with a perchance for motorbikes.. |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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Met a couple a long time ago with one partner disabled who wanted me to 'do the honours'. Devil's done similar over the years too. Can't underestimate the deep friendships and mutually appreciative understandings that go alongside sometimes, and among the lesser-abled you really do meet a better class of person 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a neurological condition that affects the use of her legs at times and means that she is disabled but we still swing so in answer yes would still play with another disabled person. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
"It seems ppl would so y carmt I."
sometimes the time that you focus on on why you can't get a meet isn't the reason at all.... but it then gives you an easy out....
for example.. if i was to play race and say "oh the reason why people won't meet me is because I'm black" places all the blame on them, and none on you....
blameless.....
but the reason may well be something completely different... for example, shit messages, shit profile, loads of people wanting to meet but you haven't been able to stand out, ect ect ect....
the biggest sex organ is the brain, sometimes it helps to use it to your advantage.....
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"Wud u shah a disabled person
Or turn it around. Would you shag a dyslexic?
As a disabled person who is normally Very easy going I actually find your 'A disabled' quite offensive  "
I absolutely get that.... using the term in a "oh woe is me" type way... rather than just saying... this is me! and focus on the positives rather than the negatives.... |
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yes i would im also disabled and in a chair as i have only just lost both my legs over the past 18 months i have had a little fun since u lost them and a lot of fun before i lost them but find it harder now that i have lost them but im still the same person always looking to meet new friends and not just for sex i like meets to cat have a cuppa ect and only play if friends would like to and now i can oly accom its harder so if anyone thinks they would like to drop by please get intouch xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wud u shah a disabled person
Or turn it around. Would you shag a dyslexic?
As a disabled person who is normally Very easy going I actually find your 'A disabled' quite offensive "
How would you have phrased it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like most people have said would depend on nature/severity. Connection is more important.
i dont even think connection is more important when it comes to sex
I know a guy whos in a wheel chair, ive known him years and hes told me a few times he has feelings for me, hes a none swinging friend by the way, hes a lovely guy and i value him dearly as a friend, was he abled bodied i think i may have had sex with him several times by now but because hes in a chair i just cant, why?....because he has no feeling as all from the waste down so for me whats the point, whats the point in playing with a guy who cant feel anything, no point sucking his cock and he cant get an errection so i couldnt have sex with him, so what would we do, kiss, cuddle and him play with me? that maybe enough for him but thats not what im looking for in sex and i think it would be more patronising doing it when i dont want to so as not to hurt his feelings than being honest and telling him i dont like the idea of playing with a guy with no feeling waste down
Sorry if that sounds harsh
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Not a bad point there. In that particular scenario you are actually better by not going through with it as it would come over patronising and he'd no doubt pick up on that.
That's why nature/severity is important.
E.g. say a guy was in a wheelchair because of one broken leg and COULD still feel everything. Would that be a different case? |
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