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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Unpopular opinion alert...would you pay to join Fab? Not like the Silver or Gold member option but just to join. Would it not out the idiots and trolls. Spent time today being abused about sexual preferences and fetishes by some chancer who had just signed up. Yes I blocked after a few messages made it clear I was just cannon fodder for them but would a nominal fee deter the idiots? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No, it would make entitled people more so, because they’d paid, and it would keep genuine but skint people out. "
It was just a thought, I'm far from entitled but being abused is not good regardless of financial status |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No, it would make entitled people more so, because they’d paid, and it would keep genuine but skint people out.
It was just a thought, I'm far from entitled but being abused is not good regardless of financial status "
I wasn’t suggesting for one moment that you were entitled, or that abuse was ok.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"No, it would make entitled people more so, because they’d paid, and it would keep genuine but skint people out.
It was just a thought, I'm far from entitled but being abused is not good regardless of financial status
I wasn’t suggesting for one moment that you were entitled, or that abuse was ok.
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No, I know that, sorry if it came across that way , was just throwing a thought out there that appears to have been taken the wrong way |
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"Unpopular opinion alert...would you pay to join Fab? Not like the Silver or Gold member option but just to join. Would it not out the idiots and trolls. Spent time today being abused about sexual preferences and fetishes by some chancer who had just signed up. Yes I blocked after a few messages made it clear I was just cannon fodder for them but would a nominal fee deter the idiots? "
There are plenty of "idiots" who have money... some might argue that the more money people have, the worse they become. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We use another site which we pay for, far superior to this site which we use as a side note. Our main bug bear with this site is that it doesn't cover every country in the world, eg Japan as we go there often, plus the search filters are absolutely hopeless on this site. Anyway it does work to a certain extent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can use your message filters to only allow messages from verified site supporters.
So you get your preferences without deterring new members.
I love the fact you can join for free, and message and use the forums and see what Fab is all about. Then you can then choose to pay if you want.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You can use your message filters to only allow messages from verified site supporters.
So you get your preferences without deterring new members.
I love the fact you can join for free, and message and use the forums and see what Fab is all about. Then you can then choose to pay if you want.
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I didn't know about message filters, that would definitely help. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Idiots and trolls have money too. It’s not about that, it’s about my,……. I mean their attitude."
Wasn't implying these people don't have money just that they might be less inclined to part with it just to be abusive.
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Definitely not, I wouldn't mind paying but my problem is my mother and sister are my bookkeepers, then after them comes our accountant, ever penny I spend that isn't cash is analysed te feek, am sure I am not the only one who doesn't want something sexual on their bank statements.
Besides that who knows what effect it would have on the site, about 20 years ago I was on a site that was considered massive in the swinging world (it began with the letter D ) it started charging then went downhill from there, gone 3 or 4 years later. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely not, I wouldn't mind paying but my problem is my mother and sister are my bookkeepers, then after them comes our accountant, ever penny I spend that isn't cash is analysed te feek, am sure I am not the only one who doesn't want something sexual on their bank statements.
Besides that who knows what effect it would have on the site, about 20 years ago I was on a site that was considered massive in the swinging world (it began with the letter D ) it started charging then went downhill from there, gone 3 or 4 years later."
Was merely a thought but yes I get it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I didn't know about message filters, that would definitely help."
Go to:
Messages
Menu
Message Filters
You can filter by age, sex, photos, verifications 
Hopefully that should filter some idiots. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I didn't know about message filters, that would definitely help.
Go to:
Messages
Menu
Message Filters
You can filter by age, sex, photos, verifications
Hopefully that should filter some idiots."
Thanks, really appreciate it. On reflection perhaps idiots was a bad choice of words, I'll have an internal conversation next time lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Understand what your saying but I hate paying now lol,"
On reflection was probably an ill judged comment on the back of a few messages that didn't sit well with me. We live and learn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Unpopular opinion alert...would you pay to join Fab? Not like the Silver or Gold member option but just to join. Would it not out the idiots and trolls. Spent time today being abused about sexual preferences and fetishes by some chancer who had just signed up. Yes I blocked after a few messages made it clear I was just cannon fodder for them but would a nominal fee deter the idiots? "
Would be better if all profiles had to be photo verified to be fair |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Unpopular opinion alert...would you pay to join Fab? Not like the Silver or Gold member option but just to join. Would it not out the idiots and trolls. Spent time today being abused about sexual preferences and fetishes by some chancer who had just signed up. Yes I blocked after a few messages made it clear I was just cannon fodder for them but would a nominal fee deter the idiots?
Would be better if all profiles had to be photo verified to be fair "
Good shout, would annoy less people than my snap reaction too |
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
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been on and off many sites over the years including one that is two words starting with S and H when they started charging it went down hill rapidly, I think fab is one of the best if not the best. |
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