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Your text just tells us you wont make a face pic public,nothing about you or what you offer op.
Also I'd put some cock pics in friends only personally.
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The disclaimers are 4 times longer than your bio. Most people look at profiles before deciding if they really want to open a message.
The amount of effort you choose to put into your profile can determine their choice. |
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"I've been a member for yrs I've tried to message peeps, but I've had not any verifications, hardly any messages , no meets, what am I doing wrong help..."
Get to socials clubs check other mens profiles fir some inspiration there's some great examples of males who have some well worked profiles on here |
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Your profile foesnt say what you are looking for
It doesnt say who you are looking for.
You say your experienced but dont say how or what in.
The disclaimer is a waste of time.
Use the local search facility to search for men, looking for women or couples so that you understand your competition.
Use the meet me today function.
Use the update status section to write a headline or to make people laugh.
Go to socials |
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If you want to meet people on FAB, you can do, in under a week. It does require you to go to a place where other people are first though.
Club nights, socials, meets posted in the forum or meet section are all ways to be in the same room as another fabber within hours if you want to.  |
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"Your profile foesnt say what you are looking for
It doesnt say who you are looking for.
You say your experienced but dont say how or what in.
The disclaimer is a waste of time.
Use the local search facility to search for men, looking for women or couples so that you understand your competition.
Use the meet me today function.
Use the update status section to write a headline or to make people laugh.
Go to socials"
Good tips *takes notes* |
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The easiest way to get veris us to go on cam. After that, socials and clubs. People will see that you're serious about meeting. But don't necessarily expect things to happen there. Then for an actual meet you'd have to change your profile. It says nothing about you, what you're after or what you can offer. Remove the warning stuff. Do you actually think they protect you?? |
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart "
I think if someone says "...what am I doing wrong help." then that is the definition of seeking profile help.
And the comment about the first pic on the profile is valid. If folk can comment about too many cock pics and/or cum dripping out of fannies why can't they comment about a close up pic of the bum hole of an alleged straight man?
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I think if someone says "...what am I doing wrong help." then that is the definition of seeking profile help.
And the comment about the first pic on the profile is valid. If folk can comment about too many cock pics and/or cum dripping out of fannies why can't they comment about a close up pic of the bum hole of an alleged straight man?
Frank"
Frank no its not, asking for profile advice is exactly that.
Go back and read the comment. Nothing was mentioned about a bumhole now was it. It was shaming pure and simple. However, you want to wrap it up.
Finally it's not about what others do, it's solely based on this Op no others. |
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Get yourself on the local social scene, make connections that way. Profiles are just the start. When people meet the real you they are more likely to meet. In my personal experience anyway. There are some I’ve met I may have passed by if I had just seen their profile. Nothing beats the real thing my friend  |
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I think if someone says "...what am I doing wrong help." then that is the definition of seeking profile help.
And the comment about the first pic on the profile is valid. If folk can comment about too many cock pics and/or cum dripping out of fannies why can't they comment about a close up pic of the bum hole of an alleged straight man?
Frank
Frank no its not, asking for profile advice is exactly that.
Go back and read the comment. Nothing was mentioned about a bumhole now was it. It was shaming pure and simple. However, you want to wrap it up.
Finally it's not about what others do, it's solely based on this Op no others. "
We'll have to put it down to interpretation. The OP says "I've been a member for yrs I've tried to message peeps, but I've had not any verifications, hardly any messages , no meets, what am I doing wrong help..." Though he doesn't explicitly ask for profile advice I feel that's exactly what's he's asking for.
Agree to disagree?
Frank
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I think if someone says "...what am I doing wrong help." then that is the definition of seeking profile help.
And the comment about the first pic on the profile is valid. If folk can comment about too many cock pics and/or cum dripping out of fannies why can't they comment about a close up pic of the bum hole of an alleged straight man?
Frank
Frank no its not, asking for profile advice is exactly that.
Go back and read the comment. Nothing was mentioned about a bumhole now was it. It was shaming pure and simple. However, you want to wrap it up.
Finally it's not about what others do, it's solely based on this Op no others.
We'll have to put it down to interpretation. The OP says "I've been a member for yrs I've tried to message peeps, but I've had not any verifications, hardly any messages , no meets, what am I doing wrong help..." Though he doesn't explicitly ask for profile advice I feel that's exactly what's he's asking for.
Agree to disagree?
Frank
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Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!! |
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart "
I just like to know for sure, before I offer advice. It’s hard to know if he wants that or not. |
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I just like to know for sure, before I offer advice. It’s hard to know if he wants that or not. "
Always good to ask first to know...its not clear if he is asking fir profile advice. So in my experience its best not to |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I just like to know for sure, before I offer advice. It’s hard to know if he wants that or not.
Always good to ask first to know...its not clear if he is asking fir profile advice. So in my experience its best not to "
Still asking for information what he might be doing wrong without giving any advice it would be impossible whether it's bio or photos |
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"Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!!"
Someone in the thread said something about the first pic on the OP's profile. Something about a skin tag? Apparently this is pic shaming. Why? It can be mentioned that someone has too many cock pics, disapproving comments about pics with cum dripping out of fannies can be mentioned. Why can't the OP's first pic be mentioned, if, like me, you believe he is seeking profile advice? The bum hole comment was me making sure there was no ambiguity about the pic being referred to.
Frank |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I've been a member for yrs I've tried to message peeps, but I've had not any verifications, hardly any messages , no meets, what am I doing wrong help..."
could be your username and your lack of profile also your asshole pic all three of them enough to put loads off, your profile is your advert...... Also the legal disclaimer is pointless |
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"The disclaimers are 4 times longer than your bio. Most people look at profiles before deciding if they really want to open a message.
The amount of effort you choose to put into your profile can determine their choice. "
And fab ask you NOT to post those as they are meaningless if you look in Fabs FAQ. So no one should have them at all it’s pointless. |
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"The disclaimers are 4 times longer than your bio. Most people look at profiles before deciding if they really want to open a message.
The amount of effort you choose to put into your profile can determine their choice. "
And fab ask you NOT to post those disclaimers at all as they are meaningless if you look in Fabs FAQ. So no one should have them on their profilel it’s pointless. |
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"Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!!
Someone in the thread said something about the first pic on the OP's profile. Something about a skin tag? Apparently this is pic shaming. Why? It can be mentioned that someone has too many cock pics, disapproving comments about pics with cum dripping out of fannies can be mentioned. Why can't the OP's first pic be mentioned, if, like me, you believe he is seeking profile advice? The bum hole comment was me making sure there was no ambiguity about the pic being referred to.
Frank"
Bringing anyone else into it, bout dic pics etc is a mute point Frank, as were not talking about anything else....the public shaming of "skin tag" is what I challenged, as in my view that is shaming pure and simple |
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"Are you asking for profile advice?
He actually didn't but people can't help themselves and rip the profile apart
I just like to know for sure, before I offer advice. It’s hard to know if he wants that or not.
Always good to ask first to know...its not clear if he is asking fir profile advice. So in my experience its best not to
Still asking for information what he might be doing wrong without giving any advice it would be impossible whether it's bio or photos "
How is this so hard for people to understand...has he explicit asked for profile advice no....therefore, basically deciding to read between the lines and make a implicit meaning to it. To give him advice on his profile. Or just using it as an excuse to rip someone apart, which is such common practice on fab. The vultures circle don't they at times... |
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"Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!!
Someone in the thread said something about the first pic on the OP's profile. Something about a skin tag? Apparently this is pic shaming. Why? It can be mentioned that someone has too many cock pics, disapproving comments about pics with cum dripping out of fannies can be mentioned. Why can't the OP's first pic be mentioned, if, like me, you believe he is seeking profile advice? The bum hole comment was me making sure there was no ambiguity about the pic being referred to.
Frank
Bringing anyone else into it, bout dic pics etc is a mute point Frank, as were not talking about anything else....the public shaming of "skin tag" is what I challenged, as in my view that is shaming pure and simple "
Yes, I see you're the one who made the pic shaming comment and have chosen to be offended on the OP's behalf.
If you feel someone mentioning a possible skin tag is pic shaming then fine, you do you. When/if the OP comes on and says he didn't want profile advice then I'll apologise to him personally, in public. Until then *Fab really needs a shrug emoji*
Frank |
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"Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!!
Someone in the thread said something about the first pic on the OP's profile. Something about a skin tag? Apparently this is pic shaming. Why? It can be mentioned that someone has too many cock pics, disapproving comments about pics with cum dripping out of fannies can be mentioned. Why can't the OP's first pic be mentioned, if, like me, you believe he is seeking profile advice? The bum hole comment was me making sure there was no ambiguity about the pic being referred to.
Frank
Bringing anyone else into it, bout dic pics etc is a mute point Frank, as were not talking about anything else....the public shaming of "skin tag" is what I challenged, as in my view that is shaming pure and simple
Yes, I see you're the one who made the pic shaming comment and have chosen to be offended on the OP's behalf.
If you feel someone mentioning a possible skin tag is pic shaming then fine, you do you. When/if the OP comes on and says he didn't want profile advice then I'll apologise to him personally, in public. Until then *Fab really needs a shrug emoji*
Frank"
Frank indeed a palm in face emogi is apt. Don't get it twisted and take it out of context. I'm not offended on the Op's behalf, im merely calling a behaviour that I don't agree with. I'm totally within my right to challenge something that I believe should be challenged. Mighty verbose yourself Frank, yet throwing it back at me. So I'll throw it back to you "you do you"
Have a great night Frank  |
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Maybe you're having difficulty because people who live in lickysucky longtime are not into swinging?
I'm surprised you've been a member for years as there's lots of good practical advice on the forums - all you have to do is read them to get ideas. As others have said, attending a social is the easiest way to meet people on here who can then verify you. |
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"Your perception is you perception, diffrent from mine, that's OK...
Bit still doesn't address the shaming though does it Frank!!!
Someone in the thread said something about the first pic on the OP's profile. Something about a skin tag? Apparently this is pic shaming. Why? It can be mentioned that someone has too many cock pics, disapproving comments about pics with cum dripping out of fannies can be mentioned. Why can't the OP's first pic be mentioned, if, like me, you believe he is seeking profile advice? The bum hole comment was me making sure there was no ambiguity about the pic being referred to.
Frank
Bringing anyone else into it, bout dic pics etc is a mute point Frank, as were not talking about anything else....the public shaming of "skin tag" is what I challenged, as in my view that is shaming pure and simple
Yes, I see you're the one who made the pic shaming comment and have chosen to be offended on the OP's behalf.
If you feel someone mentioning a possible skin tag is pic shaming then fine, you do you. When/if the OP comes on and says he didn't want profile advice then I'll apologise to him personally, in public. Until then *Fab really needs a shrug emoji*
Frank
Frank indeed a palm in face emogi is apt. Don't get it twisted and take it out of context. I'm not offended on the Op's behalf, im merely calling a behaviour that I don't agree with. I'm totally within my right to challenge something that I believe should be challenged. Mighty verbose yourself Frank, yet throwing it back at me. So I'll throw it back to you "you do you"
Have a great night Frank "
Ditto 
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Difference of opinion here but your username made me laugh OP, I do love a pun.
The profile title and location are definitely off putting though & there's not much personality coming through in your text.
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"Difference of opinion here but your username made me laugh OP, I do love a pun.
The profile title and location are definitely off putting though & there's not much personality coming through in your text.
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Agreed, I like the username. I have a penchant for all things a little silly! |
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