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Would your family be shocked?
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"
Who said it was a secret?
Most of my real friends know (Vanilla friends s well as kink).
So does my closest family.
thats the way I roll |
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"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."
Yes we’d have some issues! |
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C mum knows says its up to us k parents know nothing very prude close Friends know and othe people know as it was shared round are kids school not thay we care ironically the person that shared us comes on here with her bf everytime he's home we are who we are xx |
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By *linky1Couple
over a year ago
Sittingbourne |
"Shocked, definitely shocked. We love our filthy secret life,it being secret adds another layer of titillation for us  "
Secrecy is all part of the fun. Our friends and family would be surprised at the least.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes our friends and family would be shocked and not take to well if they new.
We are private people so like to keep it separate. It’s really nothing to do with anyone one else as long as we are both happpy with what we do. |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."
Uptick. We feel exactly the same. |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
As for my family; I don't know what would shock them more, the swinging site or the crossdressing. Probably the crossdressing. One of my sisters knows about the single occasion I went dressed to a club, and she was very supportive, but she did think it was a one-off.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A family members knows we swing and was shocked…..they said I don’t judge you for it but be careful who you tell because others will.
If I was asked I would be open but don’t see the need to broadcast it either |
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"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."
This is also us  |
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"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret.
This is also us "
Us too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honestly we don't care who knows. We was outed at our local pub! Some single guy who didn't like the fact we said no showed everyone our profile.
We aren't doing anything wrong, so we don't care who knows. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My Mum and my in-laws most definitely would be. They'd never get their head around it, and don't even think they would even try to understand it.
They would be shocked beyond shocked and disgusted. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
Durham |
Please don’t think it’s a different situation for single swingers. Most of us are facing a lot of societal pressure to be monogamous and it takes a lot of guts to go against that. I don’t think anyone has it easier. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question is, how to even approach this subject in the conversation with family and friends? 
I would have no idea. Although, my very close friends suspect I might be a swinger knowing me and how sexual I'm  |
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"Slightly different scenarios for the singles on here. As a married secure couple though........ YES, everyone would be very shocked and probably very judgemental which is why we do keep it secret."
Exactly this. I wouldn’t be fussed so much as a single but as a happily married and committed couple with work to think about too, we have to keep it a secret. Not that we mind, it’s all part of the excitement!
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I don't think my side of the family would be shocked at all.
They know exactly what I'm like.
Lucy's side of the family, most of them would be pretty shocked. Though ironically some of the older ones I suspect would be the most accepting. I half think that they probably got up to some shit when they were younger. It was the 60s after all haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m honestly not that sure if anything I did would shock them anymore. But at end of day it’s not anything they need to know about so I’m not going to find out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not in the slightest, my family know and Penny's knows we go to naturist places. Friends wise they all know and are all very jealous and intrigued. Surprisingly a lot of our female friends are up for heading to clubs, it's the males that don't have the balls so to speak. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes. Family would be shocked, friends would not believe it, and for work it would probably cause difficulties.
It's my personal life and I would like to keep it personal. |
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"My parents. Possibly. Don't think my dad would care. My mum wouldn't understand.
My best friend knows. He's seen plenty of videos of my partner getting pounded by her black fwb. "
Why have you shown those to your friend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My family and a few freinds would be shocked. I tend not to disclose anything too private with people and whenever they ask me what I've been up to I usually reply "nothing much, you?" So they mostly likely think I'm dull as dishwater.
A few of my closest freinds know though. |
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My mother-in-law knows we are a cuckold couple and a few of Dee’s closest friends do also.
What’s there to be shocked about ?
It’s our lifestyle choice and it works for us, they are generally very supportive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, my ex sis in law is on. That killed the fun and my erection when we walked in to a club and she was the first person we saw  "
Wow.. that must have been so awkward. Hope you still ended up having a good night though |
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Wow.. that must have been so awkward. Hope you still ended up having a good night though "
Nope, totally killed it! We had one drink and left, was a struggle putting up with her at family events let alone in a club! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?"
Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
milton keynes |
"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?
Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly "
Gotta love that straight up no fucks given attitude !! Legend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Would your family and friends be shocked about your swinging secret?
Noooo. My mum actually told me about fab many years ago when she was active on here. My friends all know I'm a slut anyway. Have been even before I joined fab. Works out perfectly
Gotta love that straight up no fucks given attitude !! Legend "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Probably and some would judge but the reason I don't discuss it with them is that I wouldn't share derail of my non swinging sex life with them either, it's just not my style |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's not really a secret for us. While we don't go about broadcasting it, we don't hide it either. And I doubt very much either of our families or friends who don't already know would be particularly bothered
Mrs |
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