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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens  . All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time ."
I don’t think you’ll be living with the disappointment for long looking at your pic! Enjoy…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens . All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time ."
Yes I know what you mean by that x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've not had that problem yet, but it sucks if someone has talked the talk but doesn't walk the walk.
And no, not your fault, you didn't name anyone so there's nothing wrong with saying how you feel! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thank you...just... I don't meet regularly and I try to make sure I'm meeting someone who sounds genuine... Just feel sad that's all. It's not just about their 'sexual experience'..... |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
Maybe they thought the same about you. Maybe when ye met up there just wasn't any chemistry between you. It happens sometimes.
It's also another reason not to engage with sex talk before you meet it leads to expectations that quite often don't pan out. It also stops those who are looking just wank material as well though. 
Meets sometimes don't go the way you want them to,I personally always do a social first as I find it's easier to walk away if one of you is not feeling it. |
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"Bad form??? For asking a genuine question? Bad form for being so hateful and judgemental... "
If you hit reply & quote people can see who your replying to.
Why wasn't the meet any good? Sometimes people meet and realise they don't quite click this is why we do socials 1st.
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"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens . All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time ."
Hey shit happens then we post about it on the forums...That's fab life |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe they thought the same about you. Maybe when ye met up there just wasn't any chemistry between you. It happens sometimes.
It's also another reason not to engage with sex talk before you meet it leads to expectations that quite often don't pan out. It also stops those who are looking just wank material as well though.
Meets sometimes don't go the way you want them to,I personally always do a social first as I find it's easier to walk away if one of you is not feeling it."
This 100%.
When I first started fab at about 26 I made mistakes and some meets were very lack lustre. I always do the above now and I'm not disappointed because nothing is built up to much and there is no pressure on anyone, just a drink or coffee to makesure that spark is there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Bad form??? For asking a genuine question? Bad form for being so hateful and judgemental... "
Where is the hate and judgement?
If you've met the person on Fab, what's to say they won't read the forums and see this. Did you both agree that you wouldn't see each other again? |
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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago
Cardiff |
Lol The last 4 meets I've had have all been canceled at the last minute.
The latest was a social meet on the way there I had a message canceling and blocked.My expectations are 0 now.
I don't think people on here appreciate how hard a guy has to work on here to actually get a meet only to cancel. They really need to have a word with themselves |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yes we did actually....
I take it someone's been disappointed by you before that's why you're so salty ...
It's okay though...we both can come to our own conclusions xxxx Good luck. |
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"Have you ever looked forward to a meet....and be so disappointed when it happens . All talk no action. So depressing and a waste of time ."
Yep, I’ve stopped meets before as the meet vibe wasn’t the same as pre meet vibes.
Don’t care if they are shy, nervous etc… I’m not here to hold peoples hands |
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Our worst experience was a meet with a lady,we turned up at a hotel/bar,she turned up totally sozzled, we booked her a taxi sent her home within 10 mins.....
Saying that weve had really naughty meets,but we never put our meets on here,they know exactly who they areXxxxxxxH&HMXxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Chemistry is a two way thing.
If it isn't there then I wouldn't blame the other person, it's just not there.
I don't tend to get overly invested in the sex talk prior though, as long as you both like the same things then it's all good. I wouldn't promise guys anything and I wouldn't want them promising me anything, the best things happen naturally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes we did actually....
I take it someone's been disappointed by you before that's why you're so salty ...
It's okay though...we both can come to our own conclusions xxxx Good luck."
If you pick click+reply we know who you replying to
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is one of the reasons we try not to “plan” what we want to happen on any meets. If we all click then we arrange a meet and just see how we get on in person. If the chemistry isn’t there then it’s nobody’s fault, it’s just not there. |
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Yes, twice.
One of my first meets, travelled to theirs and she just got d*unk on vodka that they asked me to buy. Plus had kid in next room asleep.
Second one, absolutely amazing couple that came to mine. She was stunning and i cum quickly, so massive disappointed on both parts |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
London/ South East |
I think we all need to be a bit more tolerant! It doesn’t matter whether you disagree with the post or someone’s crap between the sheets (we all have off days). Everyone’s a person with feelings. |
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