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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
I don’t know why it’s amazed you because I thought it was common knowledge that a lot of young men are attracted to more mature women, the fact that there’s a term to describe it (MILF) should tell you that. I assume you know what MILF stands for? You should read your OP back but instead of reading MILF read mom I’d like to fuck, then you might realise just how ridiculous your statement is. You’ve basically said ‘I’m amazed that so many young men want to fuck moms I’d like to fuck’, if young men didn’t want to fuck them then they wouldn’t be MILFs, they’d just be moms….
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I’m sure there are many reasons. When I was younger (early thirties mainly) I met with a lot of women in their fifties, I found women of that age super-sexy and had lots of fun. Curves, a certain confidence that comes with maturity, a desire to explore before they get too old (their words as I remember) were all reasons I guess. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
For some it is a fantasy they want to fulfil based on porn/ mate's hot mum/ teacher etc.
Some get off on the thrill of fucking an older dude's missis.
Others are genuinely attracted to older women for their confidence, experience, lack of inhibition, achievenents, not playing games etc.
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"For some it is a fantasy they want to fulfil based on porn/ mate's hot mum/ teacher etc.
Some get off on the thrill of fucking an older dude's missis.
Others are genuinely attracted to older women for their confidence, experience, lack of inhibition, achievenents, not playing games etc.
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Quite agree, one of my earliest, coming of age thoughts was that of a friend's parent. |
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By *LxxMan
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"For some it is a fantasy they want to fulfil based on porn/ mate's hot mum/ teacher etc.
Some get off on the thrill of fucking an older dude's missis.
Others are genuinely attracted to older women for their confidence, experience, lack of inhibition, achievenents, not playing games etc.
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Definitely agree with all the above…plus all men are different and have completely different fantasies…for every milf guy there’ll be a teen or feet guy and the fantasies have phases, you don’t just stick with one forever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you meet women in their 40s 50s on nights out, sexually active with different partners and not “settled down” she’s guaranteed to be filth. There’s nothing more attractive than a sexually adventurous woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In my experience, I find older women are more direct with their needs, so it's easier to communicate and have mutual fun. And with experience comes intelligence and excellent humour  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
i would love to fuck an older woman.  |
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From a males perspective, when you’re younger you fantasise about older woman and when you’re older it’s younger women…….a case of wanting what you haven’t got.
Why older/younger couple swaps work for the male…….not convinced it works that way for the women though  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
"From a males perspective, when you’re younger you fantasise about older woman and when you’re older it’s younger women…….a case of wanting what you haven’t got.
Why older/younger couple swaps work for the male…….not convinced it works that way for the women though "
You need to pick the right guys. Yes - some on here are undoubtedly immature and don't know how to behave (but that is people in general - not the exclusive domain of younger guys). I have met some fantastic intelligent and fun younger guys with whom I have had some very memorable occasions in and out of the bedroom |
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By *MCMan
over a year ago
London/EA |
"I dont get this thing where certain men dont attend meets when its arranged"
Always baffles me as well, guess they get cold feet but don’t have the decency to inform the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"From a males perspective, when you’re younger you fantasise about older woman and when you’re older it’s younger women…….a case of wanting what you haven’t got.
Why older/younger couple swaps work for the male…….not convinced it works that way for the women though
You need to pick the right guys. Yes - some on here are undoubtedly immature and don't know how to behave (but that is people in general - not the exclusive domain of younger guys). I have met some fantastic intelligent and fun younger guys with whom I have had some very memorable occasions in and out of the bedroom "
I'd second this. Men in their fifties can be just as immature. |
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
No not teally. Its because they can and older women make them feel more likely and more desired. Win win |
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For me it's the confidence that an older woman has, they are experienced and generally don't have the body image hang ups a younger woman might have.
Confidence and knowing what you want is a massive turn on for me. |
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I’ve had a lot of fun in my twenties with older women and it’s all down to respect. Most just wanted some fun without the arrogance that older guys sometimes bring.....this obviously isn’t a rule! Most guys can be dicks!! |
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There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman  . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic "
That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic
That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women"
Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
MADERIA Wherever I lay my hat |
"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic
That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women
Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish."
I can usually tell from a message or 2 whether they are just looking to tick something off their bucket list |
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x
I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown  "
Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? |
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x
I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown
Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit? "
Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
yumsville |
Thinking of the women I've met age makes little difference. Everyone is different, older, younger or similar age, some will throw you around the room, some will be a little shy, it doesn't really matter if they've been in longstanding relationships or not - I suppose it's like blokes, you either shag like a tin man or like you're hula-hooping at Mardi Gras. |
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x
I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown
Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit?
Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper "
Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle. |
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"Thinking of the women I've met age makes little difference. Everyone is different, older, younger or similar age, some will throw you around the room, some will be a little shy, it doesn't really matter if they've been in longstanding relationships or not - I suppose it's like blokes, you either shag like a tin man or like you're hula-hooping at Mardi Gras."
Once a year? |
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x
I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown
Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit?
Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper
Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle. "
I do, it's because I'm 'experienced'.  |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Thinking of the women I've met age makes little difference. Everyone is different, older, younger or similar age, some will throw you around the room, some will be a little shy, it doesn't really matter if they've been in longstanding relationships or not - I suppose it's like blokes, you either shag like a tin man or like you're hula-hooping at Mardi Gras.
Once a year? "
*Didn't mean to offend any Tin Towneans. |
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By *ik69Man
over a year ago
Sheffield |
"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
I am not young anymore but I prefer woman older than me when I was 23 my gf was 30 |
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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago
East Devon & London |
"We think a lot like the thought of it, but then when the chance arises show their immaturity and start coming up with excuses.  "
Often our experience which is why we tend to just play at a club these days, if they bottle it we just move on… |
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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago
Weymouth |
"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
I’ve always liked older women for as long as I can remember. I’m 54 now and I would still love to meet with an older woman if there are any local to Weymouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs was 62 ad young blood was 22. The thing is he came very quickly but soon back up and rock solid and took longer to cum - The chap bannged hard the wife as there were marks of the headboard on the wall as Mrs asked me to go for a walk on here second round and the sock between the wall and headboard must have fallen out.
Even know,young men ready to fuck my wife and most have a GF/partner/wife etc. |
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By *_nwMan
over a year ago
northwest |
When I was younger I always fantasised about the older woman and now I’m a bit older I guess I’d go for the same or similar age , although I do still find older women have something about them that’s hot as hell |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You should do what you’re comfortable with and I’m sure you do x
I do indeed, hence I'm still drinking tea in my dressing gown
Older women.. They know what they want and they know how to get it! Digestive biscuit?
Chocolate digestive straight from the fridge, ya whippersnapper
Biscuits in the fridge?! What fantasy... You know stuff to make the taste buds tingle.
I do, it's because I'm 'experienced'. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of stereotyping around older women. That is partly what prevents me from meeting much younger men, that and the fact that now I'm too old to even qualify as an older woman . I feel they have an ide in their head of what I'll be like and it's unrealistic
That's why I don't meet the fantasists and ones who fetishise older women
Where do you draw the line between genuine attention and a fetish? for me i don’t feel it’s a fetish.
I can usually tell from a message or 2 whether they are just looking to tick something off their bucket list "
And sometimes it's easy to tell from how younger men comment on a thread like this... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
I simply find older women more attractive, noting more than a physical thing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally speaking, when I was younger, 18ish, preferred older women and married one at 19 and Mrs was 6 years older.
Even when I was at high school I prefered ladies 30 plus
Now older, I'd love to fuck/dildo 21 to 35 yr old. Importantly, I would love to see a fit man at least 9 inches aged about 22/27 to fuck my wife in her late 60's. |
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Simple for me, they knew what they wanted and was no BS leading up to it. Much more confidence and that is so much hotter than any 18 year old playing dumb games.
Plus I got all my best lessons in my younger days that seem to have helped as I got older. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior? "
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. |
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior?
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. "
Indeed... Discretion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One thing that has amazed us is how much younger men want to fuck milfs. Do you think there is a psychological reason behind this?"
Think it’s because we’ve all watched America pie growing up and we all still have the thought of Stifler's Mom and we all wanna be that guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But that being said for me the older women knows what she wants and doesn’t beat around the bush also I’ve found they are the best with blowjobs and handjobs you learn something new with them! They just seem a bit naughty and more horny these day ls |
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior?
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private. "
It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference.
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior?
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private.
Indeed... Discretion "
You could bump into a friend at a coffee shop or a bar and fob them off with an excuse about your fab female friend being a date without raising too much suspicion. If she's a good 20yrs older that's going to be a less plausible explanation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Simple for me, they knew what they wanted and was no BS leading up to it. Much more confidence and that is so much hotter than any 18 year old playing dumb games.
Plus I got all my best lessons in my younger days that seem to have helped as I got older. "
Exactly this , I love an older women |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior?
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private.
It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference.
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You gave the idea that older equals an easy lay though and that you wouldn't introduce them to friends.
It depends how you use the site but it's either an easy lay, a selection process or a good circle of friends.
None mean you're getting an introduction to close friends though.
Plausibility in a coffee shop would be seen through by anybody that knows someone well enough as they'd likely know your social group/type (old, young or with a couple) and how uncomfortable you were if asked anything as you barely know each other.
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"I think some honestly see us as an easy lay. How many would happily be seen by their mates if they were out with a woman 20 or 30yrs their senior?
This has nothing to do with age. How many swingers in general would you introduce to your friends, family or acknowledge out in public, none or very few. You don't introduce them as you're not dating and it avoids the awkward questions around shagging, how long, and where you met when for the most people want swinging to be kept private.
It's got everything to do with age. The question posed specifically refers to age and age difference.
You gave the idea that older equals an easy lay though and that you wouldn't introduce them to friends.
It depends how you use the site but it's either an easy lay, a selection process or a good circle of friends.
None mean you're getting an introduction to close friends though.
Plausibility in a coffee shop would be seen through by anybody that knows someone well enough as they'd likely know your social group/type (old, young or with a couple) and how uncomfortable you were if asked anything as you barely know each other.
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I'm also basing my opinion on my interactions on here as an older woman. I'd the say the number of younger men on who have genuinely been attracted to me are in the minority. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Look at it another way, a lot of older women like to fuck younger men. When man was created, god was a real bastard. He made men virile when they were younger and woman feel hornier when they are older. However this is not the only reason, and that is down to each of our on reasons we like to do anything here lol  |
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Yes, I didn't know until a younger guy at work left and sent me a few messages telling me everything what he dreamed of doing to me. Then we came on here and found out that there are alot of younger guys wanting milfs |
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