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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?
I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes it triggers abuse when I reply to keep it to the forum "
What saying keep it to the forums got to do with getting your clit licked or back blown out? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My favourite slide into dms recently was when I quoted someone's posts, I was taking the piss out of there blanten lie. They missed the sarcastic tone and tried to start a conversation up |
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Sometimes I mind, sometimes I don’t.
If their message is engaging and polite, I might respond. If the message is unnecessary or rude (or they’ve messaged before with no reply), I will block. I reckon there are repeat offenders who lurk in the forums and only respond in private. |
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"Just because you can DM op's from thier forum post does not mean you should
Them & thier filters should be respected always"
You can't reply to someone if you're blocked by their filters anyway.
The forums are generally a fun & chatty place and i've made lots of friend off the back of forum comments.
I see no harm in messaging privately, so long as it's not to give an insult you're too scared to make in public
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"Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?
I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread "
I’d rather someone takes it to a private chat where you can either delete/ ignore or block than have it as a public chat |
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The so super sexy Dora and Diego explore so deserves everybody respect and I feel I'm showing them mine I'm not sending a DM because I'm way over their age filter but still think they're awesome anyway |
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"It does happen from time to time, the reply privately button is there and people use it, doesn't worry me at all to be honest, just part of fab life."
I assumed it went on the thread, but was invisible to all other than the intended. Good to know that’s not the case, before using the button |
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It doesn't worry me. Some feel they need to educate me, some to tell me my opinion is wrong, some that they agree with me and other just want to be rude to me. I block, delete, reply or report as appropriate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used  |
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By *umblefunMan
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used "
. This. I’ve done this a few times and made some nice connections, but I’ve also posted things to forums where I’ve had bi and gay guys (I’m not) writing and asking follow up questions, so I see how annoying it can be and there is always the block |
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"Do you find when you respond to a post here some people see it as a loophole to engage with you?
I like to give advice but it’s sometimes results with a message in my DMs with a flirty response from the OP or those who respond to a thread "
Most of my messages I get on here are a replying to something that's been posted publically on here. There's a lot of lurkers who seem afraid to post publically. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used . This. I’ve done this a few times and made some nice connections, but I’ve also posted things to forums where I’ve had bi and gay guys (I’m not) writing and asking follow up questions, so I see how annoying it can be and there is always the block"
It does come in handy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation have had some nice conversations with people on the forums but have had quite a few lurkers too with the seen your comment on the forum nice tits and then block is used "
We wouldn’t of spoken I didn’t slide in 
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