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By *roy633 OP Man
over a year ago
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Just a question to all the swinging couples. How did u come around to getting involved into swinging? Did u just turn around and say to your partner " hey hun you fancy swinging? "
How did you break the ice on the subject of lets fuck other couples.
I was with a relationship few years back and i mentioned it to her and she just turned round and said " just cause you want to shag other women.
And why does there seem to be a big age gap in couples, men seem to be a lot older then the women in the swinging scene. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As an ex married swinging couple i like to answer...
It is generally they guy needing/wanting more sex that goes down swinging route as apposed to having an affair....and then there are couples who are higlhy sexed up and cant get enought sex,,,that one fits most id say...so breaking the ice comes from fantacy talk to teasing to experiments and watching others at a club..etc...
But most of all if she does not want it and as low sex drive there are other more deep routed issues at large; so tred carefully and good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always talked about our fantasies and many of them were about inviting other people to join us while having sex.
Ju had always fantasised about being with another women.
This had been going on for years and we were always happy with it being a fantasy.
As we got older and found we had more time on our hands we both decided to explore it further. I can't honestly remember who suggested it first but we ended up on a couple of sites. After a bit of trial and error we finally plucked up enough courage to send some emails. So finally after about 3 months of being on a site we met a couple.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello we are a swinging couple, there is a slight age gap, me ( Lucy ) being slightly older than Luke! But don't see what age has to do with swinging?
Anyway how did we get into swinging, we have a very exciting healthy sex life, and I have a very dirty mind, one evening over a bottle or 2 of wine I told Luke a few of my fantasies and luke told me his!!! The rest is history as they say!
Swinging isn't a big part of our life though, we only meet every now and then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We'd spoken about it as a fantasy for several years before we took the plunge. Andy liked the idea of bringing another guy in as he liked the idea of me sucking and being fucked at the same time. It was me who suggested we meet other couples, otherwise what was in it for him. We do still meet couples from time to time, but we still very much enjoy meeting single guys, and before anyone asks Andy is straight so there wasn't an hidden agenda  |
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we both went out with a guy from work for a few beers after work one night and he came back to ours for a drink .. next thing we all ended up in bed together and he stayed the night .. infact he stayed about 6 months ! lol
anyway ..it just seemed natuaral after that |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have a couples profile also...i got into swinging years ago with an ex mainly because i am bi and like the ladies so variety for him girl on girl for me...
Met my recent partner through swinging and he is happy to continue it as a couple...simple and there are only 2 years between us lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wanted a threesome for year's and had talked about it for a few year's before my husband was up for it. He finally decided it be a good idea and we went from there . Xxx "
Same here - although not so much threesomes - more like Roman orgies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We went to london for our wedding anniversary,while we were there we came across a nudist spa called rios.
We thought it would be a bit of fun going naked so after a little bit of duch courage we ended up in rios.
Well our eyes were certainly opened that night having had nothing to do with swinging.
And here we are now having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a question to all the swinging couples. How did u come around to getting involved into swinging? Did u just turn around and say to your partner " hey hun you fancy swinging? "
How did you break the ice on the subject of lets fuck other couples.
I was with a relationship few years back and i mentioned it to her and she just turned round and said " just cause you want to shag other women.
And why does there seem to be a big age gap in couples, men seem to be a lot older then the women in the swinging scene."
You are wrong about the age gap thing. It's no more or less common than anywhere else in society.
Can I ask why you want to swing? Your motives are probably relevant as you are on here as a single male.
As for us, we met on a BDSM site, 2 weeks after we met we went to a fetish night and there was a couples room and the rest is history! I would not recomend that route though, we both had been in swinging relationships before and both were experienced in group situations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As an ex married swinging couple i like to answer...
It is generally they guy needing/wanting more sex that goes down swinging route as apposed to having an affair....and then there are couples who are higlhy sexed up and cant get enought sex,,,that one fits most id say...so breaking the ice comes from fantacy talk to teasing to experiments and watching others at a club..etc...
But most of all if she does not want it and as low sex drive there are other more deep routed issues at large; so tred carefully and good luck "
You seriously think that most couples swing because it's an alternative to the guy cheating? that may be your eperience but I doubt it is representative.  |
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Mrs scoobs was lying in the bath one night with me sitting talking to her, we had only been together 2 years or so, and i just asked her if she had ever had sex with another woman,
she said no
I said would you like to
she said yes.
And as they say the rest is history |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well believe it or notbut i (male) didnt even know about the 'swinging world' till i got with my gf. i was just interested in the girl i was with and going out with friends.
after a year of being with her,she asks what fantasy i have and would i like to see her with a girl in a hot fem fem night,i said EH? lol so then she tells me she has been in 'the scene' in the past...and it went from there
My main fantasy is getting it on with an older busty woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my hubby would talk bout fantasys wen d*unk and horny and the main one for both of us was me with another woman, so we decided to go for it x
I was a virgin wen I met him to so even thou sex with him is fantastic I always had urge to try other cock x |
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My ex was a boob man and upoaded some photos to another site, then lots of popups started to appear, and one was about dogging, hit google for dogging spots and visited those close to us for months and never saw a thing. Then one night we saw everthing possible in one carpark it was madness, some were members on here...ad it went from there really odd how things work out |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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Missus was on all fours giving me a bj and I just said "wouldnt it be great if someone was behind you right now pumping you hard", she said yes and whoooooooosh, we went to abfabs within the month, took part in an orgy on our first night and have been busy at it ever since  |
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