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Mum tum - turn on or turn off?
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By *aurad OP Couple
over a year ago
glasgow |
What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx |
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over a year ago
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A mum tum just tells a bit of the story of the mums life. Sexy is how you connect. Just as sexy with or without |
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I definitely have a mum tum and no one here seems to mind so far. Great to feel confident in my body |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
Depends.
On if it's a Celtic mum tum or a rangers mum tum  |
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Definitely a turn on for me 
Yummy mummy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a turn on |
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I don’t like my mum tum on myself so I constantly hide it but on other women it’s part of them I don’t think it detracts from their sexiness |
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Couldn't care less, there is much more than a flat stomach to making a woman sexy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can be the sexiest thing about a woman, love lifting a top up to reveal a gorgeous mum tum… then go lower and show my appreciation… |
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By *otty74Man
over a year ago
witney |
Wife has one and hates it but I find it sexy as hell! |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
doesnt put me off at all nothing wrong with a mum tum |
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Not a turn off at all. |
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I have a mum tum. Conscience of my own. But find them very appealing and sexy on others. X |
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No issue whatsoever, it wouldn’t even cross my mind |
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By *uscle88Man
over a year ago
Potters Bar |
It’s a huge turn on, I always find a woman more sexy and attractive after child birth, |
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By *uscle88Man
over a year ago
Potters Bar |
"I have a mum tum. Conscience of my own. But find them very appealing and sexy on others. X"
Nothing wrong with how you look at all babe x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a huge turn on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mum tum with big boobs |
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Belly rolls and saggy boobs are so sexy to me. Stretchmarks and cellulite drive me crazy. Love a womanly body |
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"Belly rolls and saggy boobs are so sexy to me. Stretchmarks and cellulite drive me crazy. Love a womanly body "
Ooh I have 4 out of 4 |
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"I have a mum tum. Conscience of my own. But find them very appealing and sexy on others. X
Nothing wrong with how you look at all babe x"
Thank you xx |
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Not a problem at all ...sexy is an attitude not a figure X |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"Belly rolls and saggy boobs are so sexy to me. Stretchmarks and cellulite drive me crazy. Love a womanly body
Ooh I have 4 out of 4 "
Baby oil that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a mummy tummy so massive turn on for me. My ex she loved me running my hands over hers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a mum tum.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a mum tum! Usually means there’s also a fairly big bum and I’m more than ok with that
Mr |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
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I'm attracted to whom I click with, regardless.
The only issues is if you are too young. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mum tums are hot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love them big or small |
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I actually not sure what a mum tum looks like? Is it like a cat's belly when they just had kittens? |
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"I'm attracted to whom I click with, regardless.
The only issues is if you are too young."
What's too young? Under 18? |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
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"I actually not sure what a mum tum looks like? Is it like a cat's belly when they just had kittens?"
Stretch marks I believe but I'm sure someone will correct me on that |
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It's not a specific turn on, but it's definitely not a turn off. It's just a thing that is, and I'm fine with it. Whether it's soft and pudgy, sagging, stretch marked, or all of the above, it's no biggie. They all feel nice to me. |
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By *ustj4fMan
over a year ago
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Rather have a real woman than a fake one  |
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Mum tums and muffin tops are lovely.  |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
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Define a mum tum. As a little Extra on the bottom of your stomach doesn’t compare to what a lot of other women, including myself are left with after.
I Personally don’t find it a turn on, but I am proud of it and have learned to embrace it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes most definitely. Says a lot about the lady. Horny as |
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Doesn't bother me at all if I like the woman the tum isn't going to put me off, don't like my own though but I guess we're all our own worst critics.
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Mum tum with big boobs and bum,
What's not to love about that, |
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I was always very self conscious of mine after 4 kids but it a part of who I am. Being on fab and going to clubs has definitely given me the confidence to own my body and I've learned to love an embrace my wobbly bits
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This thread is just the confidence boost I needed on a Monday morning  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've got a mum tum and a c section scar - I couldn't care less if someone doesn't like it.  confidence in your own body is key.x |
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Love it very sexy ..like a lady with curves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely, own what ever you have and enjoy it and others will too |
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In the fine words of NSG “ I don’t care if you got a lil fupa” |
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If it's such a great thing why all the fuss? It's there if he likes the flatter ones better oh well, there's always another dozen guys on here. |
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I really don't get the 'Dad bod' 'mum tums' thing.
Surely regardless of being a parent our bodies change with age. We gain weight which causes our skin to stretch. We loose weight and it saggs. The key is trying to be happy in YOUR skin regardless what others think.
My body is nowhere near perfect it has many flaws but I'm learning to be happy in it. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine is a lot more than slight.
I think I probably have more of an issue about it than anyone I have ever met does.
In the real world no one looks like an air brushed beauty.
Sex is messy, awkward, fun and therfore when you've had a good time you're going to look like you've had a good time.
If people can't handle that then they are in the wrong place |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mine is a lot more than slight.
I think I probably have more of an issue about it than anyone I have ever met does.
In the real world no one looks like an air brushed beauty.
Sex is messy, awkward, fun and therfore when you've had a good time you're going to look like you've had a good time.
If people can't handle that then they are in the wrong place "
100% and you look amazing anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Personally a big turn on, I love curvey women, better for exploring, can't get enough of my ladies curves |
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If she ain’t got a mum tum, I don’t want it! LOL |
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By *MrMrsXCouple
over a year ago
Hereford |
Wow!! how lovely to see so many amazing comments. It’s literally the only thing holding me back from meeting anyone. I hate my tummy. We connect with people then I go self conscious and can’t meet. Gah. I’ve been to clubs but feel better in lingerie, every woman who has commented on here genuinely looks amazing. Xx |
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Absolutely nothing wrong with a mum tum |
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Nothing wrong with a mum tum all the ladies that have replied on this post look absolutely fantastic ?? |
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By *edi123Couple
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
I’m booked in for surgery in October to have mine removed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now I'm more mature I realise women aren't designed to look like pornstars or instagram models their whole lives. Their bodies are sexy and do incredible things bearing children. That is hot and sexy in its own right. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Huge turn on for me, and you look wonderful |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have a mum tum. Conscience of my own. But find them very appealing and sexy on others. X"
Looking terrific |
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By *aurad OP Couple
over a year ago
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Thanks to all who've replied so far. I know that sexy comes from how you feel rather than how you look but I do get self conscious of my tum at times (even though it's not that big but hey, we all have bits we're less keen on!) Mr D however absolutely loves it and finds it incredibly sexy. Reassuring to know that you lot out there love a real woman, with a tum, boobs and ass. I wouldn't trade my curves for all the world! |
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Definitely yes, MILFs are people of beauty. And at my age I also have an appreciation of GILFs! |
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By *linyMan
over a year ago
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Real women please!!! I love a mum tum. When a woman can be body positive and confident in herself, she can relax and let go and enjoy herself and that’s when the magic happens!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mum tum here that i hate but have had guys say they adore a mum tum |
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Mum tum here and I hate mine, really conscious about it
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Think it’s a turn on most deffo
Xx |
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By *ityguyMan
over a year ago
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Love a mum tum also bbw ladles |
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It's inconsequential to me, I'm mostly attracted to the actual person i.e. the mind / personality. Of course physical attraction is a thing but a mum tum would certainly not put me off. |
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It doesn't bother me I love curvy women x |
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Mega turn on. I love a fuller woman. So so sexy |
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By *ycom72Man
over a year ago
Birmingham |
Love a mom tum so sexxxy … natural body love it |
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By *lzee2Man
over a year ago
Stansted |
I love it! I actually find a tummy rather sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's very sexy indeed |
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Very sexy. I'd rather a tummy to skinny |
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I absolutely hated my mum tum but now I’m my 30s iv accepted it’s a part of me and I now post pictures with it on show if people don’t like it thats a them issue not my issue learn to love your body stretch marks and all |
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Nothing wrong with in women’s tum ! Sexy milf |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I absolutely hated my mum tum but now I’m my 30s iv accepted it’s a part of me and I now post pictures with it on show if people don’t like it thats a them issue not my issue learn to love your body stretch marks and all "
Great pics, thank you for sharing x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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turn on .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely have a mum tum and no one here seems to mind so far. Great to feel confident in my body"
Your mum tum is horney nothing to worry about there hun |
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Total turn on your are very sexy. |
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By *ndateableMan
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Love a fuller figured woman! It’s a yes from me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a mum's body |
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I'm not a mum, but I do have a tum. In fact, I have two! 
I hate it (them!) but some lovely guys I've met have loved my softness & led to me feeling very sexy in my skin. |
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I always say women are meant to have curves and bits to hold onto.. I like slim ladies too tho.. but curvy women seem able to take it better |
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Great to hear the positivity about a mum tum. Never thought people would find it sexy |
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Nothing wrong with a nice cuddly tummy |
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By *rixterMan
over a year ago
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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
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all figures are eye catching .... x |
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Oh it’s so sexy and one of my favourites. Very naughty thoughts on lovely mums. Such lovely people I find |
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A Mum tum is an indication to me that I'm with a woman, a lady with experience and style who is not a twenty something who does not know what they want.
Likewise I associate it with the maturity of knowing the inner pleasures of the lifestyle...
All good in my eyes |
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Who wouldn’t like a soft mum tum to gently hold and kiss all over…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think I I have a type of figure on a woman that look for it's more the type of woman if they are pretty on the inside I'm attracted to them mum tums would never turn me off of a nice person |
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
The fact if a mans attractive to you its not a issues its only you thinking about . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Massive turn on for me from toned small ones to big wobbly ones just love them then all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My wife has a bit of a tum on her |
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"My wife has a bit of a tum on her "
It doesn't turn me off
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They don’t concern me in the slightest. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx"
Pretty irrelevant if I'm honest. Personality, charisma and enthusiasm all trump physical attributes |
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Give me a lady with a mum tum before a gym bunny every day of the week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Give me a lady with a mum tum before a gym bunny every day of the week. "
But Dave you would say that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does everyone think, is it sexy for a lady to have a slight mum tum or does this put you off? I'd like to know ... xxx
Pretty irrelevant if I'm honest. Personality, charisma and enthusiasm all trump physical attributes "
On that basis you would shag Margaret thatcher? |
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Great to see so many positive comments.
Because honestly, at some age (menopause!) you just need to get to accept it as no amount of exercise and healthy habits will help. |
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No issue to me, the stomach still gets kissed an licked, be it toned, mum tum or larger  |
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"No issue to me, the stomach still gets kissed an licked, be it toned, mum tum or larger "
Oh I agree that is very horny |
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"No issue to me, the stomach still gets kissed an licked, be it toned, mum tum or larger "
Good to know |
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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago
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Same here, just like sexually confident ladies. |
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"No issue to me, the stomach still gets kissed an licked, be it toned, mum tum or larger
Good to know "
you can find out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on. It's natural
We can't all be gym fit.
Let's embrace who we all are for love
Sincerely
Fat Bastard |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was always told growing up any man can drive fast in a straight line takes a real MAN to handle the curves fast lol |
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Mrs is very conscious about her mum tum no matter how many times I tell her it’s sexy |
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Mums with tums, you’re all welcome here
I’ll look after you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Mrs is very conscious about her mum tum no matter how many times I tell her it’s sexy "
your mrs has a very sexy tum and would love to run my hands over hers x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with mum tum at all! Doesn’t make a difference to us. We’re either attracted to you or not and your mum tum has very little to do with that
Mr |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Belly rolls and saggy boobs are so sexy to me. Stretchmarks and cellulite drive me crazy. Love a womanly body
Ooh I have 4 out of 4 "
Wow, totally gorgeous |
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Only thing I don't like about a mum tum is a covered up one , natural woman is best for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a mum tum, women with some curves are big turn on |
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Definitely sexy!
Although my wife hasn't got her confidence back since having a baby with her mum tum.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sooooo sexy |
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Wife hates hers but find it so sexy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it....love to see a sexy muffin top! X |
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"It's more about boobs...I mean personality  "
Also agree, mum boobs are something special! |
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By *aveonMan
over a year ago
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Love a natural curvy women… especially naked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I adore them, so sexy especially with stretch marks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No complaints here. Even been with someone still lactating and loved it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Turn on...same as dads bods for the ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a turn ON! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They definitely call them milfs for a reason! Mum tum is hot! |
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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago
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Not many have the 'perfect' body so just relax and have fun. We love a sexy lady mum tum or not xx |
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Doesn't bother me in the slightest |
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I hate mine so it's surprising to see it's widely accepted here. |
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Couldn’t care less. Either we’re compatible or not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big fan of the mom bod  |
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By *avexxMan
over a year ago
cheshire |
doesnt bother me at all.. |
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Proportion is key for me , Tum Is beautiful on
a curved lady.
Tim+ thighs+bum++boobs are so sexy when they match in size |
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Mrs is self conscious of her own and can be shy about it but isn't bothered by a mum tum on another lady in the slightest.
Mr isn't worried either way. |
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Im young male and i love mom tum  |
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By *aveonMan
over a year ago
Dartford |
"I hate mine so it's surprising to see it's widely accepted here."
You are stunning - such a natural beauty …. And I know all would agree
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with a mum tum still sexy |
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