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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets.  "
I was chatting about this earlier, proper red flags and I will never understand what inspires people to behave like that |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets. "
And why should you!? Although honestly guy's we've met have been upfront with pictures, we've found couples and ladies to be harder work.. |
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I genuinely post one every so often on my profile.
Still get random people inboxing asking for one (usually with no pics on their profile,or just x-rated shots) when I request their pic usual response is I/we don`t send face pics because of work etc 
Then they describe themselves,then ask for pics again. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
i have a simple system that i stick to you message me first you send clear face pic first and if i message you first then ill send mine ...
no face pic = no meet
but as someone else have said there are alot of couples a women on here who never give face pics out ..relying on the fact they are sought after by men
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Personally im always happy to send a face pic when messaging someone. I mean you don’t introduce yourself in public hiding your face do you?
If they are reluctant to reveal then that would be a red flag to me so exercise a bit of caution….or ignore. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets. "
Too many fakes. I get people I’m enjoying chatting to to send me a pic showing at specific body part relating to another, finger touching an elbow for example. Something hard to find quickly on the internet. Amazing how fast they ghost you then! To my mind blokes masquerading as couples or women are pretty low! Don’t lower your standards…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get so many dick pics through in a first message asking if we want to meet. That is never going to happen.
I wonder if it has ever worked for anyone or it is just a cheap thrill for them? |
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I have a face pic on my profile …. so it is only fair for someone to reciprocate. I appreciate some will want to hide their face maybe to the wider audience in here, but it isn’t too much to expect once you start chatting.
I do find it odd when a profile says ‘must have a face pic’ as a requirement…. but then hide their own!
I would never meet anyone I hasn’t seen!
R xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’re always happy to share face and body pics, especially if we’re getting along well with someone. Definitely comes across as dodgy when they refuse to show who they are  |
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I think if someone is keen to meet you gotta see there face at least, and maybe body too, I be very surprised if anyone meets anyone without any knowledge of what someone looks like. But I've seen threads where they do stranger meets blindfold sex and not a scooby doo what they look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets. "
They probably have something to hide etc.
I know we all here for the same reason and we all want discretion, but some people are more careful than others….. |
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"Btw your profile status is shouting for cock pics,
Just saying…"
And what's the problem with that? Why so shy not to show it? It's fab most profiles show it. Just dubious when men don't want to show anything and expect to meet. |
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"I think if someone is keen to meet you gotta see there face at least, and maybe body too, I be very surprised if anyone meets anyone without any knowledge of what someone looks like. But I've seen threads where they do stranger meets blindfold sex and not a scooby doo what they look like."
I understand there's glory holes in clubs but that's club environment. But as for blind meets or being blind folded, aren't you asking for trouble? |
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"I think if someone is keen to meet you gotta see there face at least, and maybe body too, I be very surprised if anyone meets anyone without any knowledge of what someone looks like. But I've seen threads where they do stranger meets blindfold sex and not a scooby doo what they look like.
I understand there's glory holes in clubs but that's club environment. But as for blind meets or being blind folded, aren't you asking for trouble?"
I would never ever do a blind meet I'm basically same as everyone you gotta see face pic and maybe body can be clothed but you gotta see who your meeting right? Lol. |
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I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.
A supposedly “verified” female I talked to a few years ago turned out to be a male who threatened to share my pictures online and send them to my family and friends after I politely turned him down and told him I am straight.
After that experience I have been very careful with who I share my real identity with and would suggest others also do some research on who they are speaking to before they share anything too intimate.
I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking. |
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"I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.
A supposedly “verified” female I talked to a few years ago turned out to be a male who threatened to share my pictures online and send them to my family and friends after I politely turned him down and told him I am straight.
After that experience I have been very careful with who I share my real identity with and would suggest others also do some research on who they are speaking to before they share anything too intimate.
I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking."
Dam that's a scary story  |
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
Baughurst |
Cherry,
those not sharing their face privately to you are probably real men (most) but likely not singles free to meet, so not intending to act on their fantasy. You are a gorgeous lady who writes super erotic stories, so for them it is an ego boost think that they managed to chat you up to the point that they feel you would be willing to meet them. It is as simple as that.
We only play with couples, but for us it is a similar story. That is why we ask early for faces and clothes-on full body pics. If the alleged couple does not share or we feel no attraction, then we say so and no time wasted on either side, then we move on.
Lars & Lena xx |
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"Why some guys on here ask to meet me but very reluctant to show their face and body? .... I don't do blind meets. "
Because they’re mingers, knew they were punching above when they contacted you, dreamers and don’t stand a chance…
Any guy worth your time will be open, share pictures, will actually talk on the phone, meet for a no commitment social first.. |
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On a similar note I find it hilarious when people insist on seeing a face pic when they have no pics at all on their profile or one pic from 10 years ago.....I’m looking at you females and couples  |
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"I’d always share a face pic before meeting for security reasons and would expect the same in return, however I tend to be a bit cautious about sharing mine too early.
A supposedly “verified” female I talked to a few years ago turned out to be a male who threatened to share my pictures online and send them to my family and friends after I politely turned him down and told him I am straight.
After that experience I have been very careful with who I share my real identity with and would suggest others also do some research on who they are speaking to before they share anything too intimate.
I had to report the individual to the police to stop them from trying it with anyone else. They have since been removed from the site, but I am sure other people with similar intentions are lurking."
Damn. Luckily these days your family relationships and career will withstand an outing - not saying it won’t be tough but this kind of ‘outing’ bl*ckm*il isn’t the threat it used to be.
Lesson is do not chat or exchange pictures with anyone who hasn’t paid up, picture verified and has recent veris of actual meeting people. It’s not a 100% safety net but it’s better than being catfished and abused / outed |
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