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clingy folk ...it just aint swinging
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
so whats your view on clingy people those that always want more than whats on offer ?
me i hate it its creepy its disrespectful too it deffo not swinging ..so why why do people get clingy surely they know it wont work or does it work or is it that they hope it works ??
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
Had aguy yesterday kick off at me as I met one of my fuck buddies, he seemed to have it in his head we were going to be exclusive
I've not even met the guy yet and he threw his toys out of the pram  i can't be doing with needy men |
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"Had aguy yesterday kick off at me as I met one of my fuck buddies, he seemed to have it in his head we were going to be exclusive
I've not even met the guy yet and he threw his toys out of the pram i can't be doing with needy men "
At least you know not to meet him now  |
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So long as people make their expectations clear from the outset I don't really mind. Let people do what they like between informed and consenting adults.
Anyone who wants exclusivity from me I'm not going to meet. But it's no loss for anyone because there's a base incompatibility.
People who pretend to be after one thing to get another can fucking do one  |
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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago
Norfolk East anglia |
"Had aguy yesterday kick off at me as I met one of my fuck buddies, he seemed to have it in his head we were going to be exclusive
I've not even met the guy yet and he threw his toys out of the pram i can't be doing with needy men
At least you know not to meet him now "
Yeah don't I just |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Clinginess creeps me out. Being friendly is ok, but multiple messages a day etc. really takes the fun out of things.
I’ve had a few meets where the other person has become needy and wants to meet any time I’m online. I’ve even been catfished by one person who set up a fake profile to meet me again, after I told them they were being clingy.
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By *adCherriesCouple
over a year ago
Cheshire/Northwest |
We have had a few white knights but thankfully always catch them out during our chat vetting 
Best line was:
'If you were mine I wouldn't make you do this'
We laughed so much we nearly wet ourselves |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
I simply can seperate sexual desire from love, they are not the same thing and I simply don't suffer from joulousy, never have done. I'm not a possession to obtain or keep, I'm an individual.
I don't want a romatic relasionship and certainly not looking to get married, ever again.
Part of it is the way I was brought up. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had aguy yesterday kick off at me as I met one of my fuck buddies, he seemed to have it in his head we were going to be exclusive
I've not even met the guy yet and he threw his toys out of the pram i can't be doing with needy men "
He sounds like knob  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am open and transparent.
I am in a long term relationship with someone I love very much. We enjoy this lifestyle. We meet as a couple and we meet separately.
I’m not looking for a replacement and certainly not looking for love. Friendship and good sex is great and appreciated.
If anyone attempts to divide and conquer (it has happened a few times) or becomes possessive then sadly it has to end. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So long as people make their expectations clear from the outset I don't really mind. Let people do what they like between informed and consenting adults.
Anyone who wants exclusivity from me I'm not going to meet. But it's no loss for anyone because there's a base incompatibility.
People who pretend to be after one thing to get another can fucking do one "
I think this is the exact issue... People are not up front about expectations |
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"Had aguy yesterday kick off at me as I met one of my fuck buddies, he seemed to have it in his head we were going to be exclusive
I've not even met the guy yet and he threw his toys out of the pram i can't be doing with needy men "
Sounds like you dodged a bullet there. (thumb
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