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Couples - show your verifications
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We love seeing lots of verifications on couples profiles - reassures they are real players over a few years - and let's be honest it's great reading them - and spotting if you have any mutual friends - for us the veri system on Fab actually works - appreciate not everyone has lots - but please display any you do have - it helps people get to know you before fun xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do like to read verifications,I don't like graohic ones though.
I have found however that they don't always mean that they will meet though. It just proves they have met. |
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We have a lot of veris but they are mostly social as we do a lot of group socials. We also don’t show many play veris. However we had feedback from a guy we played with once that he had wondered if we actually played as our veris were all social so I guess if you want people to know you do play then it’s good to show some.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reading verifications is one of the best bits about fab, some of them make for really hot reading.
Also interesting seeing how everyone is connected closely, especially in the swing club scene.
Mr Rough |
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We display ours for us it shows people that we are real and that we do meet and play. When we look at a profile we always look at the verifications for the same reason we show them. Not sure what people would call a lot of verifications we have 50+ a mixture of play and social  |
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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago
Dundalk |
We don't find anything attractive or appealing about verifications at all and would avoid anyone displaying numerous play veries.
We only look at who has written them to ensure that they haven't been verified by people we have no interest in being linked with.
We will only ever display social veries and if others don't understand or accept that it's very easy for them to move on to someone else.
RB |
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Veris are a double edged sword
You wont ever read a bad one , and if you get lets say an average one , you just wouldn't show it
We do find them a good way of seeing if someone may be your kind of people , but we've also had people blatantly go through our list of veris and hunt people down for meets |
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By *ORBCouple
over a year ago
Dundalk |
"Veris are a double edged sword
You wont ever read a bad one , and if you get lets say an average one , you just wouldn't show it
We do find them a good way of seeing if someone may be your kind of people , but we've also had people blatantly go through our list of veris and hunt people down for meets "
We have both experienced this on our single profiles. Strangely enough by the same woman but we know now that she was contacting my verifications for info and to check out the competition and then subsequently contacting Bo's verifications for meets.
RB |
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"Veris are a double edged sword
You wont ever read a bad one , and if you get lets say an average one , you just wouldn't show it
We do find them a good way of seeing if someone may be your kind of people , but we've also had people blatantly go through our list of veris and hunt people down for meets
We have both experienced this on our single profiles. Strangely enough by the same woman but we know now that she was contacting my verifications for info and to check out the competition and then subsequently contacting Bo's verifications for meets.
RB"
Although it's true you won't ever see a bad verification they are still useful. The devil is in the detail when you read between the lines. Firstly I think it's fair to say most are genuine. Second it still says something about people in terms of what exactly has been written and by who. Was just very generic and lacklustre? Was it just a detail list of what sex went down? Is it a lovely account nature and personality? Was it just a verification that's more about the person writing it bigging them self up rather that who their writing it about? We love to see verifications and they do give you some insight.
As for people looking at the people who verified that's perfectly natural. Chances are someone who is your type will also like others who are you type. So natural that people will use the verifications to hunt. Now clearly that's bat shit crazy and creepy to go around messaging everyone on the list. However I suspect there been a fair successful hook ups arranged over the years and friendships made from people finding people from others verifications. Which of course is a lovely thing. |
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"Reading verifications is one of the best bits about fab, some of them make for really hot reading.
Also interesting seeing how everyone is connected closely, especially in the swing club scene.
Mr Rough"
We agree. Some veris are very eye opening  |
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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
We don't display all our some are multiple verifications from people we have met a number of times over the years, then there are some who we have met but now no longer wish to be associated with for whatever reasons. Obviously having been on here for over ten years we have also lost quite a few verifications from people who have left the site.
There is one verification which is not on show because it is so over the top and not realistic in its description of the evening that we decided it was better not to show.
We do think that our verifications give a good indication of the type f couple we are. |
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"I do like to read verifications,I don't like graohic ones though.
I have found however that they don't always mean that they will meet though. It just proves they have met. "
Yep, we don’t have many verifications but as a couple we are genuine and will meet if it’s something we’ve arranged but not an indicator that we’ll meet just anyone at anytime.
Profiles and verifications are the first things we look at when we receive a message, mostly before we even open the message. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We stopped displaying ours years ago after some weirdo was messaging ppl on them asking about us... "
This is exactly why we don’t display ours on our profiles. |
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"We stopped displaying ours years ago after some weirdo was messaging ppl on them asking about us...
This is exactly why we don’t display ours on our profiles."
Exactly same reason why i don't show my verifications i only show the resume of my verifications
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"For us, veris are every bit as important as a profile, pics or video. Almost like Amazon reviews  "
Couldn't agree more - gives you both a chance to assess if the buzz would be there or cross refer to some people you may have already met x |
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"Hid most of ours now as too many people that know us in the area, and didn’t want them knowing our business."
But surely they're here for the same reason?
We met our postman at a swingers club. Turned out we didn't actually need to sign for our mail  |
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I display some not all verifications. Many are people I’ve met at parties not necessarily played with and again I’ve been under my profile as a single and couple over the years so lost several as people leave the site or as you say no longer want to be associated with. But I show some so people can see I’m genuine, see I do meet couples and men and see I play with women and men. I don’t show them all as it’s repetitive but hopefylly they give a ‘flavour’ of what I’m like. I love reading verifications before I meet someone too. X |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
"Hid most of ours now as too many people that know us in the area, and didn’t want them knowing our business.
But surely they're here for the same reason?
We met our postman at a swingers club. Turned out we didn't actually need to sign for our mail "
The same reason, but not the same kinks. A lot of our veris are quite descriptive, rather not have locals, gym goers etc know every detail. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We publish verifications as and when we get them. Not sure why people would hide them, what can they say that’s bad really? 
Given what we’re into a fair old bit ha ha. "
Well, now I’m obviously curious to know what could be so bad, on here of all places  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
i rarely give or receive one thing we/i learnt a long long time ago is people do dont need to read about all your meets play or not and after the first few they mean very little as you've proved your real thats all most need to know i find that if im reading what they have been up to and with who can turn me off them at times especially who they have been with |
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We display all but a few of ours.
We have thrown quite a few parties though, so many of ours are social veri’s from people who’ve attended.
We’re happy if people show or hide them, being verified is the main thing. |
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"We don't display any veris.
Part of the reason is when telling single guys were not looking for a single guy 'right now', we got 'you met him' in reply."
Understandable.
We eliminate this problem by filtering single guys until we want to find them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It is a bit like the trip advisor reviews for meetings but only missing the stars.
How accommodating were they?
Were they clean?
Were your hosts good?
How was the food?
What was the entertainment like?
Were the beds comfortable?
Would you book again?
Pinch of salt
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