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By *appyface OP Man
over a year ago
East Devon |
I would love genuine feedback regarding my profile.
Basically what is wrong with it.
I am a very genuine guy, great creative imagination, body certainly not the best but its what I have.
Where am I going wrong?
There seems to be no one interested.
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I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.
Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.
The word female puts me right off in general.
It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.
Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.
But, I'm not your target demographic. |
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By *appyface OP Man
over a year ago
East Devon |
"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.
Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.
The word female puts me right off in general.
It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.
Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.
But, I'm not your target demographic."
I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.
It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible. |
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"I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.
It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible. "
Like I said, not your target demographic and probably just a weirdo. But I find that people who have to make the statement that they are genuine and decent are usually the furthest from it in their choices and actions. So the words put me off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.
It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible.
Like I said, not your target demographic and probably just a weirdo. But I find that people who have to make the statement that they are genuine and decent are usually the furthest from it in their choices and actions. So the words put me off."
you aren't a weirdo . .. it puts me off too..for the same reasons |
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"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.
Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.
The word female puts me right off in general.
It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.
Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.
But, I'm not your target demographic."
I agree with this.
Anyone can say they're nice, genuine, etc, even awful people.
Show you are, don't tell.
And yes, this reads like a fantasy that you're after. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.
Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.
The word female puts me right off in general.
It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.
Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.
But, I'm not your target demographic.
I agree with this.
Anyone can say they're nice, genuine, etc, even awful people.
Show you are, don't tell.
And yes, this reads like a fantasy that you're after."
Agreed with all the same point above, especially the genuine thing, words tend to be empty in 2023, actions speak a lot louder and are actually backed up
Also the female thing is guaranteed to make me dryer than the Sahara |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
As a couple that only meets guys here's my 2p. (Forget you're outside our age preferences)
One photo, cock centred doesn't inspire much interest.
The text is largely linked to women doing things with other people, not you. A lot of talk about you facilitating things for them and them doing things without you present, which makes you pretty much redundant to their needs and gives no reason to engage with you. Most women are perfectly capable of managing their own swinging lives.
Too much emphasis on being nice (as others have said). Nobody will ever put that they're a cunt in their text or that people generally don't like them, so being nice, pleasant and friendly is taken as a given. Talk about it too much or use the dreaded 'genuine' word and people will wonder why you feel the need to mention it.
In short the profile doesn't sell you. It's bland and comes across as you trying to come across as non-pushy by distancing yourself from what may happen with any women interested in meeting with you. They want to meet you. Not others.
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"As a couple that only meets guys here's my 2p. (Forget you're outside our age preferences)
One photo, cock centred doesn't inspire much interest.
The text is largely linked to women doing things with other people, not you. A lot of talk about you facilitating things for them and them doing things without you present, which makes you pretty much redundant to their needs and gives no reason to engage with you. Most women are perfectly capable of managing their own swinging lives.
Too much emphasis on being nice (as others have said). Nobody will ever put that they're a cunt in their text or that people generally don't like them, so being nice, pleasant and friendly is taken as a given. Talk about it too much or use the dreaded 'genuine' word and people will wonder why you feel the need to mention it.
In short the profile doesn't sell you. It's bland and comes across as you trying to come across as non-pushy by distancing yourself from what may happen with any women interested in meeting with you. They want to meet you. Not others.
A"
I think it's... Both bland and specific. Which is a feat 
I say this trying to be constructive |
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First of all I would condense your bio.
Another observation of mine is that there are inconsistencies.
Your name is, "Happy face" but we can't see a happy face!
Also, there are no indications of creativity in your photos.
Why not check out my pics for a bit of inspiration?
I've a home made cross for starters!
When you're in your 50's, you have to try and stand out from the crowd.
All the best. |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"I'm weird. So my feedback is probably irrelevant. But hey.
Anyone who has to tell me they're nice or genuine or decent does so because they haven't shown it. Which to me means that they probably aren't.
The word female puts me right off in general.
It reads more like a fantasy you can slot any willing female into, rather than an indication of who you are or what kind of person you're looking for.
Only one public pic and it's a dick pic is also a no for me.
But, I'm not your target demographic.
I put genuine /decent as I really am a caring and considerate guy, who respects ladies and I have no ego.
It appears there are so many guys on here are self obsessed and are just here to get as many notches on bed posts as possible. "
It goes both ways pal in the swinging lifestyle that's why many attend clubs but nothing to do with notches if you had many verifications where would that place you |
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