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By *etro1940sCouple
over a year ago
Kingston upon Thames |
"What’s the furthest you would travel for a meet? We have gone up to 80 miles, mainly because of where we live and both the Chams, Xtasia and Townhouse are all 2 1/2 drive for us."
we travel to Madrid - love those latin lovers with hairy chests and very skilled hands/cocks x \Anne
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By *it4uMan
over a year ago
Brighton / Eastbourne / SW France |
Happy to travel for the right genuine person, living in France at the moment so it’s only 1 hour flight to the uk, and the opposite way if anyone fancies a trip  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I appreciate that other people would be happy to travel the length of the country to meet me but somehow that makes me feel really odd.
I’ve never really been able to fully articulate why though. Almost like if someone had travelled far, I’d be uncomfortable then saying no if things didn’t click ( for clarity, I still would say no but I’d feel super uncomfortable doing it ).
Am I alone in this? |
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By *edi123 OP Couple
over a year ago
aberystwyth |
"Plus when we do jump into this wouldn't feel comfortable meeting local people. Got to be a hour distance atleast "
A lot of people wouldn’t meet locals but to me (him) I can’t see the problem as we all have the same interests |
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I travel over 50 miles on a regular basis to meet nice people I’d rather do that than meet someone 5miles away, people on here who live local are the types that are chancers that want “meet now” at a minutes notice .... I pick and choose who I meet and it’s not based on locality |
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In the past I've driven 3½ hours each way but the level of expectation that created was enough to drive me off the site.
I was told that as I'd done it once there was nothing to stop me doing it on a regular basis.
I refused, ensuing drama kicked off and I left.
These days I won't travel more than an hour. Any longer and I expect them to meet halfway.
If not, it's been nice chatting. |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
"I appreciate that other people would be happy to travel the length of the country to meet me but somehow that makes me feel really odd.
I’ve never really been able to fully articulate why though. Almost like if someone had travelled far, I’d be uncomfortable then saying no if things didn’t click ( for clarity, I still would say no but I’d feel super uncomfortable doing it ).
Am I alone in this? "
Nope I'm the same
I only meet socially first & its not realistic for anyone to travel too far to me just for a drink & chat.I'd always feel they'd expect more than that if they travelled a good way. |
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I've travelled 200 miles before but if I do that I get a lux hotel and don't assume anything. Had a nice chat drink and cuddle and gone no further before and thars all good at least its a nice break away.. can ever make assumptions. Online click does always work in person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A 90 min drive, however ideally I’m looking for someone regular who can spend entire weekends away. Exploring eating together etc…
So if ai got that anywhere in the UK |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
45 mins travelling is far enough for me and I would expect them to travel as well. I tend to find the farther. you travel the more expectations from a meet even if it's been made clear it's just a social for a chat and a coffee.
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Had a great meeting with a lovely Greek guy and went back several times for more fun.
Also been to London but got let down with a no show.
