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Could be you look familiar and there was something in your profile put them off or they didn't meet your criteria and they keep forgetting what it was. Could be they think you are way out of their league but enjoy the fantasy your profile provides. |
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We quite often visit profiles multiple times while we look at them, sometimes at different times and then together, talk about it, come back to look at pics again, chat some more...it might be days before we send a wink or a message... |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it.
I’m not worried about, I just think it’s odd. "
I wouldn't look at it as odd.
It is natural to be attracted to things and look often |
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Maybe they enjoy your pics/profile but for whatever reason doesn't want to or feels like they can't message.
We have a few that look a few times a day, I must admit I did block a few that were looking several times a day for a few days it seemed a little excessive and they were local.
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"You've got pics on display for all profiles to see, but maybe he reads that you won't reply to men so he just wants to perve? "
I do something similar. If I see an aesthetically pleasing profile which I don't fit their needs, I will return to "appreciate the view", but not message.
No point wasting their time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find myself looking at some profiles that I've looked at before - and sometimes I wonder why I haven't messaged them - and then it becomes clear when I re-read their profile.
For example, OP, having now seen your profile, if I was to come back to it again, I would be reminded of why I hadn't messaged you because of your very clear mention of 'No Men'
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
I guess there are several reasons as others have said but I personally dislike it, if they fill my looked at me page I tend to block, it just feels creepy that they keep coming back silently |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me. "
I did this once and they read my message and ignored me  . Still continually looked at my profile after that too. I blocked them eventually. |
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"Why not message them and find out? I’d be very curious if it was me.
I did this once and they read my message and ignored me . Still continually looked at my profile after that too. I blocked them eventually. "
We’ve done this too and been ignored 
They still fab all our pictures though.
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"Maybe they are afraid to approach, or think you are too far away or just want a nosey. Whatever the reason, don't worry about it.
I’m not worried about, I just think it’s odd. "
I raised this a fee weeks back.
I often get to same peoples looking at my profile but never making contact . Your right it's odd. |
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league  "
I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could just be inquisitive or admiring the pics deciding whether or not to wink or message in fear of rejection. Maybe if you’ve visited theirs and you like the look or just curious as to why. Then why not send a wink or message yourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league
I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly "
A short message of appreciation is generally taken well surely?
At least it should be!
Some Peoples inboxes seem to be sacrosanct! |
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"I often get pulled back to profiles of women that look incredible to only realise (again) that I dont meet their wants list.. "
I've fallen into that trap a few times, to be fair. I've now considered blocking them so I don't keep making the same mistake, but it just feels wrong to do it sometimes |
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"Sometimes, speaking as a man, you think they're out of your league
I definitely suffer from this; I look at some profiles a few times, I think about messaging them, then I convince myself they're well above my league and I bottle it, sadly
A short message of appreciation is generally taken well surely?
At least it should be!
Some Peoples inboxes seem to be sacrosanct! "
I'd like to think so, but they probably get lots of messages and therefore I rarely get a reply, even if it's just to say thanks. The only time I know it's not appreciated is when they either delete the message or block me, unfortunately, but that's their choice. At least it ends any chance of me accidentally looking at their profile again and them thinking I'm odd or weird  |
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Could be worse.
Could be they send a message asking where you've been hiding all this time and saying what an amazing profile you have and when you respond in kind they disappear..... for six months.....and then come back with a message asking where you have been hiding all this time and saying what an amazing profile you have.
Or maybe that just happens to me?
There are some fabulous and well verified goldfish on here. |
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There are a few profiles I look at now and then, not multi times per day, I like what I see but they aren't in my area so I can only perve.
It's also possible, whenever I'm on my laptop I type fab and hit enter, it auto takes me to a auto complete website, which isn't the home page,.so this is possible roo. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I often return to profiles whose photos I enjoy……
Sp why not message and say that pr send a wink "
Well I normally would but being a male and of a certain age I find I’m “filtered out” more often than not….. |
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When we first joined we just kept clicking away not knowing who we were looking at. One couple sent us a message asking mg why. We gave them the honest answer. We are now not so new on here but still do it. Its only once you have opened the profile that you realise you have already viewed it. |
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Sometimes it’s because I don’t fit requirements but find them extremely sexy. Sometimes it’s because I forgot I already viewed. (I’m old) sometimes it’s because I see they update often on my hotlist. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never a problem, they just having a perv
Or possibly after they close the phone and re open it it makes it look like they are as it gives a time as to when they looked |
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"Don’t give it a second thought, rarely even look at that section - I post pics regularly so I guess some people who like them look at them regularly - really doesn’t bother me x"
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Yes exactly, you are on my hotlist, I find you very attractive and you post well thought out, striking photos, I enjoy looking at and fabbing. |
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
Yep, pretty much all of the above. There are some beautiful sexy people on here of all shapes sizes and interests who clearly won't be interested, or there profile makes it abundantly clear that I don't match the criteria.however they have great pics and vids and stories to tell. If anyone I regularly visited the profile of contacted me I'd 100% reply . Even if they were just telling to stop being weird |
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For the single Ladies and Couples...
If a guy likes what he sees but knows he's not what your looking for, or he's too far away, or whatever, but still wants to perve.
Would you be ok with him messaging just to say
Hello, sorry I'm stalking your profile, but your hot, just wanted to say hello so it's less weird, that I keep looking without talking.
Or something like that ?
I have messaged some people with similar messages, especially when I've liked 2-3 pics in close succession. I haven't had a bad reaction thus far, but just curious if such a message is worse than just lurking. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If people change their profile pic then we pretty much have no idea who they are and end up looking again! Can’t help it! We never seem to remember the username  |
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"For the single Ladies and Couples...
If a guy likes what he sees but knows he's not what your looking for, or he's too far away, or whatever, but still wants to perve.
Would you be ok with him messaging just to say
Hello, sorry I'm stalking your profile, but your hot, just wanted to say hello so it's less weird, that I keep looking without talking.
Or something like that ?
I have messaged some people with similar messages, especially when I've liked 2-3 pics in close succession. I haven't had a bad reaction thus far, but just curious if such a message is worse than just lurking. "
We've had a few men message to say they admire the profile, it's always nice to hear and I'll always reply however if they try and use that as a way in to chat and change our minds regarding meeting men I'll block.
Many don't just accept the thank you I'm pleased you like the profile response and try push for more.
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There are times when you see someone attractive, that you can’t contact because they’re either; put you out of the age range, not looking for single guys, or not looking for the description that you are.
Even if you you are; and you follow the directions of sending a face pic, send a nice message still can end up with your message not responded to (whether deleted, ignored or blocked). Sometimes, it can be a case of not just not bothering and just fantasising, because disappointments come thick and fast on this platform. Sometimes I hope that you’ll catch their attention, hoping that they’ll open the conversation(never happens though) LOL. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like looking at the new content that people put up. For various reasons I know that any contact wouldn't be appreciated - let's just call it window shopping (I also do alot of that)
Some folks have blocked us, presumably because they don't feel comfortable with me looking at their content and that is their prerogative and I'm fine with that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people on our hotlist because they have sexy pics they not want the same thing as us so don't tend to message them but like to check new pics"
We have a very similar approach - we just appreciate some profiles because they have great pics, or have put some effort in, just seem like really decent people or whatever… |
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There's nothing odd about it, some people simply like to look - there's one particular couple who've viewed my profile and photos at another site numerous times over the last year or more...
....I did message them once a while ago, but got no reply - I just take it as a compliment that they must like what they see, as they've kept looking since!  |
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
probably because you got some hot photos it will be the guys banging one out when the wife's in bed lol  |
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
Probably innocent, I will go back to look at profiles to see if they have posted an update that would suggest it's worth my time contacting them, I'm not messaging folks constantly playing pure numbers game. But is someone updated saying they want a guy for daytime meet and I was local I would message. |
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By *eFCUKaLot OP Couple
over a year ago
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Hey guys, thanks for the comments. I was definitely not complaining about frequent visitors to our profile. I just wondered why people didn’t try to message us if they keep looking. We was just curious. Reading the really nice comments is definitely a confidence builder so thank you very much
Happy fabbing, spread the love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
Im not a site supporter anymore so I have no idea who looks at my profile, unless they wink or message. It's actually nice not to know tbh |
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"Hey guys, thanks for the comments. I was definitely not complaining about frequent visitors to our profile. I just wondered why people didn’t try to message us if they keep looking. We was just curious. Reading the really nice comments is definitely a confidence builder so thank you very much
Happy fabbing, spread the love. "
We look at profiles that take our fancy, but if their profile states they aren't interested in couples then we don't wink or message.
But like to go back and she if their preferences change xxx live in hope |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
Odds are they're just knocking one out.
At least you know who they are.
There's probably way more tugging away at your pics whilst browsing in stealth mode that you don't know about. 
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I often find myself revisiting profiles… simply because I’m terrible at remembering names and people regularly update their profile picture. I think I’m visiting a new profile, and it’s only when I start reading that I realise, oh yeah, I’ve read this before.
-G x |
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
In my case i am aware that there's some people that they have been stalking me for some time already in and out fabs and even they arranged meeting that i come now aware of 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
Maybe they look at your pics and profile then notice that you are out of their age range or not looking for single guys or whatever |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Maybe expecting the other person to make the first move since they have viewed and I'd say that if you like something about the other drop them a message can be sort of an ice breaker unless you prefer back and forth viewing |
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"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird!   "
It isn't really weird in Fab world...
People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them!
That's weird |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
I know I do this and most of the time it’s accidental x if you change your profile pic regularly then it’s the pic people remember not the name x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have one who views me at least twice a day,never speaks.
I figure something in my profile stops him maybe or he just likes a pic or 2 ,but doesn't want to chat.
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People like that annoy me everyday lookers with no message.. i block them, especially if they have no photos themselves. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird!
It isn't really weird in Fab world...
People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them!
That's weird "
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This |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
Most if the time it's all pretty harmless.
We are all adults so unless something doesn't feel right I'd not be worried.
Also some who have viewed me I'd of never known about so it has a plus.
Be good  |
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"I wonder this too. Since supporting fab I've noticed people viewing my profile several times a day. Weird!
It isn't really weird in Fab world...
People post photos of themselves nude, having sex, wearing sexy clothing, or lingerie...then thinks its weird that people look at them!
That's weird "
This is the strange world we live in...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We quite often visit profiles multiple times while we look at them, sometimes at different times and then together, talk about it, come back to look at pics again, chat some more...it might be days before we send a wink or a message..."
This
Also wicked profile |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about?
I know I do this and most of the time it’s accidental x if you change your profile pic regularly then it’s the pic people remember not the name x "
I tend to view profiles repeatedly from the forum to remind myself who is who here. Like you said alot change their profile pictures and their profile names plus I've got gold fish level memory at times. Others I pop into checking if they've changed/added pictures. I've been blocked on some accounts which is fair enough and a useful tool to control access to your material. |
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By *ee1967Man
over a year ago
watford |
"We have people who keep looking at our profile but never seem to act on it. What’s that all about? "
Possibly they think they won't get a positive response. Not personal to you though.i mean in general x |
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