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Bi-courios guys?!?!
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
Bi curious statement is different for everyone I think...My husband is comfortable in close proximity to other aroused men, some would say that makes him curious, he has absolutely no desire for a man to touch him any sexual way...some bi curious men want to suck cock but haven't before...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fab just needs a few more options regarding how ppl define themselves sexually. Bi curious doesn't appropriately cover people who are not exactly bisexual but have more experiences than what ‘curious’ suggests. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
Bit hard to judge a whole group of people isn’t it?
Some may genuinely be curious, and not sure wether they really even identify as bi.
Some may be afraid of being judged for being ‘fully bi’ so the curious gives some deniability? Im not sure
And yeah some may just be to cast a wider net and get the odd bj from a dude lol
To be honest though, I always laugh at how many ‘straight’ profiles have multiple veris from cross dressers and men. Like, just be honest with yourself lol |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong?
Bit hard to judge a whole group of people isn’t it?
Some may genuinely be curious, and not sure wether they really even identify as bi.
Some may be afraid of being judged for being ‘fully bi’ so the curious gives some deniability? Im not sure
And yeah some may just be to cast a wider net and get the odd bj from a dude lol
To be honest though, I always laugh at how many ‘straight’ profiles have multiple veris from cross dressers and men. Like, just be honest with yourself lol "
Exactly...Same with descriptions of body type...someone's athletic isn't to another and so on |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
Yep i can confirm you may be right with some but not all. I love oral both giving and receiving with both sexes |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
Yes you're wrong.
I've had myself labelled as bi-curious on here for the last 15 years, as there's no 'bi playful' option.
I don't want 1-2-1 meets with guys and we're looking for threesomes. It's not something that happens on every meet and we meet straight guys too.
It's often used to differentiate between guys who don't indulge in anal with other guys, but then some bi and gay guys don't either.
Never assume a label means anything. But I doubt very much that most with curious listed are going to be 100% passive with other guys and just look to get sucked off.
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong?
Yes you're wrong.
I've had myself labelled as bi-curious on here for the last 15 years, as there's no 'bi playful' option.
I don't want 1-2-1 meets with guys and we're looking for threesomes. It's not something that happens on every meet and we meet straight guys too.
It's often used to differentiate between guys who don't indulge in anal with other guys, but then some bi and gay guys don't either.
Never assume a label means anything. But I doubt very much that most with curious listed are going to be 100% passive with other guys and just look to get sucked off.
A"
Couldn’t agree more with this.
For me I’m very comfortable playing with a couple/group all touching, sucking.
But I have no interest in 1-2-1 play with a single on his own.
Quiet rightly though as many have said there should more options or a better was describe your sexuality on here. |
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Yes, I think your statement is inaccurate, but there is no harm in what you state IF all parties are in agreement!
"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
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I thought the curious bit meant they like cock, but don't want ro scare off the straight ladies or couples.
It is a bit of a safety net so that they can say "Don't worry, I dont find your hubby irresistible".
As for the receive bj thing...thats the domain of the "straight Doms and bulls"  |
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We are both down as bi curious and are happy to give as well as receive. We just haven't had much experience with playing that way and also depends in part on who we have met with, what they are comfortable with and also what feels right in terms of play on the night. Not going to force anything just to tick a box |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
You’re wrong from the messages I’ve received a lot of bi curious guys want to try oral. I’m always asked if they can play or suck my cock, if I’m switch as well. |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong?
Yes you're wrong.
I've had myself labelled as bi-curious on here for the last 15 years, as there's no 'bi playful' option.
I don't want 1-2-1 meets with guys and we're looking for threesomes. It's not something that happens on every meet and we meet straight guys too.
It's often used to differentiate between guys who don't indulge in anal with other guys, but then some bi and gay guys don't either.
Never assume a label means anything. But I doubt very much that most with curious listed are going to be 100% passive with other guys and just look to get sucked off.
A"
Precisely this.
I just see it as an honest piece of information for others on my profile so they can choose to avoid if they want.
I actually think I might have changed it to bisexual ages ago but forgotten now I'm writing this ! |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
For me, initially yes but my intention was always to get comfortable with it and become more adventurous. Which I have. I guess not everyone dives in tongue first lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's been quite a few threads on this topic lately. Obviously it's a very emotive and interpretable label so it's good to see people talking about it.
Maybe we should have a bi-ometer gauge and you could level yourself straight as an arrow to men only please |
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Well I'll be honest and agree. I considered myself straight until I had a naked massage from a guy that ended up with him giving me oral and a happy ending. As he was doing it I kind of felt obliged to grab his cock but I felt a little uncomfortable so stopped. He didn't mind and carried on giving me one of the best blow jobs I've ever had. So am I bi or bi-curious? Who knows and hey, who cares. But am I somewhat selfish in being one-way? Probably, I suppose it depends on what the other person is expecting. But if they're cool with it then it's all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I have had a lot of people saying I'm wrong and got some shitty messages about what I'm saying. Maybe I should have been clearer.
We are looking for a bi guy to join us and all 3 play. But seems everything we reach out to a Bi-courios and ask if they play with guys. 99% say no they are just looking to be sucked off.
We don't want greedy bi guys we want all 3 to play |
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"So I have had a lot of people saying I'm wrong and got some shitty messages about what I'm saying. Maybe I should have been clearer.
We are looking for a bi guy to join us and all 3 play. But seems everything we reach out to a Bi-courios and ask if they play with guys. 99% say no they are just looking to be sucked off.
We don't want greedy bi guys we want all 3 to play "
Looks like your original post was one of frustration rather than criticism. Sorry you’re getting backlash over it.
Bi nights at clubs are great places (I tend to find them more friendly as well) to meet genuine bisexual people. Just a suggestion and good luck  |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"So I have had a lot of people saying I'm wrong and got some shitty messages about what I'm saying. Maybe I should have been clearer.
We are looking for a bi guy to join us and all 3 play. But seems everything we reach out to a Bi-courios and ask if they play with guys. 99% say no they are just looking to be sucked off.
We don't want greedy bi guys we want all 3 to play "
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Hope our post above didn't sound critical, didn't mean it to be 
Sorry you've had shitty messages,
there's no need for that you were just asking a question
Hope you find what you are looking for and... have fun  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
WRONG!
could mean they do not do/take male anal.
could mean they do not actually fancy men but like couples at the same time.
could mean they are not sure how far they will go but are curious about it!
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"So I have had a lot of people saying I'm wrong and got some shitty messages about what I'm saying. Maybe I should have been clearer.
We are looking for a bi guy to join us and all 3 play. But seems everything we reach out to a Bi-courios and ask if they play with guys. 99% say no they are just looking to be sucked off.
We don't want greedy bi guys we want all 3 to play "
Its a shame I am too old for you. |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
oh yes I definitely love to suck cock especially as it slips out of a wet pussy  |
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Well I label my self as Bi. But I have never been with a woman. I have had sex with men. And until a couple of years ago I would have labeled myself as gay. But I have been having stronger feeling towards women. I would love to find a mf bi couple near me to show me the ropes , and show me what I have been missing. . |
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"My "Bi curious" is like others...bi with couples, give and take all aspects, I don't actively seek out playing with guys... each to their own of course"
I also have bi curious on my profile for the same reason. I was introduced to bi MMF by a married couple not long after I first started swinging and wifey particularly enjoyed watching hubby give and take with me. I love the extra possibilities created when the woman can enjoy the attention from both guys and they can enjoy each other’s cocks too. That said, I too don't do male only meets, there has to be a real woman involved to get me horny
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Couldn’t agree more with this.
For me I’m very comfortable playing with a couple/group all touching, sucking.
But I have no interest in 1-2-1 play with a single on his own.
Quiet rightly though as many have said there should more options or a better was describe your sexuality on here."
There is an excellent way of describing your sexuality and it's called your profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The sexuality options just dont cover everybody, ive had cock fun with guys, in couples and in a one to one scenario, i still use the bi curious option as im not bisexual in my mind if im not having intercourse with men.
Just my opinion but ultimately i dont care, fun is the name of the game and thats what we should all be doing |
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
Wrong. I am listed as bi curious. Mainly because I am only interested in Giving and Receiving oral. I have no desire to try anal in any way. If I could list as being bi oral I would. |
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By *hekMan
over a year ago
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One thing I have learned from here is that compartmentalising people into specific categories rarely works out.
For me I state bi curious as I’m not tremendously experienced, to give others an idea of where I am at. For all of the non-Straight options, they should be a start of a chat rather than an answer in itself
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who put bi-courios on there profile.
They clearly just want guys and girls to suck their cock without giving back.
Am I wrong? "
I'm more off a giver than taker. Always have been. I really enjoy giving oral when I do. Don't always expect anything back either |
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Very much bi, way past the curious bit, but having said that I do very much enjoy the oral side and much prefer to give rather than receive.
More bottom than top so slightly versatile if that's a thing!!!! |
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