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Anyone still waiting to take the plunge into reality?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are you like myself and Mrs who wants to take this to the next step into reality but not quite built the courage yet ? We are eager . What's advice if when you got the courage for the First time? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.
Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.
The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.
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"I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.
Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.
The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.
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Best advice you're going to get. Good luck OP, relax and enjoy. |
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You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?
I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?
I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy "
Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ?  |
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"Are you like myself and Mrs who wants to take this to the next step into reality but not quite built the courage yet ? We are eager . What's advice if when you got the courage for the First time?"
Are you not in the real world then? |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
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Erm no.. Joined Fab, First social after 3 week's, first club after 2 months..
Never looked back and drop in and out as and when we get the 'itch'.
You'll never know if you don't try. Regardless of what your first step is. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Erm no.. Joined Fab, First social after 3 week's, first club after 2 months..
Never looked back and drop in and out as and when we get the 'itch'.
You'll never know if you don't try. Regardless of what your first step is."
Sounds good |
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"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?
I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy
Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ? "
There's no rush or any need to roll your eyes at me if you're not keen on my observation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?
I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy "
I'd be inclined to agree. Of course there's no rush, but as long as you're here with your single male profile (and it has been quite a while) you'll never get a feel of what it's like to swing as a couple or to experience Fab as a couple, and you'll be seen as just another fantasist whose wife has actually no idea that you're on here or has ever expressed interest in swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No…if you want to do it, you will.
If you haven’t done it by now…you won’t.
Most have families and small children, you just have to work around things if you really want to."
I've been on here for a year give me a break lol. I'm 34 plenty of time |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No…if you want to do it, you will.
If you haven’t done it by now…you won’t.
Most have families and small children, you just have to work around things if you really want to."
Exactly my point trying to make it work hence why I'm asking here.
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"You've been considering this for a very long time now and asked many questions. What is it that's holding you back?
I would say that if you're still unsure (you've done an awful lot of research) it's never going to happen and you'll both probably be happiest leaving it as fantasy
Easier said than done when you got a 8 year old and 11 year old. What's the rush ? "
We have a 4 yo and a 16 month old I'm not sure it makes a difference and eye rolling someone trying to offer advice is a little rude.
If there's no rush just wait until your ready.
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By *rpeggioCouple
over a year ago
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"I would firstly set up a couples profile, browse online together, talk it through thoroughly, then try a social event where there is no play so you can mingle and talk to other people in the scene, then go from there.
Or you could go to a club and socialise, watch others playing and see how you both feel.
The mlat important thing is to talk to each other and be totally honest about absolutely everything.
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Best advice. I could never have written it better. |
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