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Let’s see how popular you are 
How many unread message have you got. No cheating… we will go first. We have 2  we might be excused it’s a Tuesday  |
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Possibly because my profile has been hidden for over a week. Possibly because I'm terribly hideous. Who can say  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh lord I can not stand undealt with notifications, I have to clear them asap! So none. |
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"Let’s see how popular you are
How many unread message have you got. No cheating… we will go first. We have 2 we might be excused it’s a Tuesday "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0
I get excited when I get 1 message let alone 70 haha |
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1, it’s been unread for about a week now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0. I have to deal with messages as I see them come through! I couldn’t sit there with unread messages and be online, I’d feel so rude haha. But saying that I am a person that has to respond to an email even if I can’t deal with it straight away
Mrs |
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I’m doing well, I’ve got my best ever 0 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero
A couple deleted without reading
Rarity that I get many!
Life of a single (genuine) man! |
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"0. I have to deal with messages as I see them come through! I couldn’t sit there with unread messages and be online, I’d feel so rude haha. But saying that I am a person that has to respond to an email even if I can’t deal with it straight away
Mrs"
We are the exact same when It comes to being online and not responding |
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Big difference between men’s profiles and women’s then  |
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Zero
Surely you would first need someone to message you , to get something in your in box ?
So yep , zero it is ! |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
4 but 2 haven't been back on several months mind you I haven't replied to one as they haven't been back on several months either |
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By *ez669Man
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
9 but in my sent folder  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"4 but 2 haven't been back on several months mind you I haven't replied to one as they haven't been back on several months either "
And Im chatting with others |
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I had a delightful one this morning telling me I was up myself and couldn’t be that attractive at 47 because I didn’t respond to his earlier email that morning. |
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Been really popular this week so zero |
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Just the 1. Cleared it earlier though |
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None unread by me
4 unread sent ones though.
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Maybe I should of put something like how many have messages have you had today… cause we don’t like unread messages so clear them and get rid of them lol
Change of rules…. How many messages have you had today? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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377 but I rarely read messages unless I'm actually chatting to someone. So that's over about 6 weeks.
I really should delete them but eventually the site does |
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0. We don’t get many messages so when we do we read them. |
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
West Midlands |
None
We don’t get many, so it’s easy to quickly read and reply with a polite yea or no to almost everyone |
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"Oh lord I can not stand undealt with notifications, I have to clear them asap! So none. "
Same
Delete all winks and random friemds requests
Dic pics messages deleted
Hi how are you messages deleted
Others might get a response |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
If I'm chatting to someone I reply straight away as it's courtesy to do so and I'm showing interest |
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None here. Sometimes I feel the last 2 letters in my username keeps the count down - hey ho x |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
9 but these are who I've been chatting with regularly |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Oh lord I can not stand undealt with notifications, I have to clear them asap! So none.
Same
Delete all winks and random friemds requests
Dic pics messages deleted
Hi how are you messages deleted
Others might get a response "
Wuu2 like this |
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901 but I don't generally delete, I say I'm not looking to chat or meet so they just build up then the site bins them anyway. I can't see all of them anyway (if I ever looked) so no idea how old they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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333 since Saturday :/ |
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I have a solo male profile in Fab! You have to ask? |
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Just 1 at the moment, but I’m in several convos! |
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2 messages today one was good and one was bad but Iv had 4 messages in 2 months thanks girls and guys and tv/ts  |
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9 today as fast as we catch up they build back up  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just 5 so far |
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Just 1
My filters keep the messages low. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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130 |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
None. I have tight filters so I don't get many messages which suits me,and any I get I usually sort out by either answering or deleting within a day of getting them. |
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The ones with the high numbers
Is it cause you are really popular or is it cause people don’t know how to take a hint |
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Zero but that's spread over a couple of months |
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None. That's not unusual for us. |
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By *aui.Man
over a year ago
around here |
In my inbox? 37. Outbox, probably 100s |
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58 but that’s because we smashed through 30 earlier |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0
Possibly because my profile has been hidden for over a week. Possibly because I'm terribly hideous. Who can say "
Can only be because of the hidden profile - I see no other possible reason |
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An unread Fab message is like an unchecked lottery ticket!
It has all the excitment of being a winner right up to the point you check it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So I have none historically
And none from the last 24 hours
However I hold out hope for the next 24 hours that we may, possibly see some movement or at worst stay consistent
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None. Because got max filters on and only a small number of Fab friends I chat to on here. |
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212 unread but I'll be going through them in the next day or so and sorting them out.
15 messages today some of which I replied to.
Some are repeats that I have said no to before but just keep going so I'll block those as I go through,
Em x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"212 unread but I'll be going through them in the next day or so and sorting them out.
15 messages today some of which I replied to.
Some are repeats that I have said no to before but just keep going so I'll block those as I go through,
Em x"
I don't know how people cope, it's like a full time job |
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"212 unread but I'll be going through them in the next day or so and sorting them out.
15 messages today some of which I replied to.
Some are repeats that I have said no to before but just keep going so I'll block those as I go through,
Em x
I don't know how people cope, it's like a full time job "
That's why they build up like that sometimes I just don't go near the inbox and just hop on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"212 unread but I'll be going through them in the next day or so and sorting them out.
15 messages today some of which I replied to.
Some are repeats that I have said no to before but just keep going so I'll block those as I go through,
Em x
I don't know how people cope, it's like a full time job
That's why they build up like that sometimes I just don't go near the inbox and just hop on the forums "
I dont blame you, that's scary numbers the thought of replying to that many would just cause me issues never mind actually doing it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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5.
And they’re all from guys who cannot take no for an answer. Multiple repeated messages. Gets to the point where it’s just easier to ignore after declining several times. |
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9 today some welcomed some not so much |
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"5.
And they’re all from guys who cannot take no for an answer. Multiple repeated messages. Gets to the point where it’s just easier to ignore after declining several times. "
The multiple repeated messages are annoying surly they must know that it’s off putting |
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"I had a delightful one this morning telling me I was up myself and couldn’t be that attractive at 47 because I didn’t respond to his earlier email that morning. "
I had similar last night, was doing fab 'admin' and recieved a message calling me ignorant because I hadn't replied! We have over a 100 messages, we cannot respond to them all or we'd never sleep  |
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None. My last message was three months ago! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero |
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"The ones with the high numbers
Is it cause you are really popular or is it cause people don’t know how to take a hint "
We don't adjust our filters even when we are just browsing the forums. Ppl see your're online and message so they build up quickly & a few do repeat message (they get blocked eventually, when we notice) others are current conversations. I don't know what qualifies as popular on here as you only have your own profile stats to go by |
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By *eladeCouple
over a year ago
hull |
248 atm which tbh is very low |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 I've read them all. Which was very few. |
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None, I have absolutely no unread messages. |
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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago
chelmsford |
One, I’ve been saving it for an occasion such as this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had one when I logged in, but currently none |
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1311 , probably going to just delete all as cant be arsed to chew through them all .. I had a picture that hit number 1 spot other day and it melted my inbox while I was away |
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"Let’s see how popular you are
How many unread message have you got. No cheating… we will go first. We have 2 we might be excused it’s a Tuesday "
None lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Zero, but 2 conversation threads. 1 is at 296 messages, the other 39. |
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"Let’s see how popular you are
How many unread message have you got. No cheating… we will go first. We have 2 we might be excused it’s a Tuesday "
1 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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470 but that's a few days build up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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3 with 1 blocked |
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119 at the moment. All from the past 2 hours. I think the new picture has made me quite popular  |
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By *4bimMan
over a year ago
Farnborough Hampshire |
"119 at the moment. All from the past 2 hours. I think the new picture has made me quite popular "
Nice bit of self promotion there |
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Always 0, sometime 0, mainly 0, oh hang I let me check ….. 0 !!! Lol x |
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"119 at the moment. All from the past 2 hours. I think the new picture has made me quite popular "
I can see why, however that sounds like a total sausagefest |
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I put two new pics up this morning
each got 30 fabs within the first hour, and the pm box lit up like a lemon
I binned off most of the ones from people we aren't looking to meet, binned off most of the ones from people miles and miles away, and I'm down to a few left to take a peek at.
I'm concentrating on looking for what I came here looking for so might be slowing down on the responses from now on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2
I'll reply to them tomorrow. |
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0
I'm not popular and very responsive.
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31, but none I’m interested in responding to… |
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By *ece_himCouple
over a year ago
Merseyside |
0 as we use filters. After we joined and had hundreds of "Hey you two" messages from single men and it was quite boring having to read and delete. Hats off to the couple of guy that did send more than 3 words. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"0 as we use filters. After we joined and had hundreds of "Hey you two" messages from single men and it was quite boring having to read and delete. Hats off to the couple of guy that did send more than 3 words."
Bet you haven’t had a “fancy a fuck” message |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 now. Deleted a few earlier.
On our profile we stated that we just go to clubs. Luckily that stops alot of people from messaging |
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By *amRod64Man
over a year ago
Gravesend |
Is this one’s I’ve sent - then 25
Be 125 by this time tomorrow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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92, we do clear them out periodically though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 very undesirable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have 6 but I’m too tired to reply |
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None . Very few messages these days |
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None. We don't receive many so aren't hard to keep on top of. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody messages me. I'm always the one to message first. So answer is zero |
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"824 "
What you doing reading forums then? Get to work geezo |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 at present |
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"A big fat zero!"
I’m talking about the number of messages, not my opinion of myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"824 "
Glad you found time to respond to mine  |
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I have zero to read... sorry correction....just received one whilst typing..lol
But I have about 4 that I've sent that have yet to be read by the recipients. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0. Just the way I like it before I go to bed.
F |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely nothing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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13 unread out of 28 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Didley shit as per usual lol |
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"824 "
825... fixed it for you |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
Kingsbridge |
"0
Possibly because my profile has been hidden for over a week. Possibly because I'm terribly hideous. Who can say "
Profile pic doesn’t look absolutely terrible! Lol |
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1 but that’s a back and forth. Like to keep to zero and respond to people |
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1694. I just leave most messages unread. |
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By *iasubTV/TS
over a year ago
Ilkeston |
8 because most have attachments which is gonna be dick pics and i havent got around to deleting them yet |
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"Let’s see how popular you are
How many unread message have you got. No cheating… we will go first. We have 2 we might be excused it’s a Tuesday "
0
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zero, answered the ones I wanted to, mass deleted the rest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None , why leave a message unread ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0000000 lol just call me mr popular |
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I’ve got none, not even one! Because I can not help myself but open them xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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not many my blacklist is long, I've managed to block all the ppl who don't read or those who are overly eager ..maybe it's the whole site by now LOL |
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By *J GeminiTV/TS
over a year ago
Northumberland |
Zero, cause I'm a miserable git! ,
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not many my blocklist* is long, I've managed to block all the ppl who don't read or those who are overly eager ..maybe it's the whole site by now LOL"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2. Like to keep my fans waiting. |
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"not many my blocklist* is long, I've managed to block all the ppl who don't read or those who are overly eager ..maybe it's the whole site by now LOL
A lot less than her ^^^"
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Just the 2 but going to have to open them xxx |
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Ok then how many messages would you say you get on average a day? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None ?? |
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By *929Man
over a year ago
newcastle |
6, none of the 6 from actual women |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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11, we reply to everyone and clear out messages usually every evening, or the next day  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 but I think that is only because I had a meet today advert. Just about to clear those.
Who doesn't like a tidy box? |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
taunton somerset |
well only so many messages will show on a page before they drop of so if you have over a certain number the you wont know anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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51 at the moment but going through them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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2 both from men but 1 seems to message at least 3 times a week deleted unread |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 I am here for the forums. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 |
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This post is super insightful to see the comparison between men and women/couple profiles. I expected the ratio to be different but not by this much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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none.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only 11 for me! Someone make it 12 and I’ll send you a pic in return! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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0 disappointinngly |
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"824
Glad you found time to respond to mine "
You’re a lucky one |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had about 17 until I just deleted them, usually anywhere from about 10-40ish at a time! |
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No wonder we are finding it difficult to find a single woman to play with us! Getting lost in all those messages
Must be a nightmare to sort through though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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None
Suppose us blokes read most of ours |
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Absolutely none.
Zero.
I answer everyone because I am not rude. |
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Still nothing. Thirteen weeks now! |
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"Oh lord I can not stand undealt with notifications, I have to clear them asap! So none. "
Same! |
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