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How do u get a reply on here ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is almost a daily thread on here now...
You call yourself sexgod, that would put us off initially.
Text speak and poor grammar is a turn off for us too. This isn't the case for everyone.
You've been on for five weeks. It takes some guys up to a year to get a meet. You need to know that single guys are by far the biggest group on Fab. You need to stand out. Send a good face pic, be friendly and the best tactic is being funny.
Go to clubs. Meeting people face to face is better than Fab. Go to socials, they're often posted in the forums. People there will verify you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Start off a conversation with something completely random, nothing to do with the profile or swinging/sex. Works for me. The reply is normally "Uh"? But it's a foot in the door. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Start off a conversation with something completely random, nothing to do with the profile or swinging/sex. Works for me. The reply is normally "Uh"? But it's a foot in the door."
P.S. make sure the heading is weird yet eye-catching as well. |
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As others said improve your profile, send out messages to those you want to meet and who's profiles you've actually read.
Go to a local club or pop along to local socials to get verified (meets and requests section of the forums)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Send dick pics and tell her you will smash her back doors in if she doesn't reply in 30 seconds send a abusive message telling her it's her loss and that she is frigid
I am glad I could help |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
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"How do I change my username?
You can do that in your Account tab. There is a change username option limited to 4 per year. It might only be available to site supporters though."
He is and only is |
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Not being funny but solo females and couples get bombarded. As stated, you are a very very small fish in a massive ocean.
Singles SELDOM either read your profiles or ignore what you say is an attraction or a repulsion.
As a couple in the older age range, we would not get as many as younger but we just got deluged.
Then we got pissed off because our profile had clearly not been read at all so in the end we put an exclusion filter up.
If we are interested in a solo male, then Sinna will point out his profie or I might approach someone I might think fits her taste.
Your best bet by far is meets/clubs/events because you will be on very slim odds.
Other advice as above too but this is our take on it.
Make it clear you have read profile and a first line comment highlighting a detail you like from their profile is a quick tipping of the hat to the folks you are messaging |
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With the state of fab as it is highly recommend getting to the clubs you will make friends quickly and it sums up how the scene is well unfortunately fab has become a bit overpopulated with people who don't know what swinging is they think it's just notches on their bedposts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say a club would win over this any day….no matter the profile or the message unless you are physically what someone is looking for you don’t stand a chance unfortunately!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've only been here 5 weeks.
Most single guys wait up to about a year until they get their first meet.
What were your expectations on joining the site?
That all you need do is knock a few sentences together, upload a couple of pics and be fighting women off with a shitty stick by lunch time?
I'm afraid it doesn't work like that.
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