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"Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? " Both. Just being able to identify some other assholes doesn't make you less of an asshole yourself. Even if it does help you sleep at night. | |||
"Ok, Ive been on Fab for a while and to be honest use it for some nsa easy going fun when I can, my confession is that I am attached and my other half knows nothing. Her desire for sex has decreased to zilch since the birth of our daughter. Many people may think I am a cock for continuing to dabble on here. Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? Discuss???" Who really knows? No-one can say exactly how many are attached.... or men pretending to be women.... or couples pretending to be single women....
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" In ur wifes shoes?...what would U do?" I wouldn't ask him that on a site like this!  | |||
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"Interesting, I do support her everyday but it's hard, lots of anger, negativity and hatred. I knew the reaction my post would get but I guess thats part of the cathartic reaction. I wank daily for what its worth, the physical thing is fine, coping with a lack of affection from the one you love is tough...." With the greatest respect you should not be here seeking affection. The very fact that you ask shows that you are not comfortable with your situation. Try everything in your power to repair the relationship, if it doesnt work then walk away and then play on here. What you are doing at the moment is risking more than just your family, you are risking your whole future. | |||
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"Just take some time to really play through the scenario in your mind of your partner finding out, really think about how much pain you will cause her, how you will destroy her trust and love for you. If you can really think about it and not be bothered she is better off without you. If you can really think about it and feel pain then stop and sort out what's important in your life."  | |||
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"Yes you are a cock! There is medication available for your wife's low libido, and she probably needs you more than ever right now. Consider just how lucky you are to have a woman that loves you. " ohhh please pm me with what medication increases libido .. Im darned if I can find any via my doctor  | |||
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"Ok, Ive been on Fab for a while and to be honest use it for some nsa easy going fun when I can, my confession is that I am attached and my other half knows nothing. Her desire for sex has decreased to zilch since the birth of our daughter. Many people may think I am a cock for continuing to dabble on here. Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? Discuss???" You choose to do what you choose to do with all the baggage and risk that could come with it and its your choice. There are many out there who say swinging is wrong be you single, playing away, married and both playing etc. We all make lifestyle choices on what works for us. | |||
"Ok, Ive been on Fab for a while and to be honest use it for some nsa easy going fun when I can, my confession is that I am attached and my other half knows nothing. Her desire for sex has decreased to zilch since the birth of our daughter. Many people may think I am a cock for continuing to dabble on here. Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? Discuss??? You choose to do what you choose to do with all the baggage and risk that could come with it and its your choice. There are many out there who say swinging is wrong be you single, playing away, married and both playing etc. We all make lifestyle choices on what works for us. " | |||
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"Interesting, I do support her everyday but it's hard, lots of anger, negativity and hatred. I knew the reaction my post would get but I guess thats part of the cathartic reaction. I wank daily for what its worth, the physical thing is fine, coping with a lack of affection from the one you love is tough...." Have you tried romancing, wining and dining. Take her away for weekend child free for a break instead of putting it about behind her back on here. | |||
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"think of it from your wifes perspective, she has given birth to your child, the man she loves. Shes finding it tough going, as looking after a young child is.....then she finds out that he's on a sex site looking for a casual shag.......yeah thats really going to make her feel better, and want to shag you.Perhaps you should use your excess energy in helping out your wife, make her feel sexy again, or just give her a break. I have zero sympathy for men like you." Absolutely agree | |||
"Ok, Ive been on Fab for a while and to be honest use it for some nsa easy going fun when I can, my confession is that I am attached and my other half knows nothing. Her desire for sex has decreased to zilch since the birth of our daughter. Many people may think I am a cock for continuing to dabble on here. Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? Discuss???" Go to the library or look online - learn a bit about post natal depresseion then look for other signs to support a diagnosis, if it looks like pnd is the root cause of your relationship problems get her to the doc. Pnd is serious shit and will fuck you both up unless its treated or unless your very lucky. | |||
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"Ok, Ive been on Fab for a while and to be honest use it for some nsa easy going fun when I can, my confession is that I am attached and my other half knows nothing. Her desire for sex has decreased to zilch since the birth of our daughter. Many people may think I am a cock for continuing to dabble on here. Am I? Or am I typical of many men and women on here? Discuss???" Ok you got this far in confessing to a forum full of strangers now its time to confess to your partner | |||
"Interesting, I do support her everyday but it's hard, lots of anger, negativity and hatred. I knew the reaction my post would get but I guess thats part of the cathartic reaction. I wank daily for what its worth, the physical thing is fine, coping with a lack of affection from the one you love is tough...." Ok my tuppence for what its worth This has to be the biggest cop out and selfish beyond words. Your good lady is doing what you should also be doing concentrating on whats important in life ...and that my friend is your new family ..my heart bleeds for you ..your not getting her undivided attention try helping her with everyday things ..pay her the attention she deserves adter all she has just given you greatest gift of all ....maybe get someone to watch the little 1 for the.night or even a few hrs and treat your good lady to a night out..instead of spitting YOUR dummy out and looking elsewhere ...how do you think your wife feels about herself just now and how will she feel if she found out what you are doing while she nurtures your child ...while you use it against her
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"Interesting, I do support her everyday but it's hard, lots of anger, negativity and hatred. I knew the reaction my post would get but I guess thats part of the cathartic reaction. I wank daily for what its worth, the physical thing is fine, coping with a lack of affection from the one you love is tough...." Having looked at your profile it seems you have been playing away for 3 yrs !!! You say you support her but theres lot of anger hatred and negativity. Have you thought that perhaps she does know exactly what your up to !!! | |||
 there's one conclusion.....one size doesn't fit all.....every situation differs and having an opinion doesn't necessarily mean you should pass judgement.
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"can,worms,everywhere. TBH no your not a cock and yes you are a cock. The thing with a guy and i cant speak for a woman is that the little head rules the big head. Its the way we are programmed and its hard to stop it.A bit like when a woman is on her period and shes getting very moody(girls you know how that feels?) we like the look of a woman and for me the titalation is what i like from being on here. if i get a meet then so be it. Have you ever asked her to join you on here? she might enjoy it?" I think she may crack hinm over the head with a large blunt instrument. | |||
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"Yes you are a cock! There is medication available for your wife's low libido, and she probably needs you more than ever right now. Consider just how lucky you are to have a woman that loves you. ohhh please pm me with what medication increases libido .. Im darned if I can find any via my doctor "Bupropion, marketed variously as Wellbutrin, Zyban, Voxra, Budeprion, Prexaton, Elontril or Aplenzin, is one. It's technically an antidepressant, and in the UK it's only approved for use as a stop-smoking aid. However, in studies it's been shown to increase libido (whilst most antidepressants lower it). "In a mixed-gender double-blind study, 63% of subjects on a 12-week course of bupropion rated their condition as improved or much improved, versus 3% of subjects on placebo." | |||
"Interesting, I do support her everyday but it's hard, lots of anger, negativity and hatred." whilst recognising there is only one side of your and hers story here, how bad will she take it when she finds out..? and is your relationship with your daughter worth losing..? | |||
