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By *arkhelga OP Couple over a year ago

leeds

If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

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By *edDevil5Man over a year ago

NN4

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Worse I started a new job

Messaged a woman on here and she replied hello boss

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By *ritishAsianMan over a year ago

Leeds

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Stalking is the worst thing ever on FAB

I would rather have someone upfront and honest so you can either stay away from them or have fun

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By *atcoupleCouple over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

It's happened to us; we don't mind because those who recognised us (check spelling) were there for the same reason. We played with them too.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's happened to us; we don't mind because those who recognised us (check spelling) were there for the same reason. We played with them too."

Good way of approaching it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I would see what they wanted and were into. Maybe even meet. I did once, had a few meets after, until her mum stopped her

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It would be a worry x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they didn't identify themselves then that would be a problem, other than that we wouldn't worry, same as bumping into people in clubs. Everybody is here for a reason.

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple over a year ago

West Yorkshire

Agreed

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By *heSilverFox1701Man over a year ago

Near Sleaford

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

I have had that, only twice, turned out to be parents in the playground at school. I mean - the good thing was they were able to point out the TA’s and teachers who were also into it!

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

It’s happened to me twice. Both times, the woman messaging has immediately apologised for freaking me out, we’ve got over it and managed to stay friends.

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By *oody BondMan over a year ago

Sligo

If they didn't identify themselves then it could be annoying or even worse, if they were one of those profiles with no pic and no description or verifications.

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By *histle do nicelyMan over a year ago

Glasgow South

Had it done...I was spotted showing the same pics on p.o.f... We just laughed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been recognized on another app but not on here.

Completely understand the "we are all here for the same" comments and it's true. However my only concern is how discreet are they compared to me. Some are much more open about this than others

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By *reenleavesCouple over a year ago

North Wales

If they don't identify themselves in the first message then that's pretty creepy. If you have public face pics then I'd take it as a green light to message you to say we recognise you but we'd identify ourselves at the same time.

Obviously it depends on the context. If we know you professionally then we'd either block you or just perv quietly

If you were a mate then we might try and work swinging into a convo to see how it goes. If we know you from our local tesco then we might shoot our shot

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By *icecouple561Couple over a year ago
Forum Mod

East Sussex

If they didn't say who they were we'd block them, it's creepy.

If they did say we'd probably either deny it's us or say hi and move along

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By *k98765Couple over a year ago

birmingham

Happened to us luckily he identified himself so was ok in the end but is a worry at 1st x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've had a couple of messages like that and they are creepy. I have blocked them

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

Would say well you obviously don't know me very well then

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By *ootnootboopCouple over a year ago

Cheshire

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

Worse I started a new job

Messaged a woman on here and she replied hello boss"

I'm not sure if that's #awkward or not

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By *edDevil5Man over a year ago

NN4

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

Worse I started a new job

Messaged a woman on here and she replied hello boss

We got chatting flirted and had some fun

Our nawty secret

I'm not sure if that's #awkward or not

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By *r occassionalMan over a year ago

near you today

Its only weird when they turn it into a crazy game of guess who. We're all here for the same reason...just reveal yourself

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By *ovie_MadWoman over a year ago

sunderland

I get this allllll the time where I am!

“I saw you in … but didn’t wanna say anything”

But they always identify themselves so that’s fine haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its creepy and shows alot have no discretion, a friend away from here asked me via messenger if the name hidden gem meant anything, i said should it and left it at that, he said aw am not on there was just asking, kinda creepy knowing someone knows me but i dont know who the profile is on here

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By *as2cheatMan over a year ago

harrow

I seen my best mates niece on here, I said nothing g to her or anyone else

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By *achel SmythTV/TS over a year ago

Farnborough

I’m quite fortunate…. I’m in ‘disguise’ in here - lol

I once discovered a work colleague had viewed my profile (I recognised him), but immediately blocked him, and nothing was ever said - I don’t think he ‘read’ me!

R x

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By *aughtycplStokeCouple over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

We would be fine if someone recognised us if they said who they were, we are all on here for the same thing.

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By *ichelle and DaveCouple over a year ago

Tamworth

It happened to us, but it didn’t bother us too much as we’re all here for similar reasons….. if there’s anyone else who recognises us, please come forward. X

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had someone name a meet of mine by name and address. Said they had photos of me and were going to post them to my child’s school. Some people have some serious issues here

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By *ose-tinted GlassesMan over a year ago

Glasgow / London

"I had someone name a meet of mine by name and address. Said they had photos of me and were going to post them to my child’s school. Some people have some serious issues here "

Okay, that’s just plain nasty. What do they get out of doing that? Some sort of fucked-up power trip? Bizarre.

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I had someone name a meet of mine by name and address. Said they had photos of me and were going to post them to my child’s school. Some people have some serious issues here "

How did this person have photos

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I had someone name a meet of mine by name and address. Said they had photos of me and were going to post them to my child’s school. Some people have some serious issues here "

Also why were they threatening this ? What had you done or what did they want to prevent this ? I would of just gone and knocked them out

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By *igtone2310Man over a year ago

Beverley

It's happened to me twice i just come clean who i am and how i know them and we still chat and meet to this day x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd use it to my advantage, they obviously here for same reason

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By *as4121Man over a year ago

dartford

As most have said, I wouldn't like to be messaged by someone saying they knew me but didn't say who they were - I guess may be some odd people might do this just to get a kick whether they new you or not? Overall I think I'd rather someone tell me if they knew me and we could decide what / where that led if anywhere or not, but equally understand someone blocking/ignoring me and keeping it to themselves.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'd use it to my advantage, they obviously here for same reason"

How would you use it to your advantage

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had someone name a meet of mine by name and address. Said they had photos of me and were going to post them to my child’s school. Some people have some serious issues here

Also why were they threatening this ? What had you done or what did they want to prevent this ? I would of just gone and knocked them out "

I think a jealous ex meet making empty threats. Learned the strict filter after

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By *ustBoWoman over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I had a couple of messages like this over the years.And I find them creepy as hell especially when they are all I know who you are but I won't tell you who I am.To be fair they have all mixed me up with someone else but the attitude that they think they know me and just because I'm on here I'll now fuck them is wrong.

We are not all on here for the same reasons and the expectation that just because you know someone on here they will want to meet you is quite often wrong.

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By *edi123Couple over a year ago

aberystwyth

We were chatting to a couple and then I recognised her, she was cheating with another guy and swinging. We haven’t told her husband and have blocked them. Now a single woman has been in touch for a threesome and we know her parents, not sure what to do.

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man over a year ago

Stourbridge

Not had it happen here but had a former colleague recognise me in a club, I was with my swinging partner , he walked up, shook hands and chatted about work! Never mentioned again.

Somewhat surreal.

If someone did say what the OP said I would want to know who I must admit.

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By *opman121Man over a year ago

stoke on trent

That’s what i do doing no arm if it offends u then pass me by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can’t say I’d be bothered but C (fem) would be mortified if anyone approached us on here saying they know us!

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

"We were chatting to a couple and then I recognised her, she was cheating with another guy and swinging. We haven’t told her husband and have blocked them. Now a single woman has been in touch for a threesome and we know her parents, not sure what to do. "
go for it x

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By *rincessFlirtWoman over a year ago

London/Leeds

It’s happened before. As long as they’re open about who they are it’s not a problem for me x

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

"It’s happened before. As long as they’re open about who they are it’s not a problem for me x"
it doesn't really matter they are on here for the same reason so shouldn't really matter x

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By *entlemanrogueMan over a year ago

Glasgow

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

Worse I started a new job

Messaged a woman on here and she replied hello boss"

Awesome.

how did it go?

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By *adCherriesCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

I think some people just send that message to try and scare you or think its funny.

We have never come across anyone we know even when in clubs (about 7 years we have been swinging). No idea how we would react in that scenario because it depends what connection to life they are.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have recognised a few I know. Best was when lived in flats I was walking into my flat and could see my bottom neighbour on laptop I thought be cool if she was just signing up for fab. I got in forgot to check and logged in and she was signing up when I saw her. I couldn’t message her tho, anyway 6 months later I could and I told her I was from upstairs. She said she fancied me and often wanted me to go downstairs, said she wanted to suck me off and let my gf hear but not no was me. We never met as when we did message she had moved.

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

I wouldn't be bothered if I got a message like that to be honest it is what it is my life I do what I want

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its happened to us, Mrs Y had a work colleague who messaged us saying that they knew her. They were discrete as were we. We never met up with them though. We are all on here for the same reason yes?

Mrs Y

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By *ongueFkYouMan over a year ago

Bradford

"Its happened to us, Mrs Y had a work colleague who messaged us saying that they knew her. They were discrete as were we. We never met up with them though. We are all on here for the same reason yes?

Mrs Y"
yes we definitely are all on here for the same reason

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By *ove2watchMan over a year ago

weymouth

I'd probably would meet up for fun haha

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By *nonymous95-2Woman over a year ago

Northwich

"I think some people just send that message to try and scare you or think its funny.

We have never come across anyone we know even when in clubs (about 7 years we have been swinging). No idea how we would react in that scenario because it depends what connection to life they are. "

I've had it a couple times where people were using it only to get a response. I found it really creepy bar one guy who used it as a pickup line and sent a pic of the stars and I thought that was brilliant.

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By *batMan over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

"yes we definitely are all on here for the same reason "

Sadly, I don’t know that we are all here for the same reasons. I could easily imagine someone here just to cause hassle.

Gbat

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

We wouldn't believe them, we don't even list a town or city where we're from.

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By *aomilatteCouple over a year ago

Midlands

"We wouldn't believe them, we don't even list a town or city where we're from."

Or ever put our real postcode.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been recognised by a work colleague recently

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

Really it's dependent on who it is and how they are going about things.

Happened to me Mr once. A freind of a freind who I used to sleep with as a youth. She is now part of a couple and just said hi are you x and do you remember me y. I said yes, we exchanged how are you's etc and that was it. A perfectly fine and pleasant encounter.

However Mrs has been recognised a couple of time and it has always been done in a creepy, entitled and unsettling way. Obviously resulting in a different response.

So yes totally depends on who and how.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

I had a message a whil back saying "I've told you your hot before but where?"

Then responded with my 1st name, I wasn't impressed and it freaked me out, it took a while to figure out who it was, then blocked.

Mrs

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By *eneralKenobiMan over a year ago

North Angus

I try to make sure that doesn’t happen

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By *rb1Man over a year ago

swansea

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Hopefully they said who they were and there maybe a meet in it! If not who cares, carry on doing what you like and block them if they become a nuisance.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've swapped face pics with people I know. We have laughed about it.

I did have a message from someone using my real name though, I know who he is and he knows who I am but I've never openly shared my real identity with him and it did make me a feel a bit

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By *asha86Couple over a year ago

walsall

Theres a few people we know on here but we tend to leave them to it. I wouldnt want to freak anyone out or make them worry unnecessarily and weve obviously not their type so fill your boots i say

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By *entleman JayMan over a year ago

Wakefield

It freaks people out. Don’t do it.

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

I have seen someone I work with on here, I wouldn't message them or tell them in person as I wouldn't want to cause them embarrassment, I bloked them so there wouldn't be any accidental finding of me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I had face pics public I'd expect it.

Hence why I don't.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had a couple of messages saying "hey I think I know you" but we just ignored it. I would like to think people would be discreet but sadly not always the case.

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"If I had face pics public I'd expect it.

Hence why I don't. "

Exactly

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By *rder66Man over a year ago

Tatooine

"I have seen someone I work with on here, I wouldn't message them or tell them in person as I wouldn't want to cause them embarrassment, I bloked them so there wouldn't be any accidental finding of me.

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Unless it was Raven, then I happily let her find me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

People message me all the time saying they saw me walking my dogs haha.

No-one that I actually know though.

Unfortunately someone actually approached me on the street yesterday I thought was a bit creepy.

I know I have my face visible but that doesn't mean I want you walking upto me in the street asking me about fab. That's the first time that has happened.

Messages I expect though.

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By *aveing funCouple over a year ago

Wolverhampton

"People message me all the time saying they saw me walking my dogs haha.

No-one that I actually know though.

Unfortunately someone actually approached me on the street yesterday I thought was a bit creepy.

I know I have my face visible but that doesn't mean I want you walking upto me in the street asking me about fab. That's the first time that has happened.

Messages I expect though. "
don’t put face visible the person who approachesd you don’t have respect if we recognise someone from fabs it’s a smile nod of the head

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By *r N Mrs BobCouple over a year ago

Nottingham

We sent pics to a guy we had been chatting to for a while as it all seemed to be going pretty well. He replied saying we have friends in common as he had shown our pics to a few mates who recognised us. We felt really betrayed after and thought it was a pretty shit trick on his behalf.

We worked out the mutual friends were a group of guys that Mr knows…. Some quite well. We messaged him to tell him that he was out of order showing our pics but he had already blocked us ! It really put us off the site for a while

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We sent pics to a guy we had been chatting to for a while as it all seemed to be going pretty well. He replied saying we have friends in common as he had shown our pics to a few mates who recognised us. We felt really betrayed after and thought it was a pretty shit trick on his behalf.

That's a really shitty thing of him to do.

There are people like that, it's a shame though, I'm glad it didn't make you leave, tossers always try to spoil tbe fun. There are some fab people around.

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By *ee And MikeCouple over a year ago

Cannock

We’ve had a couple of messages from people on here that have mostly recognised Dee, including one from a friend of a bull that she saw a few years ago.

As long as they are respectful and sensible it’s fine, any idiots just get blocked.

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By *oodmessMan over a year ago

yumsville

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

I'd remove all pics that gave my beautiful looks away

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By *moothshaftMan over a year ago

Coventry

I think I'd quite like to be recognised by a couple or a female.

At my age, I'd feel honoured!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’d be thrilled and start up a conversation with them no matter who it is

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By *rispyDuckMan over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Me no speak English

You blind, you need eye check

You no see me, me not me

Me CrispyDuck not him you know

goodbye

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By *heswingerMan over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

I was recognised by someone I went to school with an hasn’t seen for 30 years, we met and fucked an now weee back to old friends with a twist

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn’t approach them on here or tell them or anybody else that I knew them, my motto is live and let live.

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By *nliveneTV/TS over a year ago

Selby

If they identify themselves i could care at all as they are here for the same reasons as me . If they were not willing to identify themselves than that would be concerning as usually they become stalker, as i have experienced already and still.

These days to be true i couldn't care less about who is stalking me i am not ashamed of been here or living the lifestyle and i have no intentions of given up at all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'd welcome any messages, could be good fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Got recognised by a family friend. Loved the attention and loved seeing him naked

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By *4bimMan over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

Block

Done

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By *hilledGuyClactonMan over a year ago

Little clacton

I've face pics on show.

Unfiltered one every so often,has happened a few times.

Never really had a issue.

But some of my friends have had issues (usually by men thinking they're up for fun if they see them in a pub etc) even tried to follow them only.

Couples/female mates.

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By *riel13Woman over a year ago

Northampton

I would assume they had just seen me before, rather than being someone that actually knows me and I'd probably send them a thumbs up or just delete their message, depending on my mood

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I recognised my ex on here

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By *kdkityCouple over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I had this in a pub a guy said I’ll message you tomorrow ,I didn’t think anything of it but the next day I got a message on fab saying nice to see you last night

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We had a message using our surname, they wouldn’t tell us who they were so just blocked them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have been recognised a few times, but have not had any issues as we are all on here looking for the same thing. U

What I find funny is that I am still recognised from a few videos that got posted on Xham years ago, as had a message a few moments ago. Xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wouldn’t care unless it was someone who was trying to taunt me or had their identity hidden.

In that case, two can play that game.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had this, but I was the one to send that message.

A guy I had been perving on at the gym messaged me on here and I replied "ooooh I know you'" confessed my perving. We ended up being fuck buddies for quite a while.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had it from a couple when i was last on here saying they knew who i was. I messaged back saying thats nice who are you, and they never replied and vanished !! How silly was that of them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wouldn't mind if they were discreet

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By *lexV16Man over a year ago

Welling

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

If I fancy the profile behind that message I’d engage and conversation hoping to take things further.

If I don’t like the profile- I’d just block.

I don’t care if I am recognised, we are all here for the same on the site. But I find it creepy doing especially if author doesn’t name him/herself.

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By *ynecplCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

If they didn't identify themselves we would ask who they were. If they didn't answer then we would block them.

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By *reyToTheFairiesWoman over a year ago

Carlisle usually

Occasionally I get messages from people I've never interacted with asking if they saw me on so and so street at whatever time. They're a block and bin.

I'm also not a huge fan of being pointed at last night and told my username by someone that rang no bells for me at all.

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By *orphia2003Woman over a year ago

Tonypandy.

Started new job several months ago. Already been recognised by 2 people who work in same building. Doesn't bother me. All here for same thing.

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By *luttyLaylaWoman over a year ago

North West

Happens all the time.

Anyone that sends that message gets reported and blocked. Trying to intimidate people online is vile.

I’ve been recognised loads in clubs and it’s no issue, we’re all there for the same thing. Unfortunately not all fab users are the genuine swingers x

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By *4bimMan over a year ago

Farnborough Hampshire

One job I was at years ago someone printed out my profile and stuck it on the notice board. So you sometimes need to be careful

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By *reampie_yourwifeMan over a year ago

barnsley

Once had a guy come up to me whilst I was standing outside a shop in the street and say hi … had chatted to them and swapped pics but not met him and his wife … very disconcerting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It usually ends in a swift block

I've had people (mainly men) say they recognise me from work, the school run

or out and about. I don't like it and even if someone does recognise me I'd rather they didn't point it out. Discretion and all that. X

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By *urora1912Woman over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

I've had a couple guys do it on here but won't say who they are and I don't even have my face showing

They seem to have worked it out from the lower part of my face.

One even mentioned the local pub I drink in and where I was working, that was pretty creepy so I blocked them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've been recognised 3 times once a lady I used to work with and twice guys 1 again I worked with and 1 my sons friend ....... it's going to happen at some point I guess especially with peeps advertising swinging as being an amazing hobby on TikTok etc xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love being recognised. Get a thrill out of it

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By *ellanbennyCouple over a year ago

cambs

Myself (S) I don't think I would care very much or if at all. I think T would have more of a panic, until I calm her down. Love that girl.

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By *opinovMan over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

I'd start by asking who they were.

If they were someone I'd be happy to interact with through this site then I'd have no problem with it.

If I didn't want to interact with them I'd be tempted to reply along the lines of: "Sorry, I'm afraid you're mistaken - I've no idea who you are or who you think I might be."

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By *rtist with museCouple over a year ago

Eastbourne

As we do not have yng children we are open and proud about our sexualities - we consider ourselves part of the LGBQT+ community and if anyone has issues with that it's their problem and potentially the laws if it becomes and sort of harrassment or prejudice xx

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By *toC Thats MeWoman over a year ago

Sheffield

I’ve had this quite a few times over the years. 2 people I have genuinely known in normal life, and the rest have just been blaggers.

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By *3xDECouple over a year ago

nottingham

We have had this a couple of times and we’re delighted by who it turned out to be. Both genuine and respectful guys we have known for many years.

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By *tickler2000Man over a year ago

St Agnes

I've recognised afew people on here.

Not messaged them as a meet would never happen.

Ok as friends but this? No.

What they do is none to do with me.

Live and let live

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By *enatton2Couple over a year ago

West Midlands

We’ve had one of those, tried to style it out but I think he still knew.

It’ll depend who it is going forward. If we like them then maybe it’ll open doors for fun lol

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By *erri AnneTV/TS over a year ago

Shannon and Costa Blanca

I used to go to a club meetups and on my third or fourth night I was there an ex fuck buddy was there with another guy. It was not a good breakup as she started putting herself in danger with a Dom from the UK.

She started bad mouthing me to the hosts and afterwards they blocked me as her new fellow was a close contact with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

I have, from an ex work colleague, we met and fucked

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have done. I replied x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have done. I replied x"

Lucky them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I have done. I replied x

Lucky them!"

Lol. Ty x

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan over a year ago

Southend

I once saw a friend's mum on here. Promptly blocked them. It was hot though.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I was recognised by a guy that I'd had a social with in R.L we had arranged a 2nd date but he actually stood me up. Fast forward a year or so and he messaged me on here as he recognised me. Hilarious how keen he was for a 2nd meet then !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I recognised someone but would not want them to know I was here. I blocked instead of messaged them. I think if someone recognised me I'd like them to message as long as they said who they were.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I was recognised by a guy that I'd had a social with in R.L we had arranged a 2nd date but he actually stood me up. Fast forward a year or so and he messaged me on here as he recognised me. Hilarious how keen he was for a 2nd meet then ! "

Funny that eh?!

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By *winging90scoupleCouple over a year ago

Northfield

We've never been too fussed by it. Only once or twice have we been recognised though. Nothings ever came of it though

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By *tmostakiss1Man over a year ago

I recognised the MIL on here in the past.

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By *urchoicenowCouple over a year ago

Ashford

We don't mind as long as people are open and honest about it

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By *utDoSomeMoreCouple over a year ago

Southport

Actually find it a bit of a turn on x

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By *aGaGagging for itCouple over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We've recognised someone in here that we know from a different situation. We've said nothing. He's none the wiser. We'll still interact with him as we did before. We don't judge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

An old colleagues wife contact me (us) on a previous profile.

We meet for drinks. Chatted. All ok. I still seen them for fun.

But it worked as they were honest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

Worse I started a new job

Messaged a woman on here and she replied hello boss"

If you have common interest I would meet for a chat. I missed out on a work encounter and regret it.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

I would say congratulations!

want some fun?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don’t think it would really phase me as long as they weren’t weird about it

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By *eachy123Woman over a year ago

Rochdale/Manchester/Blackpool and were ever the mood takes me

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Laugh and say its the quiet ones you have to watch for isn't it lmao

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By *histle do nicelyMan over a year ago

Glasgow South

I've been recognised..Since it was someone from here we both just laughed about it.. Nothing happened sadly

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man over a year ago

Stourbridge

Only in a club, a former work colleague tapped me on the back and started talking business!

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By *heswingerMan over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"
doors open, knock once an I’m upstairs naked waiting

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By *anLondonMan over a year ago

London

I've recognised one person that I knew on Fab, but didn't message them. I hadn't seen them in years anyway.

However...I've had many instances of messaging couples and then they hide their profile surreptitiously soon afterwards. Could be coincidence, but part of me does wonder whether they recognised me (or someone else that messaged them) and had cold feet about doing this.

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By *imon003Man over a year ago

North West

I’d hope the person that recognised me was someone that I’ve always fantasised about so we could hook up.

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"I’d hope the person that recognised me was someone that I’ve always fantasised about so we could hook up. "

Now that’ would be a welcome result and I’m sure on others fantasy list to if truth be known

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By *teve691000Man over a year ago

West Midlands

"I had this in a pub a guy said I’ll message you tomorrow ,I didn’t think anything of it but the next day I got a message on fab saying nice to see you last night "

That sounds well horny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not just own up. You are likely to be on Fab for the same reason.

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By *kinandbonesCouple over a year ago

dublin

We've recognised people we know on here before but it'd be odd if they randomly sent that without saying who it is

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By *teve691000Man over a year ago

West Midlands

My X wife was in a readers wives porno magazine around 2003. Face was covered up or to one side. Had the usual right up saying how cock hungry she is and to contact her etc. my best mate rang me to tell me my wife was in a mag, thinking I didn’t no about it. I denied everything. Prob was in one of the pics she was bent over the bonnet of my blue mondoe which had a South Park air freshener hanging from the mirror. I still denied it but to this day I no he no’s

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By *erlicanMan over a year ago

Newbury

I had someone who clearly knew who I was but wouldn't say who they were. I was terrified but then realised that THEY were here too and in no position to judge.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Love playing with anyone so don’t mind if it’s people I know at all

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By *ittycock400Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx"

Have had this happen. Wasn't friend but a tradesman who had done some repairs for us.

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By *ink and inkedCouple over a year ago

Essex

I work in a very male environment

I have been recognised many times which is quite awks , I never know until after they have left my place of work and then message on here to tell me

I always feel a bit embarrassed as I don’t really glam up at work

I also get recognised when I’m at the gym which is even worse as I’m a hot mess haha

Miss Pink

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By *omtom7Man over a year ago

Tralee

You have a beautiful face, no need for embarrassment.

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By *iercedItMan over a year ago

North West

When I first joined fab. Someone who was only on here for a laugh (i.e. not very successful) posted screen shots to my business Facebook, and even messaged my mother. Both of which backfired badly given most my business at that time was adult industry related haha.

Now, if I recognise someone, I message them, and invite them to block (and never mention again) or chat and have a friend in the scene or simply be passing ships in the night.

I have had a few people recognise my tongue piercing (it's almost as unique as my fingerprint), but most have been cool and include a pic which I never recognise them usually haha.

Been a while since I had a negative one come to think of it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ive messaged people ive known on here before, i dont reveal my name immedaiately but say i know them and ifthey want to chat, or respect if they dont wish too and of course whats on fab stays on fab.

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

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By *aizyWoman over a year ago

west midlands

"Ive messaged people ive known on here before, i dont reveal my name immedaiately but say i know them and ifthey want to chat, or respect if they dont wish too and of course whats on fab stays on fab.

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them."

Sorry but that would creep me out no end, someone msging and saying they know me but don't say who they are, if someone knows me tell me who you are straight away then I'll decide, but just msging and saying they know me if I want to know who they are I have to chat to them, nope.

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By *omtom7Man over a year ago

Tralee

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

This.

Mind you, wish I did know you Daizy

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By *illie69Woman over a year ago

leeds/wakefield

I work with the public and have recognised a few customers from here but I've never said anything . One couple in particular I chat with regularly when they come in . It's their business not mine .

If it was someone I was interested in then I might say something and hope they feel the same

I guess if people don't want to be recognised don't put face pics on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them."

That’s putting someone in a highly pressured position, you’re basically forcing them to say that they’re interested. The options you’ve given are - “agree to be interested in me and I’ll eventually tell you who I am” or “don’t agree to chat with me and I’ll never reveal myself and you’ll forever be paranoid”.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them.

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By *valanche1001Man over a year ago

Leeds

I did receive such a message but they wouldn’t say where from so I simply blocked them and forgot about it

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By *harlieD69Man over a year ago

Blackpool

"I did receive such a message but they wouldn’t say where from so I simply blocked them and forgot about it "

Yeh just playing mind games if they don’t say who they are

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By *inkywife1981Couple over a year ago

A town near you

We live in a small rural town so value discretion.

We have had guys mail us and ask so many questions playing detective trying to work out who we are, when we have said ignored their questions they have said they think they know who we are.

Creepy and blocked!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them."

Not quite, im not putting them under any pressure, either they chat or dont and as i said whats on fab stays on fab.

If you put face pics on fab surely your leaving yourself out there whether people get in contact or not.

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By *eyeYCouple over a year ago

Nr Leicester

We'd firstly be impressed they had from our public pic's..

Though they'd quickly be blocked as evidently they'd display have no idea on etiquette.

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By *sian vixenWoman over a year ago

Hinckley

Only happened once and he broke the code, came square up to me in a pub in front of my friends and said you such and such from fabswingers - so embarrassed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them.

Not quite, im not putting them under any pressure, either they chat or dont and as i said whats on fab stays on fab.

If you put face pics on fab surely you’re leaving yourself out there whether people get in contact or not."

Yes you are putting them under pressure. You’re saying the only way they can find out who you are, is by having to say that they’re interested in talking to you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them.

Not quite, im not putting them under any pressure, either they chat or dont and as i said whats on fab stays on fab.

If you put face pics on fab surely you’re leaving yourself out there whether people get in contact or not.

Yes you are putting them under pressure. You’re saying the only way they can find out who you are, is by having to say that they’re interested in talking to you."

They might not give a fook who i am and prefer to not chat, or drop a message find out its me and then say happy hunting and chat no more, not sure thats pressure, take it your not a doctor or in the forces, thats pressure lol

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By *astandFeistyCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them.

Not quite, im not putting them under any pressure, either they chat or dont and as i said whats on fab stays on fab.

If you put face pics on fab surely your leaving yourself out there whether people get in contact or not."

If you know someone and contact them to tell them you know them, at least do the honest thing and put yourself out there.

Anything is not only creepy but borderline mentally challenging.

If you didn't out yourself to us, you'd be blocked and never thought of again. Although, not everyone can be that way.

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By *astandFeistyCouple over a year ago

Bournemouth

If they want to chat then i reveal my identity.

It leaves it with them if they want to find out and chat etc, otherwise just move on and forget you seen them.

Not a nice thing to do. You should tell them who you are, straight up, if you know them.

Not quite, im not putting them under any pressure, either they chat or dont and as i said whats on fab stays on fab.

If you put face pics on fab surely your leaving yourself out there whether people get in contact or not.

If you know someone and contact them to tell them you know them, at least do the honest thing and put yourself out there.

Anything is not only creepy but borderline mentally challenging.

If you didn't out yourself to us, you'd be blocked and never thought of again. Although, not everyone can be that way. "

*anything less

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By *moothLeanBodMan over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"If you received a message saying ooh I recognize you didn't realise you were into this,how would you react?Xx

I have had that, only twice, turned out to be parents in the playground at school. I mean - the good thing was they were able to point out the TA’s and teachers who were also into it!"

That's really poor form. They ought to respect the privacy of other users, not disclose their identity to others.

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By *omtom7Man over a year ago

Tralee

Yeah, they should keep that shit to themselves

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By *ustus555Couple over a year ago

We get it quite often. 99% of the time it's from single blokes trying thier luck. So amazingly stupid.

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By *wistedTooCouple over a year ago

Frimley

Literally been stopped in Sainsbury’s by someone saying they recognise us from Fab lol

And yes we’ve been messaged saying people have seen us out and about too. Once from a Jimmy Carr show…

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By *heswingerMan over a year ago

the steel city sheffield

I met an old school friend on here whilst working in leeds, but awkward but we overcome it an now are great mates with the odd benefit thrown in now an again

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By *ink and inkedCouple over a year ago

Essex

"Literally been stopped in Sainsbury’s by someone saying they recognise us from Fab lol

And yes we’ve been messaged saying people have seen us out and about too. Once from a Jimmy Carr show…"

This happened to us at Bluewater shopping centre lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It wasn't a message, it was when my mum knocked on my bedroom door. She recognised the background in one of my photos

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By *orl1971Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

This is exactly why we don’t share face pics now. We also had pics taken and distributed. Also had guys send pics of their FWB naked or semi naked with their face showing on at least five different occasions. Pretty sure the FWBs didn’t know.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I got a message from someone while I was in the gym asking if I was in the gym. They had no pics on their profile so I’ve still no idea who it was

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Over the years quite a few young guys have tried their luck by messaging me to say I know their mum.

My reply……

“Yes I do, she’s the one who introduced me to Fab. Did she tell you about the gangbang we went to last week?”

Strangely enough I never get a response!

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By *uncouplerk40Couple over a year ago

"Over the years quite a few young guys have tried their luck by messaging me to say I know their mum.

My reply……

“Yes I do, she’s the one who introduced me to Fab. Did she tell you about the gangbang we went to last week?”

Strangely enough I never get a response!

Haha

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By *ormerWelshcouple2020Man over a year ago

Stourbridge

"Over the years quite a few young guys have tried their luck by messaging me to say I know their mum.

My reply……

“Yes I do, she’s the one who introduced me to Fab. Did she tell you about the gangbang we went to last week?”

Strangely enough I never get a response!

Bravo!

We got that kind of message from young guys when I was in a couple , Dee used to eviscerate them lol

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan over a year ago

Southend

"Over the years quite a few young guys have tried their luck by messaging me to say I know their mum.

My reply……

“Yes I do, she’s the one who introduced me to Fab. Did she tell you about the gangbang we went to last week?”

Strangely enough I never get a response!

Bet you a few got turned on by that.

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