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Ladies, oral sex for you…do you like it?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Reading the lack of blow job post I was intrigued to see many women don’t like to receive oral themselves. Have received messages or seen the profiles where the guy claims he can ‘lick you for hours’ but is it that appealing?
Personally it depends on the person and situation. I won’t refuse it but I don’t always enjoy it and find it awkward. Other times it’s been good. Is it really all it’s cracked up to be? (yes I chose that word on purpose  ) |
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I love it from someone who knows what they are doing, if they start writing the ABC's with their tounge I'm outa there!
From the Mr though I could actually lay there for hours, probably not anyone else.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone is licking me for hours they aren't doing it right. I don't like oral how most people do it and I prefer it with people I know really well. I also don't like it as foreplay |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Reading the lack of blow job post I was intrigued to see many women don’t like to receive oral themselves. Have received messages or seen the profiles where the guy claims he can ‘lick you for hours’ but is it that appealing?
I love receiving oral from my man he certainly knows what he is doing and he loves to make me cum over and over again. He could genuinely stay between my legs most of the time though if he could but it ends up getting to sensitive and then I just need fucking
Personally it depends on the person and situation. I won’t refuse it but I don’t always enjoy it and find it awkward. Other times it’s been good. Is it really all it’s cracked up to be? (yes I chose that word on purpose ) "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said it depends whos doing the licking and where i am. Ive had amazing oral from both men and ladies. Ive noticed lately more people don't enjoy giving. |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Erm.
It's very rare I enjoy it. I can count on a few fingers those I've enjoyed it from. I think in part it's because I get very wet when aroused and I'm a bit self conscious about that. I'd also much rather do the giving than receiving - I find it more arousing and get to relax and switch off and just worship the other person without thinking too much.
When it's good it's really good. But when it's okay? I'd rather do something else. So yes I can enjoy it. Generally no.
I'm really keen to try a proper facesitting session though. No idea why! |
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"I love it from someone who knows what they are doing, if they start writing the ABC's with their tounge I'm outa there!
From the Mr though I could actually lay there for hours, probably not anyone else.
Mrs "
alphabet hahaha |
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By *neforutoMan
over a year ago
Fantasy land in the SW |
Wow, these comments are a real insight. In previous relationships Ive always been happy to give generously but now I think about it there was never much in the way of directions being given. So either i was doing alright or it was being faked, if the situation arises again then maybe I will give more consideration to asking for direction. |
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"I like it, but not for hours. It's a foreplay thing for me. If it's done right I can reach orgasm very quickly from it. But then I'm like "fuck me now!"
Beth x"
I am exactly the same. Also the moment I reach orgasm I don’t want it anymore, as I become very sensitive, to the point of pain.
I want to be fucked, like, now!  |
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Ok so as a 40yo woman let me get my tuppence worth in
So I love it, I get so wet & i squirt etc - when done correctly. However saying that some men don’t have a clue what they are doing, also some are hand or mouth not a combo, for me it’s defo a combo option
However let me add i’ve been with my hubby 18y and oral on me is prob an addition in the last 4/5y, prior to that I didn’t like/want but that was me & honestly major self conscious thing, remember growing up and teenage boys would make fishy fanny comments in public etc - that was enough for me just not to want it & be paranoid
FYI my pussy tastes amazing for the record
However in 2019 i started to actively read again #smut #cliterature and started to want to experience the hype
Nowadays i sit of hubby face often squirt all over him, but i don’t sit on a meets face (ATM)
wow that way long lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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For me it’s technique. I’m not a 99 ice cream (not 99p bastards) my oral orgasm takes a slow build up and not all focused on the clit, that’s not the magic key but don’t ignore it either. I also hate being fingered when having oral, I like to focus on the one sensation……if any men are taking notes  |
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"I like someone to lick me till I orgasm. If he takes hours, then I'm pretty sure I won't cum, and that means he or she just isn't doing it right."
Wow, what a beautiful pussy you have. I'm not envious of all the people that have made you orgasm. But could I ask what isn't doing it right means for you? |
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"For me it’s technique. I’m not a 99 ice cream (not 99p bastards) my oral orgasm takes a slow build up and not all focused on the clit, that’s not the magic key but don’t ignore it either. I also hate being fingered when having oral, I like to focus on the one sensation……if any men are taking notes "
Note taken - its always good to actually get constructive feedback. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Reading the lack of blow job post I was intrigued to see many women don’t like to receive oral themselves. Have received messages or seen the profiles where the guy claims he can ‘lick you for hours’ but is it that appealing?
Personally it depends on the person and situation. I won’t refuse it but I don’t always enjoy it and find it awkward. Other times it’s been good. Is it really all it’s cracked up to be? (yes I chose that word on purpose ) "
One goes with the flow |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I actually really enjoy giving a woman oral , it’s actually one of my favourite things to do in the bedroom. However if I’m with someone who doesn’t like it I am happy to respect her wishes and exchange it for something else that she likes and wants instead |
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By *ez669Man
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
"Love giving it and watching her stomach doing somersaults 
it’s my stomach muscles if i’ve had a busy time
proves i need more exercise "
As im a good guy like that ill give them a workout anytime you feel like it |
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"Love giving it and watching her stomach doing somersaults
it’s my stomach muscles if i’ve had a busy time
proves i need more exercise
As im a good guy like that ill give them a workout anytime you feel like it "
haha gotta love a “workout coach” |
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Receiving oral never used to do anything for me at all up until as recent as the past 6 months but I think that's been down to a lack in confidence on my part and maybe not telling hubby and previous partners what and how I like it! My confidence has grown somewhat, and although I still need to be in right the mood for oral, I do enjoy riding my husbands face on the odd occasion and kissing him afterwards to taste myself. |
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By *ez669Man
over a year ago
East Kilbride |
"Love giving it and watching her stomach doing somersaults
it’s my stomach muscles if i’ve had a busy time
proves i need more exercise
As im a good guy like that ill give them a workout anytime you feel like it
haha gotta love a “workout coach”"
Haha hit me up when you feel likes it country girl |
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I fucking love any of my favourite people down there.
But if you're not my people, I'm not going to be able to get in the right headspace to really get off, and I do not want strangers down there at all. |
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This is amazing!!
"Ok so as a 40yo woman let me get my tuppence worth in
So I love it, I get so wet & i squirt etc - when done correctly. However saying that some men don’t have a clue what they are doing, also some are hand or mouth not a combo, for me it’s defo a combo option
However let me add i’ve been with my hubby 18y and oral on me is prob an addition in the last 4/5y, prior to that I didn’t like/want but that was me & honestly major self conscious thing, remember growing up and teenage boys would make fishy fanny comments in public etc - that was enough for me just not to want it & be paranoid
FYI my pussy tastes amazing for the record
However in 2019 i started to actively read again #smut #cliterature and started to want to experience the hype
Nowadays i sit of hubby face often squirt all over him, but i don’t sit on a meets face (ATM)
wow that way long lol "
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"Erm.
It's very rare I enjoy it. I can count on a few fingers those I've enjoyed it from. I think in part it's because I get very wet when aroused and I'm a bit self conscious about that. I'd also much rather do the giving than receiving - I find it more arousing and get to relax and switch off and just worship the other person without thinking too much.
When it's good it's really good. But when it's okay? I'd rather do something else. So yes I can enjoy it. Generally no.
I'm really keen to try a proper facesitting session though. No idea why! "
Us lads love a woman who gets wet. The wetter the better. And I'd love a facesitter!! |
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So, as a giver who loves to please, my experience is the lady will cum and then, as some have saids its 'fuck me now, and hard'
Personal favourite woman on top riding my face.. not had a squirter yet..
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Personally I think there is a difference licking for hours - avoid, however if female can enjoy multiple orgasms in a row from oral then licking to give those multiple orgasms is amazing!
I personally love the feeling of the women tensing, as the orgasm builds moving as she moves and the feel of her release. As I softly lick her clean and slowly build up for another one. Added bonus if she squirt/s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love it. Been lucky to have a hubby that knows exactly what to do with his mouth and tongue . Plus ive met a lot of ladies who can certainly hit the spot  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Erm.
I think in part it's because I get very wet when aroused and I'm a bit self conscious about that.
I'm really keen to try a proper facesitting session though. No idea why! "
It's the wet and aroused bit that makes it such a huge turn on to be lying underneath you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sometimes I absolutely love it. However in order for that to happen he needs to know what he's doing, read my reactions and also be very obviously loving it too.
As some others have mentioned it's one of those things I can get a bit paranoid about. My ex husband never ever wanted to (he didn't want anything though) and once made a comment I was too wet.
Since then I've learnt he was the problem and not me but it does still enter my head at times.
I also love to give though and struggle if someone is lavishing all the attention on me sometimes. I feel like I'm being selfish, and I suppose it's a control thing too. I love reactions and I want to cause them.
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Read and took notes but all I can work out is e every lady is diferant so like oral some want just tong some want a finger or 2 at the same time.
So as I have always thought guys relax and let her guide you listen to the moans and breathing. I like it when she grabs your hair and fuckes you face takes what she wants. |
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By *ddfellowMan
over a year ago
Newferry, wirral |
I love to give oral to a girl, but I dont think any two have ever wanted the same technique, what works for one doesnt necessarily work for another some just like the tongue some like both and all to varying degrees, I suppose the key to good oral is communication, though some women seem to have difficulty telling you what they want. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Licking for hours...not sure which would cramp up first, my tongue, my jaw or my neck.
Only had a couple of partners that really liked oral. My ex-wife who loved it before, during and especially after sex. And a lady I was seeing about 20yrs ago who was a squirter and screamer.
I enjoy doing it, and have missed it since the wife became the ex wife. |
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I absolutely love pleasuring a woman with oral but i'm only as good as the woman i'm with, if she doesn't respond and let me know what feels good for her it can be difficult, all women like different things and there is no right way for all women which is were a lot of men go wrong, good luck girls xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it , and the ones to look out for are like my hubby , he doesnt just do it for my pleasure ,he does it for his own , now there the dangerous types ...lol x |
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