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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
How old’s your sister? If she’s an adult then I’m sure she’s aware that people have sex even when they’re not in a relationship so why don’t you talk to her about it and arrange for you to have the house to yourself for a few hours for a meet….I used to live in a shared house when I was younger and I heard all my housemates having sex at some point, and I’m sure they heard me too. I know it might be a bit more awkward because it’s your sister, depending on what sort of a relationship you have, but it’s only sex, it’s not the end of the world if someone hears you doing it. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"we are both adults i am 49 shes 44
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You should both be able to deal with knowing the other has sex without dying from awkwardness then…..your profile says you can’t accommodate anyway so why are you trying to arrange meets at your house? |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister"
Can't be much worse than me sharing the ownership of a house with my sister under old Norman French based inheritance law.
All she has to do is wait for me to statistically snuff it first and it's all hers.
The technical term is 'Usufruct', I've renamed it 'U sure fuct' - especially if U are a bloke. |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
Can't be much worse than me sharing the ownership of a house with my sister under old Norman French based inheritance law.
All she has to do is wait for me to statistically snuff it first and it's all hers.
The technical term is 'Usufruct', I've renamed it 'U sure fuct' - especially if U are a bloke."
What if you kill her, sorry, if she dies first? |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
Can't be much worse than me sharing the ownership of a house with my sister under old Norman French based inheritance law.
All she has to do is wait for me to statistically snuff it first and it's all hers.
The technical term is 'Usufruct', I've renamed it 'U sure fuct' - especially if U are a bloke.
What if you kill her, sorry, if she dies first?"
Statistically unlikely.
I don't think I am being a misogynist when I say that the usufruct code favours women but it rather looks that way! |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
Can't be much worse than me sharing the ownership of a house with my sister under old Norman French based inheritance law.
All she has to do is wait for me to statistically snuff it first and it's all hers.
The technical term is 'Usufruct', I've renamed it 'U sure fuct' - especially if U are a bloke.
What if you kill her, sorry, if she dies first?
Statistically unlikely.
I don't think I am being a misogynist when I say that the usufruct code favours women but it rather looks that way!"
Did you inherit this house from your parents? If so I’m struggling to see what the difference is between what you’re describing and standard joint ownership. If a brother and sister are left with joint ownership of their parents house after they’ve died then they both have to agree to sell it before it can be sold, and if one of them dies then the other gets sole ownership don’t they?
That’s a genuine question, I’m not being argumentative, maybe I’m missing something but I can’t see the difference between what you’re describing and what I’d expect when siblings inherit a house from their parents. |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister"
I share a house but get Thurs- sun on my own
Can't get anyone to meet me is more of a problem   |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
I share a house but get Thurs- sun on my own
Can't get anyone to meet me is more of a problem "
Why does your profile say ‘cannot accommodate’ then? |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
I share a house but get Thurs- sun on my own
Can't get anyone to meet me is more of a problem
Why does your profile say ‘cannot accommodate’ then?"
Oversight haven't updated it since I moved, thank you will update it now |
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"Hi does anyone else live in a shared house which makes it hard to arrange meets, I live with my sister
Can't be much worse than me sharing the ownership of a house with my sister under old Norman French based inheritance law.
All she has to do is wait for me to statistically snuff it first and it's all hers.
The technical term is 'Usufruct', I've renamed it 'U sure fuct' - especially if U are a bloke.
What if you kill her, sorry, if she dies first?
Statistically unlikely.
I don't think I am being a misogynist when I say that the usufruct code favours women but it rather looks that way!
Did you inherit this house from your parents? If so I’m struggling to see what the difference is between what you’re describing and standard joint ownership. If a brother and sister are left with joint ownership of their parents house after they’ve died then they both have to agree to sell it before it can be sold, and if one of them dies then the other gets sole ownership don’t they?
That’s a genuine question, I’m not being argumentative, maybe I’m missing something but I can’t see the difference between what you’re describing and what I’d expect when siblings inherit a house from their parents. "
Yes. Inherited from our mother who enjoyed the usufruct after my father predeceased her.
My reference to usufruct, based on old Norman law, is because the property is in the Channel Islands and not the UK. Laws of inheritance are completely different there. For example there are separate wills for real estate and for other assets. It is a complicated system and was designed to keep widows in a family property, among other considerations. Hope that explains the somewhat unusual situation.
However, the situation you would 'expect when siblings inherit a house from their parents' in the UK (not sure if Scotland has the same laws) depends on the wishes of the testator and can be much more flexible.
If I die here as a UK resident, only my property over there would be subject to the local inheritance laws. I can leave my estate in England to any one who I like, and I like rather too many of them for any particular one to get very much!
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