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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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"I would love to find a female partner that would be open to this! But it’s very rare unfortunately
Pretty much impossible "
Its not impossible, I have three friends who are women and they seem to like it when I present fem. Never give up on looking because you just need to look in the right places. |
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As with everything in life, people are interested in you. How you are, what you talk about, what hobbies and interests you have.
The X dressing aspect would be a part of it, but if you make it all of it. Then that's were disappointment lies. People are usually open minded and happy to try things gradually. They can be overwhelmed if, you bombard them with something that is front / centre.
People fall in love with the person...
Do you have shared interests?
Would you go to the cinema, pub / club / concert etc.
But if your all about "dressing", then its hard for another person to see beyond that perhaps.
Certainly something worth considering.
M and M |
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As with everything in life, people are interested in you. How you are, what you talk about, what hobbies and interests you have.
The X dressing aspect would be a part of it, but if you make it all of it. Then that's were disappointment lies. People are usually open minded and happy to try things gradually. They can be overwhelmed if, you bombard them with something that is front / centre.
People fall in love with the person...
Do you have shared interests?
Would you go to the cinema, pub / club / concert etc.
But if your all about "dressing", then its hard for another person to see beyond that perhaps.
Certainly something worth considering.
M and M"
That’s very true and as a cross dresser it’s easy to get bogged down in the fact of- would she be ok with my dressing, then it feels like that’s the only thing that matters to a certain degree. Obviously it’s not though and all those other things you mention are crucial in any relationship. also it’s understandable that a biological woman has the strong draw to a manly man, strong capable good diy’er can manage the home and be that all round manly man and not jumping in fear of a spider or a mouse! Lol.. well I would typically be that man, just enjoy getting dolled up too   and it’s hard for a lot of women to see their manly man go this route, it’s almost as though it makes them less manly(understandable obviously) so it’s a very special lady that can look past all this and accept a person for who they are and enjoy it too x |
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By (user no longer on site) 49 weeks ago
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There is no doubt that having a TV partner is certainly not going to be without its challenges and problems even when you are fully on board with it.
There are times you are living with two different people and you don’t always get the one you want .
There are mood swings, doubts, guilt, times when you long for normality.
But mostly you’re happy your partner felt they could confide in you this huge secret that had destroyed so much in their past. There’s no need for lies or deception.
And being on fab gives you so many opportunities ordinary life can’t. |
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Sure I agree it’s not going to be smooth sailing, but what relationship doesn’t have some kind of challenges to it, I would imagine from my own position that we would possibly be more empathetic, sensitive by nature to our partners possibly more understanding even,that could be a push but I’m only speaking for myself here!
It’s interesting that you see it as two different people, would it not be the same person? Just dressed differently, for me I feel I’m still the same me, ok I might walk a little different when I’m in my favourite heels or feel sexier as I’m wearing my favourite outfit but my opinions/morals don’t change..
Don’t get me wrong I hope I’m not coming a across strong and actually loving being able to discuss this with you 
Omg, for me anyway the only way is honesty and thats why it’s such an important thing to get right from the start and one’s partner is totally secure in the part “Gloria” might play in her life, it’s just as important for her and her needs desires need to be met equally. It’s all about give and take, neither one can out weigh the other
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"I would love to find a female partner that would be open to this! But it’s very rare unfortunately
Pretty much impossible "
Definitely not impossible. I've had three long term relationships with women who knew and were open to my dressing |
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Really, wow.. may I ask’ was it out there from the start or further into the relationship when you brought it up?
How did the xdressing work, did you dress most days/evenings ? Go out in public?
Apologies for the questions but I’m just interedted  |
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Every minute of the day and night including work.
I find most people couldn't give a dam . For me it's all about how you present yourself to the general public. Average dress style/make up when you're out and about |
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Must be lucky then as L loves me being dressed. It's become common practice for me to be dressed and as such it's just part of daily life. Don't have to worry if doing it too much, guilt and no need to hide the fact. Makes for very easy and relaxed relationship |
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"Must be lucky then as L loves me being dressed. It's become common practice for me to be dressed and as such it's just part of daily life. Don't have to worry if doing it too much, guilt and no need to hide the fact. Makes for very easy and relaxed relationship "
You are definitely lucky you have a partner that loves it as equally as you. |
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"It was from the start, from meeting online (AOL back "in the day, or fabs) And it wasn't all the time. Few times a month, and occasional club visits "
Ok wow that’s pretty cool. I haven’t been to a club yet myself and I feel that is the next big step for me! |
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"Every minute of the day and night including work.
I find most people couldn't give a dam . For me it's all about how you present yourself to the general public. Average dress style/make up when you're out and about "
Wow Rosie that really great for you, your happy out enjoying life and it’s really great that nobody is actually bothered and more importantly your not bothered. It’s just amazing |
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"It was from the start, from meeting online (AOL back "in the day, or fabs) And it wasn't all the time. Few times a month, and occasional club visits
Ok wow that’s pretty cool. I haven’t been to a club yet myself and I feel that is the next big step for me!"
Second this, it’s just hotel rooms currently for me.  |
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"It was from the start, from meeting online (AOL back "in the day, or fabs) And it wasn't all the time. Few times a month, and occasional club visits
Ok wow that’s pretty cool. I haven’t been to a club yet myself and I feel that is the next big step for me!
Second this, it’s just hotel rooms currently for me. "
That can get expensive! Can you not dress at home in comfort? |
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"It was from the start, from meeting online (AOL back "in the day, or fabs) And it wasn't all the time. Few times a month, and occasional club visits
Ok wow that’s pretty cool. I haven’t been to a club yet myself and I feel that is the next big step for me!
Second this, it’s just hotel rooms currently for me.
That can get expensive! Can you not dress at home in comfort?"
On occasion yes, luckily my work puts me in hotels a fair bit  |
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"It was from the start, from meeting online (AOL back "in the day, or fabs) And it wasn't all the time. Few times a month, and occasional club visits
Ok wow that’s pretty cool. I haven’t been to a club yet myself and I feel that is the next big step for me!"
Do it, it’s scary and exciting the first time. But I’ll guarantee the drug will not wear off and you’ll want to experience it again.
I remember my first time walking down a street in heels to a meet above room above a pub. Not long afterwards out with a few girls around the pubs and bars of the gay village in Manchester.
Once you’ve taken that first step out into the World you’ll not regret it.   |
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Do it, it’s scary and exciting the first time. But I’ll guarantee the drug will not wear off and you’ll want to experience it again.
I remember my first time walking down a street in heels to a meet above room above a pub. Not long afterwards out with a few girls around the pubs and bars of the gay village in Manchester.
Once you’ve taken that first step out into the World you’ll not regret it. "
I too remember my first night out, and being almost dragged out of my room by a girl who knew farrr better than me there was nothing to fear …. that too was on Canal Street. I too was enjoying the night out in a short period of time in the company of some amazing girls .. and do it began! Xx
R xxx |
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"The married kinky fb friend to see always makes me wear her knickers and stockings anyone else women likes man to dress in lingerie it's massive turn on must admit "
We didn’t get it but then met a sexy man dressed In lingerie
Can’t get enough now |
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