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A lot of women / wife’s don’t suck cock and men just accept it??
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Obviously this is a swingers site so probably doesn’t accurately reflect the population as a whole but I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this, why it’s not discussed, at what point in the relationship women just lose interest in doing it?
I absolutely love sucking cock and I’m not trying to shame women who don’t enjoy giving blowjobs at all. Each to their own I’m genuinely just curious whether it was discussed in the dating stage or whether a lot of women just naturally stop doing it after marriage or long-term relationships and the reason she may have for it and also why men just accept it maybe cause they still get a good fuck or she has other qualities that overcome it?
Obviously I’m not saying all women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs and the replies from a swinging forum aren’t going to naturally reflect the typical relationship but I do find this so fascinating as it seems quite common for men to be missing out on blowjobs from women which is why they seek them elsewhere (more and more so from men and TV’s who enjoy sucking cock more).
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I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
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"I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
Mrs "
Spot on. Give and take. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Many men don't like going down on a woman, or won't so why should the woman do it for her man?
It is a two way street.
Plus, let's not forget different strokes for different folks. Not everyone is the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The amount of guys who don't give oral is also shocking.
So for me personally I like sucking cock almost as much as pussy, almost haha but if people don't want to that's their business and they have their reasons. Maybe these husbands who are on fabswingers telling people my wife wont suck my cock are arseholes , we don't know or maybe it's a line to get a blow job ha |
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By *rNightMan
over a year ago
Coventry |
A work colleague that I was playing with rules out giving oral very early but made it clear she would be happy to receive. It didn’t stop us being playful for a couple of years but I always hoped she’d change her mind but she never did. |
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"Obviously this is a swingers site so probably doesn’t accurately reflect the population as a whole but I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this, why it’s not discussed, at what point in the relationship women just lose interest in doing it?
I absolutely love sucking cock and I’m not trying to shame women who don’t enjoy giving blowjobs at all. Each to their own I’m genuinely just curious whether it was discussed in the dating stage or whether a lot of women just naturally stop doing it after marriage or long-term relationships and the reason she may have for it and also why men just accept it maybe cause they still get a good fuck or she has other qualities that overcome it?
Obviously I’m not saying all women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs and the replies from a swinging forum aren’t going to naturally reflect the typical relationship but I do find this so fascinating as it seems quite common for men to be missing out on blowjobs from women which is why they seek them elsewhere (more and more so from men and TV’s who enjoy sucking cock more).
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Kissing and going down are a must - both ways.
That's why always good to know and trust the person before.
Otherwise no fun."
It's not a must ffs someone doesn't want to they don't want to. I don't always enjoy receiving oral it's not a must and kissing I don't care about |
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Many reasons for sure. For me if someone is unwashed, forcing my head ( I hate that), horrible tasting cum, entitled behaviour. Mostly, I need to feel relaxed and comfortable, with him letting me lead. This post appears trans-chauvanist as some men have no intention of getting a woman to orgasm regardless of what they say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped sucking cock a long time ago, yes I was married at the time and there were reasons behind it that I won't divulge but as a result I've totally gone off oral both ways. I make it known before I meet anyone new, if they are okay with it, great and if they aren't, we don't meet. I won't be pressured in to doing something I'm not comfortable with.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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J will give me a BJ if I want one and it does blow my mind as she’s great at it!
but I’m much happier pleasing her orally and making her cum then I’m interested in getting mine, to the point I don’t mind if I don’t get mine! (Yes I’ve been called a odd bloke before and my mates do take the piss , but it’s just how I am)
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" I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this
And you believe them bc?"
Men tell the truth perhaps |
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"I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
Mrs
Spot on. Give and take."
 definitely give and take and not necessary just oral, nothing more off putting or confidence fucking than someone else not making any effort in return |
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" I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this
And you believe them bc?
Men tell the truth perhaps"
Yup, every single word that passes their lips |
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over a year ago
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I absolutely love sucking cock, but never really properly enjoyed it until I got with Mr. Just something about the way we connect that makes it better, I reckon.
While I appreciate everyone has different sexual wants and needs, I guess it depends on whether or not people are happy to compromise if their partner doesn't enjoy giving head. I know some guys just go looking elsewhere for it, and I feel that's disrespectful to their relationship unless it's a shared experience with their partner in some way
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The amount of guys who don't give oral is also shocking.
So for me personally I like sucking cock almost as much as pussy, almost haha but if people don't want to that's their business and they have their reasons. Maybe these husbands who are on fabswingers telling people my wife wont suck my cock are arseholes , we don't know or maybe it's a line to get a blow job ha"
Can't imagine a guy that wouldn't want to go down for a woman (unless gay of course) personally I love it (I have to admit my ladies does have quite a sweet taste!) |
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"I absolutely love sucking cock, but never really properly enjoyed it until I got with Mr. Just something about the way we connect that makes it better, I reckon.
While I appreciate everyone has different sexual wants and needs, I guess it depends on whether or not people are happy to compromise if their partner doesn't enjoy giving head. I know some guys just go looking elsewhere for it, and I feel that's disrespectful to their relationship unless it's a shared experience with their partner in some way
Mrs "
Very disrespectful to the one they supposedly love especially if on here. There shouldn’t be any need to hide any sexual needs and wants even if there are some experiences they would rather do separately. being honest is key for any healthy relationship not carrying on behind someone’s back which sadly many still do  |
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over a year ago
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"I stopped sucking cock a long time ago, yes I was married at the time and there were reasons behind it that I won't divulge but as a result I've totally gone off oral both ways. I make it known before I meet anyone new, if they are okay with it, great and if they aren't, we don't meet. I won't be pressured in to doing something I'm not comfortable with.
Pxx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never understood the premise of a blowjob being some kind of favour or quid pro quo arrangement. Oral either way is pretty shit unless the person giving it actually enjoys doing it.
We spent the first 15 years of our marriage blowjob free, because I’m too sensitive, and Pumpkin had major insecurities about how good she was at it, so we never bothered. Now she’s found her confidence, she really enjoys it, she sucks as much dick as she likes, and thanks to Fab, it doesn’t have to be mine
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I love sucking cock and do it as much for my own pleasure, as the other guys. So I turn I only enjoy recieving oral if my partner is getting off on it.
When they are genuinely hungry for your cock and cum it's mind blowing. But if they're just going through the motions to please you, then it's less gratifying than a normal wank! |
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By *olf and RedCouple
over a year ago
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"people often don’t tell the truth in here so don’t always believe them when they say they’re not getting any. "
This
I enjoy giving a bj to someone else whilst Wolf watches. Adds a different spin to the proceedings. 
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Morning 
Yes, I Nilly hear this often with regular friends. I find it a shame, often women sell themselves when dating, the perfect partner, marry or settle down and boom life changes, this seems to be women more than men  |
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By *zanyCouple
over a year ago
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I have been lucky enough to have only met one women who did not give a blow job. That was on a social where she kept insisting that my partner give her partner one as she did not do it. Virtual the whole time chatting to them was that if we met then that had to be done. Did not meet them again as my wife did not like the fact that that was a demand. We luv bj ‘s but has to be right |
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"Obviously this is a swingers site so probably doesn’t accurately reflect the population as a whole but I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this, why it’s not discussed, at what point in the relationship women just lose interest in doing it?
I absolutely love sucking cock and I’m not trying to shame women who don’t enjoy giving blowjobs at all. Each to their own I’m genuinely just curious whether it was discussed in the dating stage or whether a lot of women just naturally stop doing it after marriage or long-term relationships and the reason she may have for it and also why men just accept it maybe cause they still get a good fuck or she has other qualities that overcome it?
Obviously I’m not saying all women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs and the replies from a swinging forum aren’t going to naturally reflect the typical relationship but I do find this so fascinating as it seems quite common for men to be missing out on blowjobs from women which is why they seek them elsewhere (more and more so from men and TV’s who enjoy sucking cock more).
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Well if their wives aren't giving them BJ's I'm not sure they have much choice but to either put up with it or leave have they, it's wrong to force someone to do what they really don't want to do! |
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A lot of my ex girlfriends / wife actually didn't want me going down on them, despite many offers. Thing is they then assumed because they didn't want me to then they didn't have to on me. Got reduced to be a birthday treat which eventually dried out as well.
Based on that I think it's more the expectation of reciprocity that puts women off - maybe they're not happy with anyone seeing their pussy (let alone lick it) so they don't give oral and expect it to not be a thing at all? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love sucking cock  and been told I'm good at it a few times 
I don't expect to receive oral in return, in fact I'd rather not as I don't really like receiving  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Layla’s fantasy is to suck two cocks at once lol. Often sucks my cock with a dildo in her mouth too. Got pics to prove it lol "
I’ve done this and it’s so hot  the two men thought so too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great post!
I experienced this when married (not the reason for divorce)
I went down on her all the time, every time we had sex it would start with me going down on her, but she never made the effort to do it to me, hardly ever used her hand on me either, I’d occasionally get a blowjob if she was a bit d*unk but I had to ask for it, she’d never willing pleasure me like that even though I constantly did it to her.
I have many friends in the same situation, there wifes simply don’t do it unless it’s a ‘special occasion’ |
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There are so many reasons why a woman might not want to give BJs. Maybe it’s just that they don’t want to give them to their partner? I love giving them but i have to be really turned on to do it so I wouldn’t do it just because I felt like I should. So if I’m not mentally stimulated then I wouldn’t be inclined to do it.
Equally I love receiving but what gets me going with that is knowing how much a guy wants to devour my pussy. If I feel like he’s not really that bothered then it wouldn’t be the same and I’d rather not have it.
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"Great post!
I experienced this when married (not the reason for divorce)
I went down on her all the time, every time we had sex it would start with me going down on her, but she never made the effort to do it to me, hardly ever used her hand on me either, I’d occasionally get a blowjob if she was a bit d*unk but I had to ask for it, she’d never willing pleasure me like that even though I constantly did it to her.
I have many friends in the same situation, there wifes simply don’t do it unless it’s a ‘special occasion’ "
I had an ex like that once. I just stopped going down on her and just went into sex instead. Within 3 weeks she was going off about lack of oral on her. Within another 3 weeks I sacked the whole relationship off as she was extremely one sided and It was illogical to continue.
Wouldn’t waste my precious time now with people incompatible sexually .
Sex is meant to be fun and mutual imo , when things become one sided for seemingly no apparent reason that’s when problems start. Usually with one person seeking it elsewhere ..
I met guys before who got no oral and women from men, when j asked more about that they gave me another angle of view as to why they cheat for this act.. simply was a means to establish nothing was wrong with them there hence a partner not wanting to engage ..
Most issues can be sorted by communication I like to think to reach understanding or a point of leaving .. seems many people today are just socially awkward at expressing themselves unfortunately
Now with a random one off shag from fab well you live and learn just don’t meet them again if it’s a problem . |
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I adore giving oral, love giving a bj. But from my experience, most men expect me to warm them up with a bj but then skip my part. It depends completely on how the other person is. I don't give to receive but I like a but if enthusiasm from the other person. I am put off my quiet men or rough men. I love going at my own pace and if I can't be granted that, then I lose interest.
However, I do think that communication is lacking. It a bj is important and you make that clear, but the other person makes it clear that they aren't interested, you guys are compatible.
Finally, I find a lot of the time with regular partners that it becomes clinical with the oral, I lose interest because I feel like there is no appreciation, which in turn stops me wanting to please the other person. |
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"Obviously this is a swingers site so probably doesn’t accurately reflect the population as a whole but I get so many messages from men telling me their wives / girlfriends don’t suck cock and they miss blowjobs but I’m just curious why men just seem to put up with this, why it’s not discussed, at what point in the relationship women just lose interest in doing it?
I absolutely love sucking cock and I’m not trying to shame women who don’t enjoy giving blowjobs at all. Each to their own I’m genuinely just curious whether it was discussed in the dating stage or whether a lot of women just naturally stop doing it after marriage or long-term relationships and the reason she may have for it and also why men just accept it maybe cause they still get a good fuck or she has other qualities that overcome it?
Obviously I’m not saying all women don’t enjoy giving blowjobs and the replies from a swinging forum aren’t going to naturally reflect the typical relationship but I do find this so fascinating as it seems quite common for men to be missing out on blowjobs from women which is why they seek them elsewhere (more and more so from men and TV’s who enjoy sucking cock more).
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I could never be in a relationship and not get a blow job |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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F loves to give bjs, I'm not overly bothered by them, I'd much rather go down on her but she's not bothered by that either  so I guess we both are eager to please eachother |
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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago
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It's strange if me & wife have sex as husband € wife she doesn't suck me off.
However whenever we roleplay me being her boyfriend she meets wit hubby knowing she readily drops to her knees & socks her boyfriends cock
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I'll just throw this out there....
If a woman was previously willing to suck your cock/have filthy kinky sex etc etc, once upon a time....
But isn't willing to now....
Then perhaps it's time to admit that there is a reason for that!
Find out the reason then address the problem....
Chances are, normal service will be resumed!
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"Great post!
I experienced this when married (not the reason for divorce)
I went down on her all the time, every time we had sex it would start with me going down on her, but she never made the effort to do it to me, hardly ever used her hand on me either, I’d occasionally get a blowjob if she was a bit d*unk but I had to ask for it, she’d never willing pleasure me like that even though I constantly did it to her.
I have many friends in the same situation, there wifes simply don’t do it unless it’s a ‘special occasion’ "
Just as frustrating when it’s the women has to always start it and doing all the work |
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"Great post!
I experienced this when married (not the reason for divorce)
I went down on her all the time, every time we had sex it would start with me going down on her, but she never made the effort to do it to me, hardly ever used her hand on me either, I’d occasionally get a blowjob if she was a bit d*unk but I had to ask for it, she’d never willing pleasure me like that even though I constantly did it to her.
I have many friends in the same situation, there wifes simply don’t do it unless it’s a ‘special occasion’
Just as frustrating when it’s the women has to always start it and doing all the work "
I’m sure it is, Iv never experienced this though as I’m always first to give |
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"I'll just throw this out there....
If a woman was previously willing to suck your cock/have filthy kinky sex etc etc, once upon a time....
But isn't willing to now....
Then perhaps it's time to admit that there is a reason for that!
Find out the reason then address the problem....
Chances are, normal service will be resumed!
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Pretty much my point too |
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over a year ago
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"I absolutely love sucking cock, but never really properly enjoyed it until I got with Mr. Just something about the way we connect that makes it better, I reckon.
While I appreciate everyone has different sexual wants and needs, I guess it depends on whether or not people are happy to compromise if their partner doesn't enjoy giving head. I know some guys just go looking elsewhere for it, and I feel that's disrespectful to their relationship unless it's a shared experience with their partner in some way
Mrs
Very disrespectful to the one they supposedly love especially if on here. There shouldn’t be any need to hide any sexual needs and wants even if there are some experiences they would rather do separately. being honest is key for any healthy relationship not carrying on behind someone’s back which sadly many still do "
This is one of the many things I love about Mr - we have open and honest communication and trust about everything, from the mundane day to day stuff to our wildest sexual desires and fantasies. We never feel that we can't talk to each other about things, and I've never had that with anyone else before. I love the fact that we randomly got talking about swinging one night as it had brought us closer.
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"Great post!
I experienced this when married (not the reason for divorce)
I went down on her all the time, every time we had sex it would start with me going down on her, but she never made the effort to do it to me, hardly ever used her hand on me either, I’d occasionally get a blowjob if she was a bit d*unk but I had to ask for it, she’d never willing pleasure me like that even though I constantly did it to her.
I have many friends in the same situation, there wifes simply don’t do it unless it’s a ‘special occasion’ "
I genuinely think some women are conditioned to believe that sex is just a thing you do with your partner to keep him happy and make babies. When I realised I actually loved sex and exploring my sexuality, I felt like such a freak and thought there was something wrong with me - women aren't meant to love all things sexual and experimenting with sex lol. Then I got with Mr and we ventured into the swinging lifestyle...and suddenly it was like everything made sense. So, yeah - I think there just needs to be more openness about sex for genuine pleasure - rather than it being seen as an obligation
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I’ve only known two women happy to give me a bj to the point of me ejaculating. The last time I came from a bj was 2017. I don’t cum easily from oral stimulation, so most just give up. It is what it is, I just accept I’m like one of those women who doesn’t squirt… |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love it…but…if the guy I was with was unable to help being forceful/pushing head down etc then that would be his last bj x Tbh I’d run for the hills but that’s another convo |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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It's a personal preference, everyone know what they like and don't like doing .. going through the menapauses sometimes effects this , I have to admit I use to think nothing of sucking a cock,but now it's are they sti clean . And it's horrible with a condom on |
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I love giving head to serious/ dating partners.
Rarely do it on here and on clubs even rarer! I’ll only do it with condoms for fab/ clubs guys so it’s definitely better to just skip!
Obviously don’t expect it it return, and I actually hate receiving so often works well lol |
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I think sometimes woman can sell you a dream without realising they are doing it, then really they aren’t as sexual or as into it as they made out, I could never get sucked and not go down on a woman, but a woman would think nothing of it and as gent you don’t want to feel like your forcing someone you actually want them to want you so you just do without .
For me pleasing a woman is part of my torn on where as I don’t think a lot of woman care to make the effort, ( woman outside of the lifestyle) . |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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People don't have to do anything if they don't enjoy it men or women. Plenty of people don't enjoy giving oral or recieving it. If it's an issue they should talk about it.
I wouldn't give my first serious boyfriend a BJ cos his cock smelled because he never washed it right,it put me off giving BJ's for ages because I thought that was what cocks smelled like.
Plus on here some people lie as well to try and boost your ego or for you to feel sorry for them. I tend to try and see through the bullshite rather than fall for it. After a while it's pretty easy to see what is lies or truth.
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"It's a massive part of sex life for me I love my cock being sucked but I love licking pussy equally .. couldn't be in a relationship with those factors missing "
Yep. Totally agree. I had my cock sucked for 22 years of marriage then she said, "she didn't like doing those things anymore!"
I left her and have never had so much fun in my entire life than I've had in the past three years.
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"It's a massive part of sex life for me I love my cock being sucked but I love licking pussy equally .. couldn't be in a relationship with those factors missing
Yep. Totally agree. I had my cock sucked for 22 years of marriage then she said, "she didn't like doing those things anymore!"
I left her and have never had so much fun in my entire life than I've had in the past three years.
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There’ll be plenty of factors as to why people aren’t compatible sexually - I’ve been in a few relationships where the balance hasn’t been right.
Talking about wants and needs seems logical now but sometimes in relationships the stall gets set out at the start and it’s hard to change or talk about your desires.
Now, in my relationship with C we are much more open about everything and that helps sexually…we both want the same things and work at pleasing each other and making each other feel sexy…now sex is like a tap, which can’t be turned off…oral is constant and I’m not complaining one bit 
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"I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
Mrs "
Yup. Give and take. Without it I don't want to. |
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A previous partner of mine didn’t like giving oral and while she still is the only woman I’ve ever met that didn’t, I didn’t expect her to do anything that she didn’t get enjoyment from. There were still other things to fill the time. |
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I haven't read all the other contributions, so forgive me if this has been covered.
The initial premise seems to suggest that men have some kind of entitlement, or indeed should expect a degree of control over a woman's sexual preferences.
This is plainly abhorrent, not to mention total bollocks.
Or did I miss something? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my ex didn't eat pussy but loved me to suck his cock ...I love cock sucking .... nothing like sucking a nicely shaved cock ....but I did not know what I was missing out on until I met someone after who reciprocated and
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"Pack your bags, leave and join Fab!
Why? In 10 years of being in Fab, I've yet to receive the offer of a bj........from a woman anyway!
Poor guy "
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By *andyrod1Man
over a year ago
St Margaret's at Cliffe |
I have met a few women who were not into sucking cock, one laid her cards on the table straight away and told me, the other started sucking me but l could tell it wasn't her thing so l told her she didn't have to do it if she wasn't enjoying it.
They both enjoyed letting me go down on them, l am really not fussed about getting sucked off but l love going down myself so everyone was happy!
They both liked being rimmed too, a first for both of them. |
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"I have met a few women who were not into sucking cock, one laid her cards on the table straight away and told me, the other started sucking me but l could tell it wasn't her thing so l told her she didn't have to do it if she wasn't enjoying it.
They both enjoyed letting me go down on them, l am really not fussed about getting sucked off but l love going down myself so everyone was happy!
They both liked being rimmed too, a first for both of them."
I have never asked for oral in my life. I’d always rather go down on her and then straight inside. |
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"I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
Mrs "
Exactly that. I find it such a turn off when men moan about their wives or gfs not doing this or that. To me it's all very childish and I'm sure they don't give oral either or they just reproduce what they see in porn. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love foreplay in all forms so I do really enjoy sucking cock or going down on ladies, I'm not as fussed with receiving it though. I won't say no but I rarely orgasm from it and people can feel a certain way about that. |
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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago
Stafford |
I personally don't enjoy sucking dick but I adore licking pussy. I don't expect anyone to lick me (not something I really enjoy anyway) but I make it clear I don't suck dick. Husband is free to go find someone to gobble his anytime |
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"I personally don't enjoy sucking dick but I adore licking pussy. I don't expect anyone to lick me (not something I really enjoy anyway) but I make it clear I don't suck dick. Husband is free to go find someone to gobble his anytime "
You don't enjoy your pussy being licked not trying to put anyone down but you are not being licked right x |
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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago
Transsexual Transylvania |
Women have no obligation to suck their partners! It's not a case of men just accepting it! In a loving relationship you enjoy what your partner is prepared to do for you, as part of the more extensive collection of positive aspects to them that makes your union worthwhile. To expect them to do something more, that they don't enjoy or feel comfortable with, is to demonstrate a lack of respect. They don't owe you sexual favours. |
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"I would say there is as many women what dnt suck cock as there is men what dnt go down on a woman.
Mr"
I have yet to meet a woman who didn’t enjoy having her pussy licked, and the majority have said that most men won’t lick. For me personally, I love that moment when a woman cums on your face, and she’s either trying to push you away, or squeezing the life out of your head with her thighs, or the best yet; gushing on you |
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By *e13guyMan
over a year ago
Lewisham |
I'm ambivalent about getting mine sucked. It's not often I've been pushed over the edge and let my load go this way. I much more prefer an assertive woman who loves straddling me and not lifting herself from my lips until I have satisfied her.
That said, the best blow job by far was a wife straddling me with her pussy full of cum in the reverse cowgirl position. She was chastising her hubby and directing him sucking me the same time. I couldn't see him but feeling his efforts as she told him what to do was really erotic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've had boyfriends in the past complaining about this, but they never ate my pussy or did anything I like so why should I?!
I actually love sucking the Mr because he loves it, his reactions turn me on like crazy, but he doesn't nag for it, moan if I don't one night.
Nothing more off-putting than being nagged to suck cock, just makes me not want to do it.
Mrs "
Exactly this! Same for any sexual act. Moaning/nagging or begging is such an ick and really unsexy. I would go weeks without sex in previous relationships and then feel awful and apologise because I haven’t ‘put out’ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To us it's part of sex. Sometimes we make make each other cum from just oral, sometimes from penetrative and sometimes from a mixture of both.
We both enjoy giving each other pleasure and blow jobs is a part of that. |
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