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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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There's a fair few on here that do stranger blindfold meets so guess looks doesn't matter, but I've seen odd few profiles where there only looking for blue eyed blonde viking type etc etc so maybe it's 50/50 spilt. |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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Definitely matter to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It does seem people especially single guys seem to think as your on this site, you should fuk anyone regardless of what they look like. Personally we feel there should be a spark and have likes and dislikes. We will always send a face pic to a fab verified couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Faces matter… at least they do to the people to whom I send a face photo and then don’t reply or block me!
For me, face over body, but personality over everything. I have to enjoy being in the persons company. Also, I don’t have a set “type” and am sapiosexual.
Once upon a time a woman here suggested that meant I’d shag anything, whereas the reality is that the attraction is found in lots of aspects of the person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes to us they do and we will send face pics but not just to anyone. we would want to chat a little first before hand to find out if we want to progress that far. We can normally get the feel if they are genuine pretty quick now.
If the other person is not willing to send face pics then we will always find out on the social meet (we always request a social before even thinking about anything )
Both of us would need a little attraction we couldn’t progress if not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes 100% ! My biggest pet hate is when people on here say “a mouth is a mouth” or something gross like that.
Attraction is be very important and the face is a huge part of that |
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If you catch my imagination, if you light up my mind, then, no - face and body shape really doesn't matter to me.
Yes, a pretty face is always pleasing, but it needs to have character, playful nature, etc to really stir my desires.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to be attracted to the man's face, although that doesn't mean he has to be good looking..
I like to send my own face pic early on in the conversation, then if they don't fancy it we won't have wasted each others time... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There's a fair few on here that do stranger blindfold meets so guess looks doesn't matter, but I've seen odd few profiles where there only looking for blue eyed blonde viking type etc etc so maybe it's 50/50 spilt."
My old FWB and I talked about doing something like this, the idea intrigues me, as I feel like I could be missing out of some good physical encounters. Not brave enough. So for now faces matter. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I have to be attracted to the man's face, although that doesn't mean he has to be good looking..
I like to send my own face pic early on in the conversation, then if they don't fancy it we won't have wasted each others time..."
Oh yeah, it just needs to be attractive, not model like. I am certainly not the most beautiful woman on here, so would be hypocritical to want that in return. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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Your pictures on your profile reveal more of your face then most profiles do and you can see that your definitely not ugly so thats why they probably aren't asking to see any face pics, for me personally I'd like to see a face pic as much as I'd like to get to know someone a little first before jumping into bed with them.
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looks are part of the whole deal for us
not fixated by "the perfect" face, (like something from a health and beauty magazine) in fact, far from it, we prefer the more natural look always
not gonna shag a total moose either
somewhere inbetween is good. |
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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so with me I cant take a good selfie and the more natural I try to look the more I hate the photo  |
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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
so with me I cant take a good selfie and the more natural I try to look the more I hate the photo "
This!  |
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I agree - an early swap is helpful in order to avoid wasting time - that said i have had chats where this wasn't the case and by the time the photo arrived it was mostly irrelevant - i.e. my 'required standards' hsd dropped because they seemed so lovely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh yeah, it just needs to be attractive, not model like. I am certainly not the most beautiful woman on here, so would be hypocritical to want that in return."
It's not hypothetical to want the best for you, don't forget you may be the best for them, don't sell yourself short
A good percentage of people sell themselves short but that's normal isn't it, I know I do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm
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For anyone interested this Profanity is known as Bobfoc, or alternatively "Low Resolution Fox"
I tick both boxes, except the body off Baywatch bit |
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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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Yes it does matter you have to have an attraction |
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By *issitCouple
over a year ago
Banbury |
Yes definitely. I have to fancy a face. That said, people you like get better looking somehow, so personality can upgrade a face that otherwise isn’t an instant winner. Bit like going to a restaurant- good service can make up for poor food I think but poor service will always ruin good food somewhat. |
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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago
Pleasuretown |
"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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There has to be attraction of some kind imho.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
Yes it does matter you have to have an attraction "
Definitely agree with this, no matter how fit they are or how big their cock is, there has to be an attraction, so yes, faces do matter! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.  "
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes definitely. I have to fancy a face. That said, people you like get better looking somehow, so personality can upgrade a face that otherwise isn’t an instant winner. Bit like going to a restaurant- good service can make up for poor food I think but poor service will always ruin good food somewhat. "
Love this analogy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s ALL about the face for me, which is shit, when many don’t want to/ can’t show them! Would be so much quicker if everyone just had faces for profile pics! I understand why we don’t, though! |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!"
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!  |
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over a year ago
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes! "
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends! "
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here "
If only!! Have you seen her?! |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?! "
You're both absolute crackers |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?! "
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn!  |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?!
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn! "
Oh thanks.....oh, not me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?!
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn! "
Feel free to slide into my dms anytime. X |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?!
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn!
Feel free to slide into my dms anytime. X"
Super, will do......oh, not me |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?!
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn!
Feel free to slide into my dms anytime. X
Super, will do......oh, not me "
Haha, nice try! X |
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"I’m definitely drawn to faces over bodies. I love eye contact and reading facial expressions. I could be charmed into bed quite easily with eye contact from a handsome or pretty face.
Omg yes! A guy winked at me with such pretty eyes on a date, 10mins later we were back at his hotel!!
Yep. I’m also that easily persuaded with sexy eyes!
I think we should be friends!
Oh aye, ladies only party going on here
If only!! Have you seen her?!
Me!!!? Have you seen yourself!?!? God damn!
Feel free to slide into my dms anytime. X
Super, will do......oh, not me
Haha, nice try! X"
Man can try  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always find it a red flag when people don't care about face. It just makes me feel like they will fuck "anything" "
Exactly this! Like any hole is a goal.
I want to be made to feel like they want me! |
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It’s not being shallow, but it should matter because it’s called attraction, but of course personality is that cherry on top. And that may lead to a social and that would make you think Yes I like him
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"I always find it a red flag when people don't care about face. It just makes me feel like they will fuck "anything"
Exactly this! Like any hole is a goal.
I want to be made to feel like they want me!"
Yes. I want the full package. Face, however, is the most important. Body style is quite unimportant and shallow (yeah, it's fab, I get it), but unless it's a quick fumble, there has to be a rapport  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always find it a red flag when people don't care about face. It just makes me feel like they will fuck "anything"
Exactly this! Like any hole is a goal.
I want to be made to feel like they want me!"
I agree with this totally
Face definitely matters to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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We usually do dogging so tends to be relatively dark, although we like to see a face picture so we know at least attracted. You don't want that regret moment if you catch the looks of them |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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I have just looked at your pictures,
You almost show your face and it is clear that you have a pretty face and that is probably why they have not asked for a face pic.
Sure, there are some who believe in the "You don't look at the mantelpiece when you are poking the fire" brigade, but on the whole I would say most are like you (and me) in needing to fancy the face as well as the body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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I want to see faces. I usually reciprocate. |
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My face was alright in my 20s and 30s. It seems to have taken a weather beaten turn. The people who find me attractive are the ones who talk to me for a little while and find my personality attractive |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Yes they do. I have to want to be able to kiss a face. If I can imagine myself sitting on it? Even better.
Generally my experience is that people *do* want to see my face. Maybe so they can imagine themselves fucking it. |
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"Yes they do. I have to want to be able to kiss a face. If I can imagine myself sitting on it? Even better.
Generally my experience is that people *do* want to see my face. Maybe so they can imagine themselves fucking it. "
I can confirm this theory. |
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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago
Stirling |
Massively - I need to be attracted to someone’s face, I can appreciate a beautiful body but if you don’t have a warm, friendly face with eyes I can get lost in then there’s no attraction for me xx |
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We always send a face picture to profiles we are interested in.
It isn't blind date after all. There is no point chatting only to discover a face pic that there is zero attraction to, and that goes the other way too... The person/couple may not like us
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Massively - I need to be attracted to someone’s face, I can appreciate a beautiful body but if you don’t have a warm, friendly face with eyes I can get lost in then there’s no attraction for me xx"
Exaclty, its the face you're going to be looking at mostly. With a full set of teeth too x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Massively - I need to be attracted to someone’s face, I can appreciate a beautiful body but if you don’t have a warm, friendly face with eyes I can get lost in then there’s no attraction for me xx
Exaclty, its the face you're going to be looking at mostly. With a full set of teeth too x"
Lol, a friend of mine seems to favour men with few teeth!! Never understood at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having a series of "Body off of Baywatch, Face off of Crime Watch" issues atm.
Personally, I need to be attracted to someones face. I can't snog an "ugly" face or have one staring down at me as we are doing the business.
But quite a few guys and couples don't request to see my face... like it doesn't matter to them.
Do faces matter or Is it just me?
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I'm with you on that. I'm not expecting a God but a nice face would be very welcome |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Faces do matter, I cannot sleep with someone that I don't fancy. However I don't need someone to be drop dead gorgeous, I can find all sorts of things attractive about someone. It's about the whole package for me not just the outer shell. |
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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago
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Faces matter to use both, as much and cleanliness. A good smile and sexy eyes always help with attraction. We don’t consider ourselves overly attractive but understand if we aren’t to a person/persons taste due to our looks. |
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Find it depends on situation with me. In a group situation not so much I have found as it’s usually dark in a club and people moving I just tend to notice boobs ass etc
If I am at gay sauna in a tgirl day then it’s really usually just about sucking dick in the steam room or sauna room
Proper meets arranged though yes it’s 1 on 1 so looks face matter |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I constantly get men asking me to meet them without wanting to see my face.. what does that say about the men that message me???  "
That they like your body and at least show the possibility that they won't judge you based on your face?  |
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"I constantly get men asking me to meet them without wanting to see my face.. what does that say about the men that message me???
That they like your body and at least show the possibility that they won't judge you based on your face? "
Shame I don't feel the same way. Face is the most important thing for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I constantly get men asking me to meet them without wanting to see my face.. what does that say about the men that message me???
That they like your body and at least show the possibility that they won't judge you based on your face?
Shame I don't feel the same way. Face is the most important thing for me"
That's perfectly fair as a priority preference. Good luck with finding someone suitable down near you! |
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