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How soon do you share a face pic?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So you are message by someone new, it’s not a bad message but you haven’t picked up that vibe yet (it may come) and they ask for a face picture. Do you send one?
How soon is too soon to be asked? After the first initial message?
I know attraction is key but personally I like to check I’m getting on with someone before I do. There’s factors I consider too, are they meet verified, profile bio, site supporter, photos on profile. I always send one when comfortable. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tricky one , i always send a picture with my messages and their response usually gives me a indication as to if its worth carrying on the conversion, if things are going well I'll probably ask them a few messages in but not make it sound forceful , if they say no then they will send one when they feel comfortable |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.
It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.
Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you get a good vibe and have common ground then we like to exchange face pics , not with single guys though , that gets sent out on the night of the fun , otherwise 2 thirds of fab would have your face pic |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.
It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.
Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion. "
I understand this thinking however as a woman I get 100s of messages. I reply to atleast 10-20 a day. That’s a lot of people with my face pic! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I alway attach one or two if I am messaging someone for the first time.
It isn't blind date, if they don't respond, or say not for us/me, I leave a comment on their file not to message again.
Its important to exchange face pictures early in my humble opinion.
I understand this thinking however as a woman I get 100s of messages. I reply to atleast 10-20 a day. That’s a lot of people with my face pic! "
I understand that also, I have a partner and her account is absolute madness.... However the ice as to be broken at some point. |
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Depends how desperate I’m feeling at that moment…
Ideally, prefer to make sure there’s a potential vibe first. But that needn’t take long, if they know how to write. Two messages plus their profile should be fine.
But so many female profiles say, “face pic with first message!” or suchlike. And when I suggest there should be rapport before sharing they don’t know what I’m talking about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We will share face pics quite early on as being attracted to their face is quite important. That being said, if they’ve sent a message asking for face pics and haven’t attached any themselves, we’re a bit apprehensive about sending them.
Helps you can always set them to delete when read  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mine are visible. I absolutely do understand that people need or want to be discreet.
Like my bio says I'm really not here to make anyone's life difficult but if there is no attraction the conversation is pointless. I want to be attracted to that person and like their personality if one is missing I do not meet. |
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I will only share one if I feel comfortable enough with the person. It rarely happens and takes a long time but then I’m not really actively looking on here. I prefer meeting people on organised socials where you can interact face to face and see if there’s attraction or not. |
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We’ll share relatively early if the profile is quite well verified and they’re obviously in the lifestyle.
We won’t share first with new profiles and will expect some chat first to find out who they are and what they like.
What gets us riled is the people who put in their profile “face pic with first message or we’ll block” and then send us a message without a face pic.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm really not inclined to show my face for a while. Nor do I expect others to. I'm mulling over not showing it at all on here, only when we move to Telegram. |
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It depends on when I feel comfortable enough to send them my pic. Usually this takes a few messages. But I never send a face pic after just receiving one message - well, except for when playing a forum game! |
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"It depends on when I feel comfortable enough to send them my pic. Usually this takes a few messages. But I never send a face pic after just receiving one message - well, except for when playing a forum game! "
exactly this  |
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