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So sick of looking at couples profiles
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's a good reason why most of ours are of Crackling - I'm the one taking the flippin' things!!! There is one of me (without me 'ead) in our public gallery and we point people to it if they care to actually READ our profile....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have pics of us both in private and will happily send them with a PM.
OH does all our photos, we don't let others take pics on their cameras so most of them are of me mrs, but there are some upto date pics of both of us xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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we never trust profiles if only one person is on the photo, even more so if one of them has to take pics in a mirror ... all camera's have timers and are dead easy to use nowadays. |
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"as we're only interested in meeting single fellas dont see the need for pics of my guy  "
exactly as mr only plays with mrs.. potential meets see mr before meet si they know what he looks like.. but we only want single guys and they arent drawn by pics of mr lol |
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"we never trust profiles if only one person is on the photo, even more so if one of them has to take pics in a mirror ... all camera's have timers and are dead easy to use nowadays."
all phones dont though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I hate it when I have a cpl asking me to bring a fem
a) I have no real clue if the fem would;d fancy both
b)there are no pics of him
c)He isnt in my scope of being attractive..I can say he looks 'normal' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry but a lady can take a perfectly good pic too. I am now a couple and we have some of fusion and me in main gallery and plan to take more good pics of him.
IMO as we are a couple we need pics of us both together and seperately.
Fruit *able to take a pic too* |
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as a cpl who joined this site to meet and have sex with other cpls we feel that if you are a cpl looking for cpls as well its only right that you show at least a torso pic in public gallery why would we want to meet and have sex with you if you think your that ugly that you cant offer a pic.
how many cpls would meet another cpl if the profile was all male pics ? |
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If couples want to meet other couples there should be photos of both of them, I think it shows massive disrespect for the women as if they're being traded off and it doesn't matter if they find the guys attractive as long as the guys find them attractive. All the excuses about it being the guy taking the photos won't wash either there can't be many women who aren't capable of taking a half decent photo...even I can do it and if a photo of the woman alone is acceptable then so is a photo of the guy alone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of ours are of miss giggles but as I'm the one taking. The pictures most of the time it's not too surprising ( although there are Afew of us together ) and pictures in our private gallery, I think it's mainly a male thing taking pics so its not too unusual  |
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"as a cpl who joined this site to meet and have sex with other cpls we feel that if you are a cpl looking for cpls as well its only right that you show at least a torso pic in public gallery why would we want to meet and have sex with you if you think your that ugly that you cant offer a pic.
how many cpls would meet another cpl if the profile was all male pics ? "
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"as we're only interested in meeting single fellas dont see the need for pics of my guy
exactly as mr only plays with mrs.. potential meets see mr before meet si they know what he looks like.. but we only want single guys and they arent drawn by pics of mr lol"
thats great for you but as a cpl looking for just cpls we would ignore you anyway (in the nicest possible way ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Honest answer..We couldn't give two figs how people see our profile. If they don't like it there's loads of others for them to trawl through
What's the difference between that and a single man's profile with 18 cock pics?
Very little |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The interesting thing, though, is when I look at our 'Fabbed Stats', there is a quite even spread of Fabs for each of our public gallery pics, with only two exceptions (both of which feature Crackling on her own) and cover all the pics which feature guys in them.
So maybe it's not necessarily shots of the female only which get people looking.... ? 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell you thing that i dont like is when you get single fem and really its a couple ... she is mailing as single most pics just her but in the wings a man ready to jump in ... I am bi and get loads of this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tell her what you want her to take and adjust the zoom ready then get her to take the pic then you crop out all the bits of the wall or the ceiling and load it on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee "
On another site we have a total of 15 pics where 2*3 pics of her, 2*3 pics of us together and 1*3 pic of him.
we have similar here although we're limited currently.
we make use of mirrors for together pictures where possible - it's not at all difficult to get pics of both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
On another site we have a total of 15 pics where 2*3 pics of her, 2*3 pics of us together and 1*3 pic of him.
we have similar here although we're limited currently.
we make use of mirrors for together pictures where possible - it's not at all difficult to get pics of both.
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isn't that five thirds? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ive noticed this also....recently set up a couples profile and although our main pic is of both of us out of 4 public he is only in 1.
but we have 12 uploaded and 3 of them are both an 2 him on his own.
ive seen profiles with dozens of pics and all the female, |
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By *artytwoCouple
over a year ago
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90% of our action takes place in clubs and the rest at parties so if we say we'll meet anyone and they don't like the look of us as a package then they wander away and we all find someone else, no problem. Mrs T is the photogenic one, nearly 700 fabs of just a pair of tits? can't be bad. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then."
i was thinking same dont look if sick .. and single fems profiles can be honey trap too ,, man in the wings to jump in when couple say yes . |
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By * n zCouple
over a year ago
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We have pics of both of us and I too would like to see the male half of a couple, even if just a body shot, or from behind. With a little imagination you can take pics together too, there is a free web site where you can take pics with your web cam, great fun and has some special effects too.
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Females are swing bait, definitely, but for couples who want to meet couples it is a rather short term strategy to keep the male a secret! A couple of body pics of him too helps when you are trying to figure out if there is any attraction, what's the problem? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree, wen we look for sum1 to play wiv i wana see the man aswell but its always woman pics, very nice an all but i would like to see what im getting to. we are new but have added a cpl ov each ov us, face pics private tho xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Females are swing bait, definitely, but for couples who want to meet couples it is a rather short term strategy to keep the male a secret! A couple of body pics of him too helps when you are trying to figure out if there is any attraction, what's the problem? "
But fems with single profile who are married and man in there life doing this too ... having all fem pics its bait too .. to meet at times couples.
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then."
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Females are swing bait, definitely, but for couples who want to meet couples it is a rather short term strategy to keep the male a secret! A couple of body pics of him too helps when you are trying to figure out if there is any attraction, what's the problem? "
You only have one picture of the male in your public gallery though? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If couples want to meet other couples there should be photos of both of them, I think it shows massive disrespect for the women as if they're being traded off and it doesn't matter if they find the guys attractive as long as the guys find them attractive. All the excuses about it being the guy taking the photos won't wash either there can't be many women who aren't capable of taking a half decent photo...even I can do it and if a photo of the woman alone is acceptable then so is a photo of the guy alone.
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It's quite interesting reading the comments from the male halves of couples in this thread. Some say they are ugly. Would it be fair to say that they are agreeing with the above? That as long as the wives are nice looking then they will just have to put up with the blokes being not as attractive, because only the male _iew matters??!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
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right i know we are all diffrent here ..on fab ,Your on a single fem profile and meet with your man ?? and no pics maybe you have on couples profile here.. ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
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I'm right with you there!! I have seen way too many profiles where the woman clearly isn't swinging anymore and it's just the bloke left on the profile. Reported loads but they are still live.
I think there should at least be body shots of the male on a couple's profile, whether in private or public. If it's just the female on show it's just a bit unsavoury to me to be honest. And yes of course each to their own, just saying what I think. |
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
right i know we are all diffrent here ..on fab ,Your on a single fem profile and meet with your man ?? and no pics maybe you have on couples profile here.. ?? "
Aye chris n natalie as it says in my profile and we can also cam together to prove we are real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
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That is where recent validations come into play..
or work towards a cam chat if possible, it's not always. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't consider a couple if there was no pics of the guy.. The torso atleast would do.
From this thread all I'm understanding is either the guy is too ugly or the woman can't hold a camera and press a button |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always want to see what the man looks like in profiles.
A lot of couples it seems men get carried along by a hot woman.nik isn't prepared to take on one for the team.
Couples profiles are best showing both involved |
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"I wouldn't consider a couple if there was no pics of the guy.. The torso atleast would do.
From this thread all I'm understanding is either the guy is too ugly or the woman can't hold a camera and press a button "
Me too, not exactly encouraging for the looks of the guys here or the intelligence of the women lol |
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"We always want to see what the man looks like in profiles.
A lot of couples it seems men get carried along by a hot woman.nik isn't prepared to take on one for the team.
Couples profiles are best showing both involved "
I agree with this, I find it says a lot about the prevailing attitude towards women on this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We both like women so happy to see more photos of them, but agree there should be at least some photos of both partners.
On the other hand the only pictures people take much interest of on our profile are the female ones, but maybe we need to improve the others.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
right i know we are all diffrent here ..on fab ,Your on a single fem profile and meet with your man ?? and no pics maybe you have on couples profile here.. ??
Aye chris n natalie as it says in my profile and we can also cam together to prove we are real "
yes but your here saying most couples only have pic of the fem ? And your a couple with two profiles and one just all fem pics too but saying you never meet alone only as a couple... is that not the honey trap ? I have one profile here i see no point in two as get alot of mail on couples .And have pics of both but meet alone most the time me the fem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't see any reason why there shouldn't be pics of the male too. I know the male form isn't considered as attractive as the female form but still, if you're a couple looking for couples then surely it's mandatory?
Female can't take a picture excuse just seems like chauvanistic bollocks to me. And there's some single guys on here with some great pics they've taken themselves on a timer or whatever. I uploaded some new ones yesterday taken on a phone, with a self timer and using a car mobile phone holder to steady it!
If the guys are too self conscious of how they look then how the hell do they ever manage to get nekkid to play? There is a great post from the other day in the Scotland room with loads of advice on taking pics, check it out.
I am in no way being bitchy in this post, just offering opinion and advice. |
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
right i know we are all diffrent here ..on fab ,Your on a single fem profile and meet with your man ?? and no pics maybe you have on couples profile here.. ??
Aye chris n natalie as it says in my profile and we can also cam together to prove we are real yes but your here saying most couples only have pic of the fem ? And your a couple with two profiles and one just all fem pics too but saying you never meet alone only as a couple... is that not the honey trap ? I have one profile here i see no point in two as get alot of mail on couples .And have pics of both but meet alone most the time me the fem."
I agree with game. Why the single fem profile? You don't meet alone so surely you're a couple? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree that i some form or another (be it privately, firends only or such) that if you're meeting a couple would would want to see pics of them both.
I don't necessarily see that anyone's pics need to be on public display - that's down the choice of the couple in question.
What I do object to are some of the derogatory terms being used and statements being made in this thread about the male halves of couples just because there are no public pictures. |
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee
Don't look then.
Im on this site to look for bi fems and couples, think i would be a bit thick not to look at people i would like to meet who are listed as a couple
My issue is if i was to arrange a meet with a couple i would like to _iew a photo of the male (and fem together if possible) so i can see if the profile is a fake one or the male is still keeping the profile going after relationship breakdown, and also if the meet was to turn sour i would like to know what i have to get away from lol common sense really
right i know we are all diffrent here ..on fab ,Your on a single fem profile and meet with your man ?? and no pics maybe you have on couples profile here.. ??
Aye chris n natalie as it says in my profile and we can also cam together to prove we are real yes but your here saying most couples only have pic of the fem ? And your a couple with two profiles and one just all fem pics too but saying you never meet alone only as a couple... is that not the honey trap ? I have one profile here i see no point in two as get alot of mail on couples .And have pics of both but meet alone most the time me the fem.
I agree with game. Why the single fem profile? You don't meet alone so surely you're a couple? "
Far too much of this going on and it is tiresome at best , at worst dishonest. |
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"Females are swing bait, definitely, but for couples who want to meet couples it is a rather short term strategy to keep the male a secret! A couple of body pics of him too helps when you are trying to figure out if there is any attraction, what's the problem?
You only have one picture of the male in your public gallery though?"
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Yes, but it is a fairly clear pic, that's all I am expecting. There are more in the friends album. |
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We are a couple looking for single males only. I am on public pics (because we are trying to atract men) but we are both on friend only pics. If someone messages us and we get on only then will I add them as a friend so they can see face pics of us both. Our profile states not looking for couples x but we get alot of messages from couples and it always seems to be the man that sends it.  |
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By *andF_funCouple
over a year ago
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We are couple, looking for another couple. We have many photos of both of us, most friends only. Used cam chat many times, flirting and some action (both of us, together).
My complaint is those without any photos, watching but don't have a cam to see them, or the only photos they have are cocks or pussys. Can't lift skirts or drop pants in a restaurant to see if you meet the right couple |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we have pics of both male and female in public, and loads in private, we still get messaged as if its a single fem profile, and if we do we just delete."
same here.
Not to derail the thread too much but this is why we only meet people initially at clubs.
Some of the excuses for not having male pictures on couples profiles are laughable at best.
And as for Bucks Fizz saying their camera never lies, bollocks. |
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over a year ago
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"we have pics of both male and female in public, and loads in private, we still get messaged as if its a single fem profile, and if we do we just delete.
same here.
Not to derail the thread too much but this is why we only meet people initially at clubs.
Some of the excuses for not having male pictures on couples profiles are laughable at best.
And as for Bucks Fizz saying their camera never lies, bollocks. "
well its a 'show my wife/partner off attitude..and the meet is guaranteed'-
obviously there is a different case for lots of types of meets, but for cpl to cpl or cpls for fems...it shouldnt be about the hiddenhubby... after all..its rare to accept single men without pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have pics of both male and female in public, and loads in private, we still get messaged as if its a single fem profile, and if we do we just delete.
same here.
Not to derail the thread too much but this is why we only meet people initially at clubs.
Some of the excuses for not having male pictures on couples profiles are laughable at best.
And as for Bucks Fizz saying their camera never lies, bollocks.
well its a 'show my wife/partner off attitude..and the meet is guaranteed'-
obviously there is a different case for lots of types of meets, but for cpl to cpl or cpls for fems...it shouldnt be about the hiddenhubby... after all..its rare to accept single men without pics "
Yeah but single men are evil!! Especially you Paddy   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"we have pics of both male and female in public, and loads in private, we still get messaged as if its a single fem profile, and if we do we just delete.
same here.
Not to derail the thread too much but this is why we only meet people initially at clubs.
Some of the excuses for not having male pictures on couples profiles are laughable at best.
And as for Bucks Fizz saying their camera never lies, bollocks.
well its a 'show my wife/partner off attitude..and the meet is guaranteed'-
obviously there is a different case for lots of types of meets, but for cpl to cpl or cpls for fems...it shouldnt be about the hiddenhubby... after all..its rare to accept single men without pics
Yeah but single men are evil!! Especially you Paddy "
my wives say am not!!!! and I'm single....in fact...rubbing my clit..am not even a guy!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please .... No more cock pics only, especially as profile pic. If you want my attention, give me something different to look at on here.
Also don't ask for more pics, especially when you aren't willing to post any. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"couple profile with pics of us both here 
The OP is a couple with a single fem profile and no pics of her other half lol so I'm finding her being so indignant quite amusing
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Oh yes, good spot. What a hypocrite! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please .... No more cock pics only, especially as profile pic. If you want my attention, give me something different to look at on here.
Also don't ask for more pics, especially when you aren't willing to post any."
My profile pic is of me eating fire. How much more different do you want to get???
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please .... No more cock pics only, especially as profile pic. If you want my attention, give me something different to look at on here.
Also don't ask for more pics, especially when you aren't willing to post any.
My profile pic is of me eating fire. How much more different do you want to get???
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A pic of you ejaculating flames, then I'd be impressed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Please .... No more cock pics only, especially as profile pic. If you want my attention, give me something different to look at on here.
Also don't ask for more pics, especially when you aren't willing to post any."
Whereas tit pics, 'especially as the profile pic', are very 'different' |
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I dislike the profiles that make excuses like, he doesnt play or she cant take a good picture or he is ugly and does not like being in the pics, or some other lame excuse.
If you are a couple (both attending the meet regardless of who is playing) then you should have pics of you both on.
Stop making excuses and get some pics of the man on. It isnt all about the ladies, if the man is there then he should be in pics too.
Fruit x |
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over a year ago
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee "
..says her who has not one pic up. |
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I remember one couple that we were chatting too and even got to chat on the phone, when we asked to see pictures of him we were immediately blocked.
Were they real you say? yes because they had already had a social with a couple that we know, even that didn't go any further after the meet.
we will be having more photo's taken together just as soon we can.
Would be nice to have a full length one where we are both dressed.
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"I dislike the profiles that make excuses like, he doesnt play or she cant take a good picture or he is ugly and does not like being in the pics, or some other lame excuse.
If you are a couple (both attending the meet regardless of who is playing) then you should have pics of you both on.
Stop making excuses and get some pics of the man on. It isnt all about the ladies, if the man is there then he should be in pics too.
Fruit x"
Well said and we are working on it |
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"I dislike the profiles that make excuses like, he doesnt play or she cant take a good picture or he is ugly and does not like being in the pics, or some other lame excuse.
If you are a couple (both attending the meet regardless of who is playing) then you should have pics of you both on.
Stop making excuses and get some pics of the man on. It isnt all about the ladies, if the man is there then he should be in pics too.
Fruit x"
disagree.. any guy we are planning to meet gets to see mr either on cam or pic or we meet them at a fab social.. no one else needs to see him... what you have to remember is everyone has the right to use the site as they choose.. However we make it very clear the we are 100% straight and will not play with bi men .. even without pics of mr the interest he gets is absolutely ridicous.. why the hell would we tempt more by putting his picture up.. only once we have chatted and decided a meet is on the cards will we send the guy a pic of hubby..after all he aint gotta play with him just be in same area as him.
As for couples well we aint looking for couples so they dobt need to be veiwing our profile and certainly dont need to see pic on mr.
We are here to meet guys only straight ones at that.. nobody else and straight guys aint that bothered what mr looks like.
Yes we are a couple but only fem playing with mr and another we are married and never meet alone so having a single fem profile would be wrong.. and then put us into major catagory with all the liars on the site.. and we explain what we do in our profile...the only ones that really need and should see our pics are the ones we plan to meet oyr pics are not on here for anyother reason. so best leave each to their own pobably.. we arent making excuses.. we are just saying what we do.. and we have no intention of changing it as it works well for us and the people we meet.. whether others like couldnt really care less to be honest as they are not people that we are looking to meet anyway. |
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I guess if I was a single man meeting a couples profile and it is made clear that the lady only is playing bu the man will be there then I as a man (pretending here)would like to be able to _iew a picture of the guy as although the lady part of the couple may be lovely but if the male half of the couple (who wont be playing) scares the shit out of me then as a single guy I wouldnt want to meet them. Even though I he would not be partaking in any sexual activity.
Yes for the person your meeting to see the man part of the couple on cam or via face time on the phone or msn or in person for a drink is essential.
I dislike (to be clear) couples that are both due to play (regardless of if the males are bi or not)that do not have pics of the male part of the couple on the profile. Using the excuses I have previously mentioned.
Surely everyone in the meet should have their feelings respected and all be comfy with everyone else attending the meet?
I am not talking about an OH not ever showing his face before the meet but I do think if BOTh the mr and the mrs are attending the meet and due to play then there needs to be photos on the site of him.
If the Mr is just there to drive the lady to the meet and not play but sit in the local pub while she play with the couple and he doesnt even enter the room then that doesnt matter.
I just think it should be clear on profiles who will be attending, who will be playing and what everyone looks like. Any profiles that do not have that are misleading and making excuses.
If your not looking to meet couple then my point is still purely that a single man meeting any couple regardless of who is playing should feel comfy and have seen pictures of the man or on web cam or socially before the meet.
Single men should be given some respect and their ease during the meet be taken into consideration.
Fruit. |
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"I remember one couple that we were chatting too and even got to chat on the phone, when we asked to see pictures of him we were immediately blocked.
Were they real you say? yes because they had already had a social with a couple that we know, even that didn't go any further after the meet.
we will be having more photo's taken together just as soon we can.
Would be nice to have a full length one where we are both dressed.
(Crackling)"
Crackling, dont know if you have one but a camera stand is a great bit of equipment. Fusion has one and he gets it all set up and I pose while he adjusts the zoom and all that stuff, then he runs into the frame after clicking the self timer and hey presto. Otherwise use books on a table to get the height right and again use the self timer.
Next time your both going out together get one of the kids to get a pic before you go out all dressed up (no idea how old any kids maybe) but ask a mate in the pub to take a pic of you both on your camera or camera phone.
I am a believer where there is a will there is a way.
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"I guess if I was a single man meeting a couples profile and it is made clear that the lady only is playing bu the man will be there then I as a man (pretending here)would like to be able to _iew a picture of the guy as although the lady part of the couple may be lovely but if the male half of the couple (who wont be playing) scares the shit out of me then as a single guy I wouldnt want to meet them. Even though I he would not be partaking in any sexual activity.
Yes for the person your meeting to see the man part of the couple on cam or via face time on the phone or msn or in person for a drink is essential.
I dislike (to be clear) couples that are both due to play (regardless of if the males are bi or not)that do not have pics of the male part of the couple on the profile. Using the excuses I have previously mentioned.
Surely everyone in the meet should have their feelings respected and all be comfy with everyone else attending the meet?
I am not talking about an OH not ever showing his face before the meet but I do think if BOTh the mr and the mrs are attending the meet and due to play then there needs to be photos on the site of him.
If the Mr is just there to drive the lady to the meet and not play but sit in the local pub while she play with the couple and he doesnt even enter the room then that doesnt matter.
I just think it should be clear on profiles who will be attending, who will be playing and what everyone looks like. Any profiles that do not have that are misleading and making excuses.
If your not looking to meet couple then my point is still purely that a single man meeting any couple regardless of who is playing should feel comfy and have seen pictures of the man or on web cam or socially before the meet.
Single men should be given some respect and their ease during the meet be taken into consideration.
Fruit."
we have pics of mr on site set to private for the purposes of sending to potential meets before meet or not if meeting at a fab social. but not on _iew for eveeyone as no one else needs to see but then my face pics are provate for potential meets only too not for everyone to see as no one else needs to see.. we would not dream of meeting with a single guy without us seeing clear pics of him and him seeing clear pucs of us both.. as its better both sides get chance to back out before any actual meet rather than being awkward at a meet... |
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Its hilarious you hear the same excuses..
1.. High profile job doesn't want to be found out
2.. Mrs doesn't know how to use a camera.
3..Mrs is much nicer to look at
4... Mr doesn't like having his pic taken.
And the list goes on !!!
To be honest its all BS,if your a couple looking for other couples then there should be pics of both..
If Mr was looking to sale hs car would he take a photo of the wifes car to sale it ? |
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I dont think straight guys dont care what the male half of the couple looks like even if the male half of the couple isnt playing.
When I was a single lady and the point I didnt realise I was bi I would ALWAYS want to see a pic of the lady and chat with her even though I wasnt going to be playing with her.
At that point people were always telling me to look after myself and make sure I felt comfy at a meet and protect myself.
I wonder why forums members do not feel the single men should have the same respect as I was given even though I wasnt going to be playing with the women......strange that.
If I didnt get on with the lady in the couple (regardless of if she is playing or not there) I would not meet them.
It sounds to me that the men are not being treated with a similar respect for their feelings as a single lady (me at the time).
I swung alone for about 6 years and was treated respectfully. I hope that other people get the same respect.
O yes, before I forget, anyone feel free to bring out the if you dont like move on, our profile so we do what we like...plus the other comments xxx
Fruit (still suggesting male and female pics be on couples profile regardless of who is playing!) |
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"and ALL the photos are of the fem...honey trap maybe...or your not cam friendly ...but come on fellas put some photos up of you both atleast pleaseeeeeeeeeee "
Plenty on ours |
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