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So you get messaged some abuse, they argue their point, they are ultimately proven wrong and they block.
Is it bad I kinda like it, why start an argument you can't finish, or is it that they don't expect a response because it's the Mrs?
Anyways do you respond to arguements/abuse in the inbox or are you straight to block?
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By *eastXMan
over a year ago
London |
It depends if you feel that the disagreement is a result of miscommunication or plain abuse.
Abusive messages shouldn't even the respect of a response, just ignore/block. However, if I feel there was miscommunication, I elaborate and then reassess based on the nature of the interaction. |
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It depends upon the context of the argument/discussion. Some people may not be worth the time, if they are totally ignorant and hateful and take too much energy. On the other hand, may be worth educating because they may not have web or experienced things on the other side of the topic they’re talking about, or may have misread or misinterpreted data. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends, I sometimes ignore, I sometimes express.
I see it as, their actions/words are a reflection upon them, my actions/words a reflection upon myself. |
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"I like to hear other view points and try to understand why a person thinks the way they do, so I often entertain them until it becomes actually abusive."
Yes I was entertaining it while trying to show with proof that in fact they were incorrect, then barrage of abuse and blocked before I even had a chance to respond.
It's kind of nice to know they had nothing of importance to respond, maybe a sorry I was incorrect but this is fab after all.
Still it made my coffee slightly more entertaining.
Mrs
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No have had abusive messages of women as well as men
I tend to always ignore and move on as most just tend to be abusive straight away
Don’t usually end up adding fuel to fire  |
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"I usually block beforehand, so they are unable to send any, especially if I see the potential ones coming from certain forum threads.
Just another handy tool to use, I guess. "
Pre blocking I like this!
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"Abuse, report and block.
People telling me I'm wrong. Ignore.
People with a coherent and informed opinion at odds with mine, respectfully articulated. Friend request.
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This. 
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*except the friends request bit. 
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"No have had abusive messages of women as well as men
I tend to always ignore and move on as most just tend to be abusive straight away
Don’t usually end up adding fuel to fire "
Yes it's definitely not one sex over the other, I guess my opinions on forums are very blunt so I do expect the odd one  |
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"Abuse, report and block.
People telling me I'm wrong. Ignore.
People with a coherent and informed opinion at odds with mine, respectfully articulated. Friend request.
This.
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*except the friends request bit.
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Yeah I meant to   after but I'd already had to re-type once . |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
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Any abusive messages would lead to the account being reported and blocked immediately. At the end of the day, we're all here for a good time and nobody deserves to be abused.
Sounds like you had a good ol' keyboard warrior with a blunt sword who realised they were wrong and didn't have the self-reflective capability to take that fact on!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So you get messaged some abuse, they argue their point, they are ultimately proven wrong and they block.
Is it bad I kinda like it, why start an argument you can't finish, or is it that they don't expect a response because it's the Mrs?
Anyways do you respond to arguements/abuse in the inbox or are you straight to block?
Mrs "
Delete the first abusive message. Block. Forget.
Life’s too short. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to reply
‘if you need to paint me a certain way to feel better that’s ok but it’s nothing to do with me so time to block but take care and I hope you feel better soon’
Then block, it’s probably passive aggressive but I only use it if pushed so meh |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had it a few times someone messages you so they can fuck you but you message back saying not for us and we get abused and blocked hahaha.
Then we've had it where you get sick of messaging back saying not for us and they send another message back with abuse and block us hahaha.
we never get to put our abuse in lol alot on here think because its a swinging site that you will just meet anyone and let them fuck you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We haven't got the time to sit on fab arguing about some unimportant crap with someone we'll never get to meet and that would be the case with any social media. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve never had to deal with it on here tbh but I feel bad for those who have had it done. It’s not right. I guess I’d block straight away. I feel like getting the last word in and then blocking is what they want and the satisfaction of doing it without the backlash. |
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Depends but mostly ignore and block. I think sometimes they are just looking to get some kind of power by wanting a response. Ignoring & blocking takes that power away & hopefully makes them feel even less of a person than they thought they were. |
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By *opinovMan
over a year ago
Point Nemo, Cumbria |
I don't think I've had any abusive or negative messages here... ever.
There's only a couple on my block list, and they're only there because I got sick of seeing in my update feed the same (gross) photo they posted over and over, day after day, week after week, month after month, year after year... I mean why the same ghastly pic on endless repeat? Sorry, for labouring that point, but it's put me off doner kebabs for life FFS! |
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