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Who provides the condoms?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without  but should we be the provider? |
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"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without but should we be the provider? "
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Good question, I carry my own, nice though it would be if my playmates bring their own condoms I realise I need to be responsible for my own wellbeing.  |
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"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without but should we be the provider? "
Carry a spare ?
We usual bring 10/20/30
You will be surprised how many you go through, swapping between partners etc !
Only a fool would turn up empty handed
And if they did , yhey obviously dont have enough about them to be with us !! |
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"There are condoms for females to just food for thought "
They are a bit strange though, at least they were when I tried them years ago, like a stretchy bag big enough to fit your hand in with a gasket-y thing to hold it inside, it’s like inserting a diaphragm, very fiddly, the internal ring used to really resist insertion and ping out. Definitely a passion killer for me. E |
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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago
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"There are condoms for females to just food for thought
They are a bit strange though, at least they were when I tried them years ago, like a stretchy bag big enough to fit your hand in with a gasket-y thing to hold it inside, it’s like inserting a diaphragm, very fiddly, the internal ring used to really resist insertion and ping out. Definitely a passion killer for me. E"
I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I take responsibility for my own sexual health and prefer latex free ones, so would always prefer to use my own as I know they're reputable, in date, been stored correctly etc...
Having said that, I am always suspicious of people who turn up with none as it makes me wonder and suspect that they are expecting or hoping for bareback... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always ask before a meet if they have got them. I'm happy to buy them if not, but I prefer the guy to, mainly as they know what feels best for them.
I've had guys not bring them before and think I'd just carry on anyway, but they were wrong lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would I trust someone who insists I use their condom? Would I leave my wad of spaff in a wellington cock sock with those whom I have little knowledge? No. Then why would they trust me if I insist on using my own condom?  Tune in next week. |
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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago
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"There are condoms for females to just food for thought
They are a bit strange though, at least they were when I tried them years ago, like a stretchy bag big enough to fit your hand in with a gasket-y thing to hold it inside, it’s like inserting a diaphragm, very fiddly, the internal ring used to really resist insertion and ping out. Definitely a passion killer for me. E
I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them. "
I actually really like them, and most of my partners who’ve tried them have a strong preference for them too. They’re not currently in production, sadly  |
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"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without but should we be the provider? "
Everyone should carry! We always use our own as we know they’re stored correctly and in date! |
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"I take responsibility for my own sexual health and prefer latex free ones, so would always prefer to use my own as I know they're reputable, in date, been stored correctly etc...
Having said that, I am always suspicious of people who turn up with none as it makes me wonder and suspect that they are expecting or hoping for bareback..."
All of this for me
They don’t know i am providing so if they turn up without they just gave it away that they usually play bare |
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"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without but should we be the provider? "
Primarily, I'd say it should be the man who provides the condoms, but I know of a few ladies that are allergic to latex, and therefore they (the ladies) carry some spare non-latex ones just in case the guy they meet spontaneously (such as at an event) isn't already aware of (or prepared for) said allergies. |
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By *JohnMan
over a year ago
Newcastle upon Tyne |
In a club, I have seen condoms being used as a filter for which men to play with. If a man hasn't thought to provide his own, there's a chance he'll be less thoughtful in other ways too.
There are always exceptions, of course. There have been two memorable occasions in which I was happy to donate one of mine - the very likable guy who was doing everything right and had been having a great night and simply ran out.
And the equally likable brand new guy who had intended his first ever time at a club to be purely social - but a friend had taken a liking to him and had other plans...
I always carry more than I expect to need. |
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By *amierebelMan
over a year ago
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"There are condoms for females to just food for thought
They are a bit strange though, at least they were when I tried them years ago, like a stretchy bag big enough to fit your hand in with a gasket-y thing to hold it inside, it’s like inserting a diaphragm, very fiddly, the internal ring used to really resist insertion and ping out. Definitely a passion killer for me. E
I get you, I honestly didn't know the dynamics to them, only recently found out female condoms was a thing so genuinely thank you for a bit of insight into them.
I actually really like them, and most of my partners who’ve tried them have a strong preference for them too. They’re not currently in production, sadly "
Ooooh bit of a conflict on the female ones then. I'd definitely love to try myself with the female wearing one, anything to save feeling like my knobs in a headlock tbh. That's a bit shit if they're not in production though would definitely change the emphasis that a man is the one who should wear a condom. Who knows maybe in the future there will be something different to protect both party's.
Also thank you for your feedback on them aswell  |
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"I always play safe. When arranging a meet I make sure I state that. However in a one to one situation who is expected to pay for protection.? I always carry a spare as I have had men turn up without but should we be the provider? "
Surely both parties will turn up equipped? |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I'd always make sure I take plenty condoms along with me to any event or meet. As the man, I feel its absolutely my responsibility and would never expect anyone else to have to provide them. Not only that, but I have a preference for brand etc so why not just take mine with me 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always bring your own! From my perspective, I know what works for me, and what doesn’t. If anyone else was to provide, likelihood of poor performance increases.
Also, I will never recommend anyone use a condom with lidocaine in the tip, that’s genuinely 4 hours of mine, and her lives we are never getting back, you can never eradicate that pain |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone provides Condoms, stops anything daft.
Oh I forgot to bring them etc
Whenever we have indulged, we brought a bag of stuff with us, this includes condoms (plenty).
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this day and age I think everyone should carry condoms if they are wanting to have safe sex .. simply just as would you trust strangers to have ones in date/not damaged/ nice material etc
I remember some woman once pulled out a ridiculous pack of neon coloured ones , I had to hard swerve on that and use my own .. no way I could take it seriously with a fluro green cock . be like the naked gun ffs
People should be self succinct just in case |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The guy should because they know their penis better than the woman does. As people have said one size doesn’t fit all. I tried regular and they’re too big. I use onesize custom fit because regular is too tight and large is too long |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always have my own selection and lube, don't care who else doesn't but I think it's probably a good idea for everyone to have some then always covered  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If a guy turns up without protection, can you trust him at all?
At the very least, send him out to buy them. He may object, but you can be sure he wants sex more than you do, if only because women here have an abundance of men to choose from. |
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