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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
so a post for cuckold couples who live the cuckold life style 24/7 by this i mean the cuck is always cuck and the wife always has sex else where because the cuck can not please the wife in a sexual manner ..
so are you a full time cuckold couple a real life style cuckold couple ... say hi here
ps this not a dig at anyone else just seeing how many on fab actually live this way for real and not fantasy or just play (again nothing wrong with this) |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
when it all clicks together there is nothing better ... and the sex is mind blowing and we get to tell our cucks all about how mind blowing it really is ..love it indeed..
out of interest do any of you involved full time sph too ??
have you exchange all their boxers and pants for knickers full time ??
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
the idea was born quite early in our relationship we were swinging within 6 months of knowing each other most of our swinging was hot wife and some bi couple play hes always had that submissive vibe when he played with guys he was alway fully sub and add into that he really enjoyed me playing with other guys..
our hotwife play was always borderline cuckolding if he was not watching i would always give him the full details and he alway got massively turned on by it ... everything we do is talked about we are 100% honest with each other the humiliation side of things slipped into place as it massively turned him on more than anything else in fact so it was easy for us ... we;ve always talked from the day we met to now we talk we are very open and honest with each other ..
i guess the process is no different to a couple deciding to swing or take up bdsm we just naturally took the full on cuckold route |
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By *iganpairCouple
over a year ago
Wigan, Lancs. |
We constantly into.sph and explored with knickers n stuff
And yea when all clicks into place with the right guy it feels amazing
"when it all clicks together there is nothing better ... and the sex is mind blowing and we get to tell our cucks all about how mind blowing it really is ..love it indeed..
out of interest do any of you involved full time sph too ??
have you exchange all their boxers and pants for knickers full time ??
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"the idea was born quite early in our relationship we were swinging within 6 months of knowing each other most of our swinging was hot wife and some bi couple play hes always had that submissive vibe when he played with guys he was alway fully sub and add into that he really enjoyed me playing with other guys..
our hotwife play was always borderline cuckolding if he was not watching i would always give him the full details and he alway got massively turned on by it ... everything we do is talked about we are 100% honest with each other the humiliation side of things slipped into place as it massively turned him on more than anything else in fact so it was easy for us ... we;ve always talked from the day we met to now we talk we are very open and honest with each other ..
i guess the process is no different to a couple deciding to swing or take up bdsm we just naturally took the full on cuckold route"
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?"
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love? |
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"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love? "
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women "
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it. |
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"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it. "
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject."
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject. |
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"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject.
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject. "
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject.
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject.
I can ask can't I? This is the forums, people ask all kinds of questions here. "
Yeah, you can ask but try to imagine how it feels for the person you’re asking….imagine how it feels to be questioned like that and asked to justify yourself to people. It doesn’t come across as harmless questions, it comes across as though you’re criticising and judging her, maybe you aren’t but that’s how it comes across. |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
"We've enjoyed the cuck lifestyle for well over a decade, it doesn't involve humiliation, neither does it involve him acting like a "sissy", and he doesn't wear a cock cage.
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and thats fine ..those act are sexual act they are not what defines a cuckold couple they are add ons if you like .... the umbrella the cuckold is a very wide spectrum alot of basic swinging that couples do can be classed as cuckold hotwife play is cuckold stag n vixen they all touch the cuckold life style real or fantasy ... |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject.
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject.
I can ask can't I? This is the forums, people ask all kinds of questions here.
Yeah, you can ask but try to imagine how it feels for the person you’re asking….imagine how it feels to be questioned like that and asked to justify yourself to people. It doesn’t come across as harmless questions, it comes across as though you’re criticising and judging her, maybe you aren’t but that’s how it comes across. "
i really dont mind people asking thats fine ... i think you'll find there are alot more women and men into humiliation than you think from all sexual kinks bdsm sub'dom cuckold sph str8 bi gay its alot more common than we think .. but what you have to try and remember is its what both want its 100% consented and talked about over and over again there no doubts these are people with very strong connections.
ive been married to my husband 32 years now we have between us done everything sexual we've wanted to do we've been on this scene 30 years we are a very solid couple who bounce off each other every single day hes my soul mate my love he is my life if he said tomorrow lets stop then stop we will and the same the other way around ...we do what we like and we've never worried about what others think we just enjoy life after all you only have one ... |
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By *oxy j OP Woman
over a year ago
somerset |
"the idea was born quite early in our relationship we were swinging within 6 months of knowing each other most of our swinging was hot wife and some bi couple play hes always had that submissive vibe when he played with guys he was alway fully sub and add into that he really enjoyed me playing with other guys..
our hotwife play was always borderline cuckolding if he was not watching i would always give him the full details and he alway got massively turned on by it ... everything we do is talked about we are 100% honest with each other the humiliation side of things slipped into place as it massively turned him on more than anything else in fact so it was easy for us ... we;ve always talked from the day we met to now we talk we are very open and honest with each other ..
i guess the process is no different to a couple deciding to swing or take up bdsm we just naturally took the full on cuckold route
How do you know hes turned on if he is permanently limp ? "
if you think being turned on is just a hard on then you really dont know a great deal about what true sex is ??? are you suggesting that all those men who no longer have erections no longer get turned on ?? everyone knows the brain is the main sexual organ |
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For me I like my wife to have the extra attention she can get from having lovers , I like to know she is being a satisfied by having someone else between her thighs happy to be there with her our for her to meet alone we are husband and wife I do not own her needs |
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Reading all the comments above it pretty much backs up what we’ve always thought, in that there’s lots of different faces to cuckolding and what couples seek from a cuckold relationship.
In our case, we’ve been a cuckold couple for nearly all our marriage and we’ve a loving, caring relationship,, Dee love the attention from other guys and has a high sex drive, so I’ve always encouraged her to enjoy herself and I wear a cock cage quite regularly and I can assure people I do get get extremely aroused when she plays with other guys. |
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Full time cuck couple here, he's locked 24/7 and all the sex had since last October has been with other guys.
Love making him dress too as think it adds to dominance over him and even the humiliation. Guys seem to enjoy it as he's seems less threatening all dressed up while we enjoy the fun and sex 
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"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject.
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject.
I can ask can't I? This is the forums, people ask all kinds of questions here.
Yeah, you can ask but try to imagine how it feels for the person you’re asking….imagine how it feels to be questioned like that and asked to justify yourself to people. It doesn’t come across as harmless questions, it comes across as though you’re criticising and judging her, maybe you aren’t but that’s how it comes across. "
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By *uck01Man
over a year ago
Liverpool |
"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject."
I enjoyed my cuckold role in my last relationship including the humiliation, i found it very arousing, i guess if your not that way inclined its difficult to understand but then again there are many sexual kinks that different people enjoy |
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"I'm curious...where did the idea to humiliate a man you love so much come from?
Some men (including me) enjoy being humiliated in certain ways and some women enjoy humiliating men in certain ways, it’s not done in a malicious way with the intention to hurt and upset the other person, it’s fully consensual with agreed boundaries and there’s nothing malicious about it.
My ex Mistress used to laugh at how small mine is, lock it in a cage, dress me in ladies underwear, ban me from touching it…it was all humiliating for me but at the same time I loved it. I was in no doubt that she loved me and respected me even when she was humiliating me.
The way you’ve worded that question seems to indicate that you think it’s wrong for her to humiliate a man she’s meant to love (I’m sure you’ll deny that’s what you meant though) so do you think it’s wrong for someone to tie up someone they love, to spank, whip etc someone they love, to tease and deny someone they love, to partake in any D/s activity that involves impact play, punishment etc with someone they love?
None of those acts are things I understand.
Hence my question about the humiliation. I reckon it's quite out of the ordinary for a large percentage of women
Just because they’re acts you don’t understand and you think they’re out of the ordinary doesn’t mean you have the right to question people who do like it. I’m sure there are straight people who don’t understand how anyone can be attracted to someone who’s the same sex as them so is it ok for them to ask a gay person ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to sleep with someone who’s the same sex as you come from’?….I’m completely atheist and don’t understand how anyone can believe there’s a God who created the universe or that there’s a heaven and hell but I’d never say to someone of faith ‘I’m curious….where did the idea to believe in an almighty God come from’….different people like different things and they shouldn’t be questioned or judged because of it.
She asked exactly what I was thinking. I can understand a woman having higher sexual needs than her husband, but I don't get the humiliation thing and why a woman would want to humiliate her husband.
I can see the appeal in women enjoying sex with other men and vwe, but not humiliating her husband for it.
I think it was a good question. Maybe someone can educate more on the subject.
She wants to humiliate her husband because that’s something they both enjoy, why does she need to explain that to anyone? I enjoy watching football, some people don’t enjoy watching football and can’t understand what’s so enjoyable about it but I’ve never been asked by someone who doesn’t like watching football to justify why i enjoy it.
You can’t question someone for enjoying something just because you don’t understand why they enjoy it and they shouldn’t need to educate people on the subject to be accepted. Just accept that some people enjoy doing things that you wouldn’t enjoy doing…I enjoy being humiliated, controlled, punished….I don’t expect to be questioned about it by people who don’t enjoy it and asked to educate them on the subject.
I can ask can't I? This is the forums, people ask all kinds of questions here.
Yeah, you can ask but try to imagine how it feels for the person you’re asking….imagine how it feels to be questioned like that and asked to justify yourself to people. It doesn’t come across as harmless questions, it comes across as though you’re criticising and judging her, maybe you aren’t but that’s how it comes across. "
So let me just understand this. It is acceptable to humiliate and I would think that a part of that humiliation is criticism cock size, performance, masculinity etc. But when someone asked a completely legitimate question looking to be educated and for understanding in the dynamic. The dominant person who is completely ok with humiliating their loved one is now suddenly humiliated and feeling judged disrespected and hurt by such comments. Which in my opinion the comments were perfectly legitimate and none judgemental but informative seeking. What does that say about about the dominant person? This includes so called bulls. |
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"We've enjoyed the cuck lifestyle for well over a decade, it doesn't involve humiliation, neither does it involve him acting like a "sissy", and he doesn't wear a cock cage.
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