What do you do, do you wink a profile and when they wink back you then message them?
Don’t you bother winking and just message?
Was it is you do to grab someone’s attention in order to message them? |
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"What do you do, do you wink a profile and when they wink back you then message them?
Don’t you bother winking and just message?
Was it is you do to grab someone’s attention in order to message them?"
I wink and if they wink back then I message them and I only attach face pics only with the first message |
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"Depends on the profile 
We'll either wink, fab some photos or message. If we get a wink and we're interested, we would send a message thanking them for the wink and start a conversation x"
i just winked at you x |
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By *lansmanMan
over a year ago
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Im pretty convinced that the site occasionally generates random winks to keep things interesting. I have received winks from profiles that I wouldn't think would be interested in me and who then ignore my return wink or message. |
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If I'm too "tired and over emotional" to make sense in a message, I just send winks to random sexy ladies. Who then ignore me. One day someone will respond and I won't know what to do. Though it would be very nice to find myself right side up, upside down, 69, 96, 66, 99 or any other numbers with a trans loving lady... |
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By *rder66Man
over a year ago
Tatooine |
If I recieve a wink, I will return on. since they initiated the contact I leave it to them to inform me of their interest, I generaly don't chase breadcrumbs but if they do want to message me then, lets see what happens. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone winks us, we wink back and see if they send a message. If we wink first, we see if we get one back and then send a message.
To us it’s a quick way to see if both sides like what they see before messaging  |
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If they wink, we return I'd expect them to message and vice versa.
Sometimes if I'm very interested in the profile and they wink I'll message rather than wink back, depends on my mood and if I've time for a conversation.
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I wink, they wink, I message, no reply.
They wink, I wink,no message.
I use it to indicate I like someone's profile and I might potentialy be of interest to them.
No idea what others use it for but there doesn't seem to be any consistency across the site. Maybe people just keep clicking it accidentally? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like a wink as a bit of an ice breaker, in the hope that they wink back. I see a wink as courteous instead of diving straight into a message "
Same as this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually begin with a wink to gauge any interest.
If I get a response the I will follow up with with a message.
It’s clear that a lot of ladies have overflowing inboxes, so there is no point wasting anyone’s time if there is no connection. |
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Wink to see if there’s a mutual interest and message if I get a wink back
I do also message first after reading a profile if there looks like mutual interest
But I’m never offended if someone winks at me and I’m not interested |
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We use winks to do interest in others and to help breaker the ice. If we get one back, we will then message saying thank you for the response and then start chatting. If we get one and they interest us we wink back no wait to see what happens. If they don’t interest us we normally send a polite message saying thank you but not for us.
But we rarely get winked so none of the above plies |
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"We use winks to do interest in others and to help breaker the ice. If we get one back, we will then message saying thank you for the response and then start chatting. If we get one and they interest us we wink back no wait to see what happens. If they don’t interest us we normally send a polite message saying thank you but not for us.
But we rarely get winked so none of the above plies "
Well you are totally gorgeous and fun, Cannock couple, so I’ll be winking for sure. Agree though message matters. |
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