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Ahh, the painful swing...
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I’ve gone to shh a couple of times now and nothing sexual has happened.. but there’s been a lot of whipping - and I discovered pretty quickly, I don’t have an F’ing clue how to do it!!
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
Northampton |
If dishing it out then start with a soft paddle and communicate clearly with the recipient. They should be more experienced and if at a club speak to some of the regulars for tips.
I like to use the traffic light system for new things like that. Green = I’m fine and could be pushed a little further, Amber = this is about my limit, don’t go beyond it, Red = Stop, too much.
Don’t continually whack the shit out of the recipient (unless they give the all clear. Give them breaks, alternate cheeks, light teasing impacts mixed with the odd whack, stroke with finger tips as the cheeks will be super sensitive (feels amazing).
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The traffic light I get...
(Admittedly, the conversation bit I failed on - I was too reliant on the colours).
Is it normal to rub down after you have stinged , or is that considered too intimate (I really liked it myself) - there are so many unsaid things I’m trying to get but I’m stuck between doing it too hard or too soft as a starting point.
How do I start (cos then I can evolve)  |
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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago
Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds |
"I’ve gone to shh a couple of times now and nothing sexual has happened.. but there’s been a lot of whipping - and I discovered pretty quickly, I don’t have an F’ing clue how to do it!!
ANY advice would be appreciated "
My advice is to find someone to teach you away from a club as that atmosphere is never a good place to learn.
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"If dishing it out then start with a soft paddle and communicate clearly with the recipient. They should be more experienced and if at a club speak to some of the regulars for tips.
I like to use the traffic light system for new things like that. Green = I’m fine and could be pushed a little further, Amber = this is about my limit, don’t go beyond it, Red = Stop, too much.
Don’t continually whack the shit out of the recipient (unless they give the all clear. Give them breaks, alternate cheeks, light teasing impacts mixed with the odd whack, stroke with finger tips as the cheeks will be super sensitive (feels amazing).
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Thank you for the advice here. Great for the inexperienced ! |
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"I’ve gone to shh a couple of times now and nothing sexual has happened.. but there’s been a lot of whipping - and I discovered pretty quickly, I don’t have an F’ing clue how to do it!!
ANY advice would be appreciated
My advice is to find someone to teach you away from a club as that atmosphere is never a good place to learn.
C"
Tempted as I am - there’s a reason why I’m going to the clubs - some of us lack the skills everyone else take for granted |
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