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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No - someone I’ve been seeing for 2 years (on and off) but not officially in a relationship "
It sounds more like domination then. I was under the impression cuckolding is sex with someone else in front of your partner/husband and humiliating them during the act. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I would say more dominatrix than Cuck, but as with any kink, there’s the original then there’s the adapted version. If he wanted to feel like he was a cuck maybe sit down and have a chat about what he views this as and what was missing from your session. What did he like or not like, what does he want added or changed.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As others have said Cuckolding is generally with a third party involved but at the end of the day does it really matter ? Sounds like you both had a great time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The stuff with the dildo is getting close to cucking but not quite there. Needs a real man and a real cock to *really* put your partner in their place =) |
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"The stuff with the dildo is getting close to cucking but not quite there. Needs a real man and a real cock to *really* put your partner in their place =)"
How many women do you know that would do that to the man they purportedly love? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
No. That is being a Domme not cucking. |
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It definitely doesn’t fit the classic definition of cucking, but you can probably be forgiven for thinking the term can apply more broadly to general humiliation kink stuff, especially as the term has found its way into public discourse over the last 5-10 years as an insult people tend to fling at each other without necessarily knowing or caring about its exact meaning.
It’s also worth noting the difference between cuckoldry and hotwifing, where both involve a husband watching (or just generally allowing) his wife fucking other guys, but in the latter it doesn’t necessarily involve him being degraded/humiliated and getting off on it, he’s just happy for her to enjoy herself, or perhaps he gets off on her being promiscuous, without the arrangement involving any actual disrespect towards him. |
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Firstly, what a lucky man he is! This sounds hot.
But no, this was not cuckolding. Cuckolding is very simple, but it’s progressed through being a kink to point where it can take many different shapes.
In the simplest form it’s just where a woman has sex with a man who isn’t her partner. This has developed further into the man knowing about it and accepting it. Which has then developed further, where the man actually gets off on it. And further again to the point where it features in a Domme/sub dynamic, and the man may be humiliated for accepting/enjoying it, denied sex himself, locked in a chastity cage, feminised, forced bi etc.
But however you look at it, real cuckolding needs a third party to have sex with the woman in a relationship. And the real definition actually requires marriage.
Cuckold role play can be just as fun though, even if lacking the intensity of the real thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
That doesn't sound like cuckolding in any sense that I know it, definitely leaning more towards domination ony eyes.
Regardless, sounds like he had a damn good time! "I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt" is something a lot of guys around here (myself included) would count themselves lucky to have a chance at.
Anyway, you do you, and don't worry about what label fits what you did best. Just enjoy it!  |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
no cuckolding is coupless loving couples in relationships most of cuckolf is not the sexual side its the mental game between hub n wife girlfriend n boyfriend ..
what your decribing is femdom zero to do with cuckolding ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
That's not cucking. That's just you dominating and degrading him. Cucking is fucking another guy Infront of him |
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Domination in my book, tie him down and fuck another guy and make him watch, much more cuck then, but to be honest the cuck dynamic is deeper than that, so for me its domination. Lucky guy though ! |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
I really don't mind what you call it, I just know that I'm an unruly maid that need disciplining.... thank you miss April lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
I think Cucking is making him watch you fuck his partner. But whatever it was, he was one luck man!!! |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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I’m your ‘fuck it’ list in your profile one of the things you wanted to try was to Domme a man while he was tied up, and you have written ‘DONE’ next to it so you’ve done that in the past. If you didn’t think that tying a man up, teasing him, putting a lead around his neck, SPH, spanking him and pegging him was Domme play then what was it that you did to be able to write ‘DONE’ next to tying a man up and being Domme? What you’ve described ticks almost every box for your run-of-the-mill, standard Domme play… |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
I'd like to introduce you to a female friend of mine. She's very into FemDom. You two would get on |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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its simple your not a relationship couple so its one zillion % not cuckold .. cuckold at the very least are a long term couple with emotions between each other it those emotions that make it cuckold not what you do sexually as 2 single people ... its like saying your married but your not
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"This is just female domination. Cucking is fucking another man infront/in the house/with his knowledge"
cuckolding is much much more than just fucking another man ... but your right its the basic a cuckold couple are a loving couple where one partner gets sexual satisfaction else where because the cuck cant |
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You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you |
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Not sure where the verbal abuse while fucking comes from? I fully, in my eyes, cuck him, have sex with other guys, dress him, peg him cage him and he obeys me or gets punished
Anyway l think what you did was just domination, get yourself a guy, make your sub kneel by the bed while you two have fun and then make him clean you both then he will know what a cuck is 
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you "
but they are not a couple in a relationship so its never cuckold  |
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"You did everything correctly you just needed to fuck another man in front of him and verbally abuse him as you fuck then after get him to eat your pussy and taste you both or make him suck the guys cock with you
but they are not a couple in a relationship so its never cuckold "
yes that is very true unless your in a marriage or a long term relationship it doesn’t mean anything other that a 3sum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Domination. 100%. Now if you combined all of that with fucking someone in front of him then that would be cucking him. Forced cuck would probably be right up your street, handcuff him and force him to watch. Lay him flat on his back and get fucked doggy style above his face.
If you need any volunteers then I'd love to help |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re not officially in a relationship but is kinda like we are… if that makes any sense "
nope your either together or not but its no biggie your still having fun but under the femdom banner not the cuckold one ...just enjoy it 
#justmyopinion
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection "
I haven’t read all of this thread.
As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc
There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
While I think we can all agree it’s insanely hot and he’s incredible lucky either way, I’d say it was more Dom/ Sub femdom and sissy play. To be cuck I guess it would need to be another guy and you and he can only watch, maybe clean up after or fully sissyfied by the other guy and you without being able to touch or be anything other than passive xxx |
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Definition of cuckold
A woman having an affair with another man.
A man doesn't have to humiliated, abused or denied, to be cuckolded. Therefore most swinging couples could be described as a cuckold relationship, as I, like most men, enjoy seeing their partner/wife royally fucked.
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Definition of cuckold
A woman having an affair with another man.
A man doesn't have to humiliated, abused or denied, to be cuckolded. Therefore most swinging couples could be described as a cuckold relationship, as I, like most men, enjoy seeing their partner/wife royally fucked.
F."
cant argue with that as a basic description thats is simply what cuckolding was for 100s of years a wife having sex with another man hence its couples that are cuckold not singles
things have moved on a little tho as we now have swinging and under that umbrella is a massive web of styles n kinks mixed with different sexualities some dont like labels some do ...i think they are important as labels are life but thats just me .... i would not buy mashed potatoe if what i really wanted was chips
#wearealldifferent #justmyopinion
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
Was this the first time you’ve done something like this by the way? You said you’ve been seeing each other for 2 years so I’m just wondering if you’ve been doing this together for the whole 2 years because if you have I’d have thought you’d have discussed whether it’s domination or cucking before now. It seems strange to do it for 2 years without discussing what it is that you’ve been doing.
But if this is the first time you’ve done it together, or you’ve only just recently started doing it, then I’d have thought you’d have discussed whether it’s domination or cucking whilst you were discussing trying it, as it’s not the sort of thing you’d start doing without discussing it first.
From what you say in your OP and the thread it sounds like you’ve either been doing it for 2 years or you’ve recently decided to start doing it but have only just talked to each other about it… |
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By *nkyCplCouple
over a year ago
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"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection
I haven’t read all of this thread.
As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc
There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck "
Nailed it. Really hope there is aftercare there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And we have v deep rooted emotional connection
I haven’t read all of this thread.
As you are relatively new to kink ( you would know this wasn’t cuck if you had been around awhile) have you checked out any educational resources, learnt how to provide aftercare after a scene, discussed safe words etc
There are lots of ways to get this information and support should you need it, to safeguard both You and your cuck "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
It certainly is and he is very very lucky |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
Sounds like you both had a good time though |
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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
I dont think you need any help ! Just showing off |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
if He is your husband it’s cuckolding at level 4 , you started to sissify him |
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"I'm confused. I love watching Mrs being fucked. Weather that be male or female. Introduce embarrassed & your done tho. That applies to both of us tho.  "
So sounds like is a Stag Vixen thing. A variable on a theme, long as you all enjoy it is main thing.
Cuckolding is a massive umbrella that comes under an even bigger umbrella lol
Just have fun, don't get hung up on labels |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted"
This is the only part of what you wrote which sounded a bit cucky to me.
I have to agree with the lucky fella about about the rest of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What you did wasn't cucking.
Almost completely unrelated but you're amazing, I'd literally crawl through 3 miles of liquid shit and barbed wire just to hear you fart through a walkie talkie  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends how pedantic about language you are.
If you mean in the ‘fab’ sense, where you can call anything you like just because you feel like it, and then sure, why the hell not if that’s what makes you happy
As you seem to be looking for ‘definition’ then no it isnt. Cuckholding is man and wife. Otherwise it’s just humiliation, which is also perfectly acceptable if you both enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You’ll be all pleased to know that I cucked my cuck last weekend and made him watch me get ruined by 2 big cocks
You can follow us on our journey via our couples profile: aprillovesdick
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m far from an expert but it does sound a bit more like dominating as opposed to cuckold. I always thought cuckold was humiliating and degrading using someone else in front of them.
Either way who cares what the label is as long as you’re both having fun |
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Going purely off the definition of cuckolding you'd need another man involved for it to be described as such.
But if the context behind all this is that you are fucking other men and this humiliation was a backdrop to it then yeah I'd describe it as cuckolding. Or at least related to cuckolding. |
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"So I’m currently having a discussion with someone and we recently had sex and he said what I did to him wasn’t cucking but was more domination…
IS THIS CUCKING?
- I made him dress up as a maid
- I made him get on his knees and made him suck my toes and lick my feet
- I tied him to the bed
- I put a belt around his neck and used it like a lead
- I fucked myself with my dildo and made him watch and told him he couldn’t touch
- I told him his penis is small compared to my dildo and this is what I really wanted
- I pegged him
- I spanked the shit out of his cute booty
- I sat on his face until he suffocated with squirt
- I made him say “thank you Miss April”
PLZ LET ME KNOW YOUR OPINIONS "
I’m not sure what it is but he’s definitely blessed that’s for sure !! |
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